it was early in the morning....everyone was asleep...or so we thought.....we dont know how long our 2 year old was standing there......WHAT DO WE DO? he said "what are you guys doing" we said "mommy and daddy were wrestling" and then he just said "oh, ok im ready for breakfast" Should we drop it???
2007-11-13 17:04:37 · 20 answers · asked by Lonely Turkey 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
uhm. you lock your kids out of your room at night? how sad for them....
2007-11-13 18:08:04 · update #1
Yeah, drop it... He's good with that response... No reason to make it a bigger issue if he hasn't...
2007-11-13 17:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by Maxy 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
As the father of 5 children I can tell you this, A child walking in on you while you are making love is a common occurance. How you handle it depends on the age of the child, younger children usualy have no concept of the sexual act so you can easily explain it away by saying you are playing, wrestling, etc. Older children who may have a better understanding of sex will be more embarrassed than you are about being caught thus you can bet that they will never just walk in with out knocking again. Dont worry about it, if being caught having sex by your child caused traumatic results everyone on earth would be walking around traumatized
2007-11-13 22:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason why locks are on bedroom doors no child should ever see thier parents like that. My mom and dad had 7 kids and they always locked the door at night as so not to have interruptions just drop it and leave it alone and be sure to be more careful the next time there is a reason why certain things should be behind closed doors, personal and private and not privy for anyone else.
2007-11-13 17:51:50 · answer #3 · answered by encourager4God 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He's 2 he has NO concept of what you were doing all he wanted was food , I have 5 kid's and 2 step kid's we got walked in on I dont know how many time's but 1 time that stick's in my memory is when my son who was 10 at the time came in without knocken then he walked out and we heard him yell to his siblings ewwww they're having sex.
The older kid's teased us for days but my 3 younger ones werent even phased by it so just forget about it and make sure to keep the blanket over you for future reference lol.
2007-11-13 18:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We were doing it one morning my wife was making some noise and my 3 year old daughter comes in crying ,.. Saying Daddy dont hurt Mommy . So we told her we were exerciseing ,,, She say Oh and walks out the door .... We laughed our butts off .. lol
2007-11-13 20:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by jimm_b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes drop it. he's too young to comprehend what you were exactly doing. if you continue to bring it up he will become very curious leading and act out some of your wrestling moves in daycare, school, etc. TRUST ME my sister is an asst. @ a daycare and it has happended before
2007-11-13 17:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have two boys and the both of them have intruded during good sex both of them thought it was funny and of course i was embarrassed but I'm glad that they were laughing rather than scared. My boys are6 and 9 and I teach them that love between me and their dad is good. And that's there nothing wrong with it once you find the person you love and married. My children have a full understanding and I'm glad they do. When I was young I walked in on my parents and was traumatized! LOL Love is LOVE and theres nothing to be ashamed of and I belive my children should know that.
2007-11-13 17:18:36 · answer #7 · answered by texasmom 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
As long as you had a blanket over the both of you i wouldn't mention it again,But i would think about getting a lock or something
2007-11-14 01:21:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes drop it and next time close door and lock it.
2007-11-13 17:28:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Drop it? Gosh no. Sit your 2 year old down and explain everything to a person who has no clue what a toilet is. I'm sure he'll understand.
Learn to lock the door.
2007-11-13 17:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
yes drop it and not talk about it again.. he got the answer he needed to know.. just be more careful.. maybe put something at the door so you know someones coming in it..
2007-11-13 17:30:24 · answer #11 · answered by Kat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋