I been with my BF for one year...his Pakistani and I am from north Africa. everything was good until I find out that his a gang member and his stuck with them.I gave up everything my body my soul, my job my Family. my Friends. I even changed just to make him happy I do everything that could do for him. he used to say I love u and I will never give u up .. only u or nobody....he used to say I am a man and I do what I want no body have power over me except god.. then last week he completely changed . he didn't call me for two days. before he used to call me.every five minutes...my parents are making my life hell. they say Ether us or him... I choose him..I didn't have any explanation why did he do that.. I asked him.. he told me he own a lot of money to his people. and he doesn't want to hold me.. and want me to move on... but its hard for me.... I cant do that he wants to be my Friend but I cant... he calls me today telling me that he loved me and his Ganna be with me the whole life..and everything Ganna be okay...I dont know what he want me to do... he give hope again. I love him.. we make out. please help me.. I am lost
2007-11-13 17:14:11 · 8 answers · asked by I_belong_to_me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 22 and his 24
2007-11-13 17:17:36 · update #1
Is it possible he's "into" something that you may not "know" about? Maybe he's just trying to protect you from something? Good luck and don't give up on yourself so easy. I don't know you at all, but want to say I care about your well being. Take care of yourself and ALWAYS think positive thoughts. Life is to short to think negative. (((((BIG hugs to you))))) :o)
2007-11-13 17:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by Peaches ( . ) ( . ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he was trying to test you to see if you would wait for him. Just stay true to yourself. The fact that he is a gang member should make you want to distance yourself from him. Nothing good can come of that. Talk to someone you trust, pray together about this situation.
2007-11-14 01:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave him he is in a gang he will only cause confusion and hell for you if he gets out of the gang then go back with him but until then stay away you can only get into trouble if you stay with him
2007-11-14 01:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by The_Info_Ninja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DRAMA, get rid of the loser and go home. You should never choose someone and give up everything, because when he leaves you will have nothing. Think lady!! stop whining and pull it together!
2007-11-14 01:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents love you and will always take you back, I promise. This SOB doesn't and won't. Leave, go back home and cut all ties with this guy. Your relationship is going from bad to worse and will NOT get better.
2007-11-14 01:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by Amzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it will be hard, but he really isn't worth of your love. he sounds like a ****!!! he think he's a man and thats why he can do anything...OMG!!! leave him. go on with your own life. there will be ups and downs but still life has to go on. why are you thinking of shooting yourself? YOU are not the loser dear...HE is the loser.
2007-11-14 01:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by Wonderful 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you 12? You really think some guy you don't know is going to treat you better than your own family?
2007-11-14 01:17:56 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he is giving you a line of bullsh#t!! Move on and leave this jerk.
2007-11-14 01:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋