I like a male bartender who works in a very busy bar-how do I get us started?

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I like a male bartender who works in a very busy bar-how do I get us started?
It's a busy dance bar and I've been in 1-2 X a week the last 3 weeks.The first time we "met" we instantly pressed our heads together over the bar to hear each other...another time I flirted with him and asked what drink does the sexy bartender recommend. He actaully seemed shy, his eyes dropped but there was also another wopman he was serving at the same time. Last few times I didn't order from him purposefully, but I smiled and he waved hi.We defintely are aware of each other It's hard to tell if he is wary or shy or what. I have a lot of attnetion from men in this club and I have defintely demo'ed to him that other men like me,are dancing w me, etc. but not making out or leaving w anyone or anything like that... I don't want to be so crass as to fling my number at him or s

Answer 1

Do you have any idea of how many women hit on a bartender in one night. You had better be careful that you don't end up with a disease. Bartenders are notorious for dating numerous women, and sleeping with numerous women. Be careful. He is playing the game. I know, I used to be a bartender. I watched these guys. They are experts on how to seduce women!! They get a lot of practice!!

Please, if you don't take my advice, do not sleep with him without protection!!!!