we talked for 4 hours and had fun but i said we should end the night, he hasn't txt/call me since then so i texted him today and told them that i would like to see him again but still he hasn't respond yet. is he just buying time or not really interested. HELP
2007-11-13 17:19:37 · 17 answers · asked by zigzag1223 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just give him some space. Let him come to you. Just because he hasn't responded doesn't mean he isn't interested, but don't start hounding him. If he was as into it as you were, he'll let you know.
2007-11-13 17:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is courteous to contact someone you just met and tell them you enjoyed the time spent. But not everyone does that.
The convenience of cell phones has made many people feel a constant need to be in touch with others. Some, however, don't think about keeping in touch as often, they get busy with their own lives, or work etc.
At the end of a date such as yours I think it would have been reasonable to make some statement about how much you enjoyed the date and that you hoped it could be repeated, just to see his reaction. Since you didn't you have no way of knowing if he was interested in continuing to get to know you.
You have made an effort to contact him, so let it go until he returns the courtesy.
2007-11-13 17:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats to need help with. He's not calling you back.
This is the new age, internet dating. I have a friend doing that now, she's been seeing three guys she's met on line for a handful of weeks. She's been on only one or two dates with each guy and last night was telling me about them.
Shallow, short term efforts all.
The old fashioned way is still best.
And if you are young enough to talk abouty texting, you porbably don't even know what I'm talking about.
2007-11-13 17:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you last time was not to call him or contact him. Texting is contacting him! You are chasing him and that is not attractive to a man. It comes off as needy and desperate. Men like to chase, let them. Back off and move on. He is not interested or he would have contacted you. I wish women would understand this concept that they should not be the one to contact a man after a date.
I know a girl who met a guy online and they spent the whole afternoon together. Nothing sexual just eating and having a great time. She never heard from him again. Don't take it personally, there are a lot of flakes out there. Okay, so good luck and don't contact him again! You are better than that! :)
2007-11-14 01:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so proud of you that you 'ended the night!'. If he hasn't called you or contacted you since then, he's either just after sex, holding out on you to get you hooked, or just plain RUDE.
Enjoy the fact that you had four fun hours, thank God you don't have to let yourself be emotionally hooked and move on before he gets in a position to 'put you on hold' over and over again for the rest of your life!
2007-11-13 17:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 11:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont even think about it, chances are he'll respond when your not rather than while your sat around waiting (That'll feel like its taking longer).
Just get on with your every day life & if he contacts,cool, initiate things from there, if not then well so what, you had a good time.
I wouldnt say "H's not interested" though bluntly liek that, because you dont know, he might be, he might not but just might not be good at initiating things, though if he is, he will do, so dont worry about it.
2007-11-13 17:26:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from what i think he probably not interested...if he was buying time he would of at least said some type of response to you talking about the conversationg last night or what not so if i were you i wouldnt get your hopes up and just shoot for a better star
*J.GO*
2007-11-13 17:24:07 · answer #8 · answered by jimmy g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be that he took ur last remark about ending the night the wrong way. but you only texted him today maybe he's busy or something. why dont u wait a few days & see what happens. Good luck!
2007-11-13 17:22:55 · answer #9 · answered by hawaiizangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would give him a few more days, cuz he may be out of town. tho i wouldn't call or text anymore since you've done that already, don't want to appear desperate. then after that, it's to move on from there. no worries, there are a kuzillion guys out there, did you notice? ;)
2007-11-13 17:29:29 · answer #10 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋