2007-11-13 17:21:56 · 17 answers · asked by Peace =) 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Having good communication skills. Taking time to think alot about the things they say. Paying attention to thinks they do.
2007-11-13 17:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by Midnight61 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To understand them better you've got to know how they think. Communication is so very important. If you're troubled about something or really excited about something, tell them and definitely convey to them that you'd like the same in return. I've seen too many relationships break up or have incredible problems all because one of the partners didn't communicate. This is good communication and even bad. Bad is better than nothing.
There will still be misunderstandings, but if the two of you have a healthy form of talking to one another then those misunderstandings can usually be dealt with.
Just remember: They can't read your mind and you can't read theirs either. If you don't talk about it then you'll never know!
2007-11-14 01:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by ashleydjr73 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention to the little details. Compliment her hair if she changes her hairstyle , listen to what she is talking about when you go out with her . When she talks about unpleasant things in her life, be supportive & understanding. In time , she support you in the same way. If you are not her friend , you'll be her friend, if you're already friends , she might want to be more than friends.
2007-11-14 01:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by nur'ain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do listen to them.Try to focus on their needs and wants and let them know that their needs and wants are important to you even if they are not of any interest to you.By showing concern for there feelings and interests you encourage them to become a more satisfied human being and help them to grow as individuals which in turn will eventually come back to you.
2007-11-14 01:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of partner? If friends just go out have fun all together. If gf or bf, need to take more time to spend with them and try to let her know u are take care of her
2007-11-14 01:24:54 · answer #5 · answered by yang Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, Understand, Patient when they talked & wait to take a turn to talked, good communication.
2007-11-14 01:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are from mars women are from Venus. Cheesy, i know, but it's a good book for understanding the opposite sex. you can also just ask and listen to the answer.
2007-11-14 01:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by Amzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read this book :
http://books.google.com/books?id=Lpk_o-bZrBkC&printsec=frontcover&dq=inauthor:Deborah+inauthor:Tannen&ei=r5Q6R_zJGITS7QL46czWCg&sig=TCa3JrCDmqvmBidjq8mKRwEy6ic#PPA9,M1
You Just Don't Understand by Deborah Tannen
2007-11-14 01:25:53 · answer #8 · answered by is better than you 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tune in to their feelings and build trust. respect their feelings and be there for them. communication is the key to understanding...
2007-11-14 01:25:08 · answer #9 · answered by Kimmi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when they say i dont like when you...., thats so annoying, etc. most guys dont listen but girls tend to give a lot of hints as to what they like and dont like guys just need to listen...and if they dont understand just ask
2007-11-14 01:25:00 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋