Family & Relationships - 13 November 2007

I mean do you really get the magnitude of what you have done and all the incredilbe pain you caused to your spouse and children? How is it you can live with yourself?

2007-11-13 15:12:18 · 14 answers · asked by BLONDIE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK, I need Feedback from Men out there. What can a woman do to make her huband want sex more often, especially when he is really not in the mood? I want my husband to "WANT" me, however, I do not want to be overpowering.

We do our weekly thing, however, I want to spice it up.

2007-11-13 15:11:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is what he said he was going to do. I am just hoping that I will also have to be there?

2007-11-13 15:07:30 · 21 answers · asked by RTSGIRL 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is 16 and I am 14, he fingered me and we both wanted to. Somehow my parents found out and they said that they are going to try and get him in some kind of trouble for it. We checked the laws but im still really confused...Any comments??

2007-11-13 15:06:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 19 and its clear that both me and my parents want me out of the house. The problem is that the money i make varies week to week from 75 to MAYBE 100 dollars. I absolutely hate the job im at. Im so unhappy and im stuck in an awful rut. My parents wont help out, and they make me buy my own groceries, clothes and pretty much anything else i need. How am i supposed to get out of here?? like i said i hate my job, but it looks good on a resume, and finding a higher paying job around here is near impossable because i live in a college town and there all taken. anyone im willing to share a place with already has one at their school. I only go to community college and it doesn’t offer dorms..i NEED TO GET OUT!! but how??

(Sorry its so long... i kinda went on a rant)

2007-11-13 15:06:18 · 12 answers · asked by Katy 1 in Family

You're probably thinking that's not such a bad thing. I AM happy that he's not the opposite (a total slob). However, my husband is so neat that I feel like I'm on pins and needles about the housework. He is cool in every other aspect of our marriage, but he has gone too far with the house cleaning. My best example to explain his madness......On Sunday, he went bike riding for the entire afternoon. I wanted to stay home and do laundry, clean the floors, etc (I actually like cleaning when I'm alone!). The house was spotless, as always...

Then, 2 days later (Tuesday), he mentions that he sees water spots/my long hair (strands of it) on the kitchen floor, and that the place needs to be vacuumed more often.

I work full time, my husband works full time. We have a wonderful relationship but it hurts me when he tells me that I "don't care" or don't put enough effort into the home like he does. We've talked about it but nothing's changed. I feel like I'm cinderella.

2007-11-13 14:59:15 · 16 answers · asked by A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are getting custody of his son and he and his son's mother were never married, shes giving us custody of him and we need examples of arrangments because we cannot afford a lawyer.

2007-11-13 14:51:33 · 3 answers · asked by April D. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister's husband has a really cool family and I enjoy hanging out with them. They have referred to me as their brother in law. I was just wondering what others thought.

2007-11-13 14:51:17 · 7 answers · asked by stlsigma2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, it all started about a year ago I guess. I was at school, and it was near the end of the year we were all signing year books, I felt partially isolated all year by guys anyways but anywhoo I was trying to be super friendly and get everyone to sign my yearbook because I knew I wasnt going to come back to that school next year so- I asked this one guy to sign my year book that I didnt talk to but he was sort of popular so I knew he'd sign it so I went up, and he said the weirdest thing. "hey, do you know/like this guy jim? he said you like stalked him last year(atmyoldschool) " so, that was it i realized. that was why the guys distance themselves from me, just because they think i like them, or am going to stalk them, then he proccedded to tell a guy next to him I liked him which was the complete opposite. I told the guy that I did not like the other guy Jim, I said "ew". He just kind of walked away and I get that feeling wherever I go to school.Now im an at all girls school and the

2007-11-13 14:51:09 · 7 answers · asked by Hellok ♥; 2 in Singles & Dating

Husband was deployed when child support was put in place. When you're deployed you get all this money for being in another country and for hazard duty. Florida looks at ALL the money you're making. So, he is paying over 1000 for 1 child. That's half his monthly income now, and he can't afford another lawyer, because the debt his ex left him with with the divorce. All the money he made downrange on the side went to a lawyer for a divorce. Does anyone have any kind of advice? He's out of state and really needs help. She is living like she's in Hollywood right now and their child is wearing rags, because that's how she is. It's killing him. Attorneys don't have hearts though, and we can't afford the consultation fee... but if there's someone out there who can recommend someone or something, it will greatly help. Thanks!

2007-11-13 14:49:51 · 2 answers · asked by Bunny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the BIGGEST thing you look for in a woman?

2007-11-13 14:48:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband was with a prostitute recently and he knows he has a problem. He is getting help.

How do I deal with this? It comes to my mind all the time and makes we question How could he? and it makes me sick.

Please help in ways I can get past this.....

2007-11-13 14:46:42 · 29 answers · asked by K_A_mom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can't for the life of me understand why these jokers even try to get with us. Don't they know that they got no game? Ain't no black women that want some small white dude.

We only want REAL men. Brotha's.

2007-11-13 14:45:56 · 11 answers · asked by crownroyal28 1 in Singles & Dating

I am executor of my mom's estate and I want my brother and sister to pay an equal portion to pay off the home and also the legal fees. We all got equal shares of a life insurance policy. We each got six figure's so I don't see a problem. But I don't want conflict so I am hesitant to ask. But the legal fees is no negotiation, I expect to be helped.

Right now I feel like my whole family with the exception of my grandparents and my girlfriend, have moved on with their lives while I am stuck to pick up the pieces. Why do I have to come begging to my own family for help? My life is on hold right now and I have had to take a lot of time off of work to handle the estate. I am tired! Is it too much to ask for a little financial piece of mind? I spend the week working and handling estate issues and then on the weekend's my girlfriend and I go through my mom's paperwork and belongings. Nobody else really seems to give a shyt. I'm not angry at them just frustrated and disappointed.

2007-11-13 14:42:06 · 22 answers · asked by Veritas et Aequitas () 7 in Family

He says not to worry but he is on phone at 2 am in morning. While he is at work and will not talk to her in front of me. She is in another state but still, I have ask him not to talk to her while not around me. She called me and said he was going back to her when he finished police academy. He says he only told her that to get his moms jewelry back and for me not to worry.

But I do I do not like him talking to her a total of 24 hours per month. I am sick and this is not helping me.

2007-11-13 14:39:30 · 17 answers · asked by lizzybit64 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy. We connected over a trip. He completely inspires me in everything. I feel so comfortable with him, and i don't think that i can imagine becoming this close to anyone else. BUT he has a girlfriend. I respect that and i don't flirt with him because of this. I know i wouldn't want anyone hitting on my boyfriend. But our innocent conversations made me fall for him. Now we talk all of the time (still innocently) and my frieds thik that there is something going on between us. I know its wrong, but i think he feels coected to me too, and it feels like we are already dating because i know that i can trust him with anything, and he's the one i want to go to when i have something great or horrible happen. I just would like to know what to do. I know that this is ot a normal crush. Never have i felt this good about something. I feel guilty because i know in my heart that we are supposed to be more thn friends, but he already has a girlfriend (a supposedly mean one, but still a gf

2007-11-13 14:38:34 · 22 answers · asked by lovely lovely 3 in Singles & Dating

I filed back in May for a divorce. We've been separated since the end of March. I originally asked for full custody (80/20). He came back and asked for sole. After that, I began to compromise, and basically split everything down the middle. I would take the debt, and no child support, I would cover our son insurance-wise, etc. I thought it was a pretty easy deal to settle on. I have since changed my mind and decided to go for full, but am scared to death that I won't get it. I want to be the primary caregiver and be in charge of making the major decisions. My ex has followed me from work several times, threatened people I've talked to, left a million nasty phone messages (which aren't admissible in court), called me names, and made poor decisions for our son. I am having to drive round trip of 75 mi to get my son from daycare (my ex in-laws), because he refuses to help with the transportation. Anyway, I don't really have anything to prove that he's unfit, although I know it in my heart

2007-11-13 14:37:59 · 8 answers · asked by ygfish3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there anyone of you who are in the same boat & still is successful with their relationships?

2007-11-13 14:37:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-13 14:36:40 · 6 answers · asked by pretty114 1 in Singles & Dating

I really need help with this , hopefully someone can help me!!
If my son's father "who doesn't live with us" earns 2,400 a month, what could be the monthly payment for child support?? I want to tell my social worker that he gives me just enough for her not to force him into child support.

2007-11-13 14:34:55 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i know if i tell him he will be shocked,
but idk he could feel the same way abt me.
he kinda acts like it SOMETIMES.
PLEASE DONT LEAVE A RUDE RESPONSE.
im young and need advice from an OLDER person :]]

2007-11-13 14:34:02 · 5 answers · asked by Love15<3 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 14:33:53 · 5 answers · asked by mitchchan 5 in Singles & Dating

Look the last month my friend told the girl that i liked, that i liked her, and she didn't believed that, that she wanted me to say that if its true, soo i ask her the same day, and she said no, that she looked me as a friend, but the last days she been looking at me in class and at lunch, i'm almost sure that she suddenly likes me, how do i get her to be with me? withouth re-asking may be preferd.

2007-11-13 14:33:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

36 and lived off family very happily with all that one can want till now. Got somewhat of the lower end of a higher education and never really used it. Worked maybe 8-12 months out of my whole life.Family says you can go now and thats it. Was left with enough to last a few years of barely living and now its running out. Lost in metropolis United States. About to go on welfare with a taste for the best. HELP?

2007-11-13 14:32:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

first, i've never dated anyone, so how do i get a boyfriend? second, when i do get a boyfriend and it gets close to the first kiss, how do i tell him i've never kissed anyone?

2007-11-13 14:30:30 · 5 answers · asked by secret_mystery0 2 in Singles & Dating

do most women find italian men to be sexy ... and if so, why are they sexy? i'm curious to know. i'm second generation italian american with the olive skin, dark hair and dark eyes, nice slender build, and all of the italian features. most women have said that i'm very handsome, cute, or sexy. what is it with women and italian men?

2007-11-13 14:30:29 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it really wierd to date someone that is almost three years younger than me when we are this age? We like eachother alot, but I don't know if people will think that I am a perv or anything. And I want to do what's right for both of us, and I don't want any broken hearts. What do most people think of relationships at this age, with this age difference?

2007-11-13 14:29:35 · 9 answers · asked by Celestino 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 14:28:51 · 8 answers · asked by mitchchan 5 in Singles & Dating

We cant tell women how we feel because its a womens way or we are automatically pigs.

Women just fib better, so, shame on you, but I do want a friend with benifits.

2007-11-13 14:27:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what would you do for the best answer and 10 fricken licken chicken pts.


PS. i have already asked this question.. but its pissing me off that like 2 people responded.

PPS. i am well aware this is the wrong catergory.

PPS. hahah i said PP.hahah. ^^^
=]

2007-11-13 14:26:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating