I mean do you really get the magnitude of what you have done and all the incredilbe pain you caused to your spouse and children? How is it you can live with yourself?
2007-11-13 15:12:18 · 14 answers · asked by BLONDIE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes I recently cheated on my husband..It was very satisfying..I enjoyed myself..He doesn't know and neither does my three children..So it didn't cause them any pain, and no they probably will never find out. I live with myself b/c I have been in a very abusive relationship for the last6 years and I wanted to see if I had remorse..I didn't..So now I am leaving my husband..
2007-11-13 15:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs.D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if the love and lust are lost its only a matter of time. People want to be needed and need to be wanted in my opinion. When my wife and I drifted apart it was only a matter of time. And then it didn't matter who did what when. If people love each other and communicate it doesn't have to get to that point. The worst is when you think you can find someone again who thinks the way you do and has similar values, you find out how hard it really is and how shallow and self serving so many people are. I personally am guilty about some things and angry about others. More than anything I am regret full things weren't done differently at the time, before it was too late.
2007-11-13 15:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by William B music lover 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know that did they fell guilty or not but i would like to share some of answer i get from the man around me.
my father said:
i feel so sorry to all of you. but please forgie me this is my destiny, also the astrolory telling me that i have 2 wives.
my ex-boy friend said:
how could i tell you taht i have the other girl friend?
everybody are selfish, no until they find the other one and make it sure, no body will telling truth.
i ask him, so did i do anything wrong? he told me " no..because you are too nice, that's why let me feel that i am not special"
my ex-husband said:
do you know? Taiwan is a smal country, no valu to me, USA just good to me...
so, what do you think,? look those men around no any one feel guilty....
but, let them feel guilty is not the big point right?
nobody can help you, even the psychologist. only yourself.
find your confdnes back, find your interesting back, try to laugh, try not to repression yourself. if you feel cry just let it crying out and loud,
the truth is nobady can give you guarantee that your life will be better after all, but one thing can be different is finally you can live with truth, is clear and clean.
your mind will be realess.
wish good luck and good life
2007-11-13 15:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by sophia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been lied to and cheated on...and it's the worst pain i have ever felt in my life i would never do something like that to anyone...The person who cheat's never care's about what he/she has really done to there spouse otherwise they would have never done it in the first place. There is no reason for what they have done...if they wanted to be with someone else physically or another relationship...they should have broke it off with the one they are with first.
2007-11-13 15:28:33 · answer #4 · answered by Trisha m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never cheated on anyone, but have been cheated on
and no they do not understand what they have done or the pain they have caused
i have always said once a cheater always a cheater
I dont know how they can live with themselfs knowing what they have done
if you get a real cheater to answer the question maybe they will be honest enough to tell you
2007-11-13 15:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had both types of dreams where I either slept with or made out with another guy and where my husband has cheated on me with another chick and I confronted him about it in the dream. I admit to feeling a little guilty about the dreams where I slept with another guy, but more confused than anything because I kept wondering what does this mean?
2016-05-23 02:15:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have and never will cheat... but, I believe that cheaters never will comprehend the full magnitude of their actions. Cheaters are selfish, self centered people. Why should you or I expect them to think of anyone other than themselves?
Good luck.
2007-11-13 15:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, could have cheated, but knew that I could not do that to my wife. we made vows, and I have a concious, there is no way that I could live w/myself, I just tried hard to not put myself in situations that could get myself in trouble, now here's the kick in the ***, after all that and loving my wife w/all my heart she cheats on me. ain't life a kick in the ***!, I truly believe that she was and is clueless as to what magnitude she smashed my heart to pieces. Being single sucks, I want to date again, but am being very picky(scared to put my heart on the line again), thanks for letting me vent. some people have no concious and can smile to the world without and remorse or regard for others feelings. welcome comments or questions from people with good hearts
2007-11-13 15:31:03 · answer #8 · answered by evolution is a muthafuka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never cheated but have been cheated on and they do not know the magnitude of what they have done.
2007-11-13 15:15:51 · answer #9 · answered by Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never cheated, but been cheated on. i do not believe at first that they even care what they have done, but if they get cheated on and abandoned they will know how it feels than. some people don't have a conscience, because they don't think of god and right and wrong, just their own selfish desires.
2007-11-13 22:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋