Guys think I like them, when I don't, HELP (please read my long explanation)?

Question

Ok, it all started about a year ago I guess. I was at school, and it was near the end of the year we were all signing year books, I felt partially isolated all year by guys anyways but anywhoo I was trying to be super friendly and get everyone to sign my yearbook because I knew I wasnt going to come back to that school next year so- I asked this one guy to sign my year book that I didnt talk to but he was sort of popular so I knew he'd sign it so I went up, and he said the weirdest thing. "hey, do you know/like this guy jim? he said you like stalked him last year(atmyoldschool) " so, that was it i realized. that was why the guys distance themselves from me, just because they think i like them, or am going to stalk them, then he proccedded to tell a guy next to him I liked him which was the complete opposite. I told the guy that I did not like the other guy Jim, I said "ew". He just kind of walked away and I get that feeling wherever I go to school.Now im an at all girls school and the

girls do not like me either I think. Note, I DID NOT stalk any guy, I think that is very weird and a dumb thing to do. So, my question is, how do I get guys to know I only like them as friends, and to be friendly but not flirty? I come off as flirty I guess, but I am not. I also feel isolated at this all girls school, and I do not do it to myself, I do not know why no one likes me, I don't talk alot but maybe, I guess I should? I feel like I am always a victim and thats a horrible feeling. I try and connect with people and talk but then they just brush me off. I went from a small school for 7 yrs to a big school for one year now this medium-sized all girls school, and I may be going back to a co-ed school next year. Allof these schools are private schools. I am bi-ratial, I am intelligent && ive been called pretty;beatufiul;awesome; etc. Do you think that comes off as intimidating? I do not know. Maybe I shouild just stop caring?

Thank you for all the answers everyone :-) You all rock !! I'll just deal with it as things come next year- sorry for my question being so long- I guess I just needed to talk. ♥.

Oh yes, I assure you I am not disgusting, I stay fit & I take care of my hygenine. :-)

Answer 1

Get over your self and when you get another boyfriend don't hold the leash so tight.

Answer 2

Sometimes it is just how you approach guys or how you speak to them. I am not saying guys are dumb but sometimes they misinterpret what we do and think that means we like them. Just try to get to know a few of those guys by just saying hi and not being too forward. I dont know what else to tell you because it doesn't seem to be a big deal now that you are at an all girls school. But good luck anyways.

Answer 3

well...after reading all that...I would say to just be really careful how you lead on guys, what you say, how you look at them. Some guys are desparate enough, or like you enough to take anything as a sign. Some guys are really dense, some are really sensitive (me) and I know that I can falsly interpret things that are just good friend things into, "whoa, maybe she really likes me" So just be careful, most people think guys are too dense, but some, and maybe most, can pick up on signs pretty well.

Answer 4

ummmmm wow no offense but i get the impression u do talk a lot. Maybe u r 2 intimidatin. Watch other people and c y u like 2 hang wit them. OR maybe u smell weird (JK)

Answer 5

You must be hot for guys to think that, because I gave up reading that novel you wrote.

Answer 6

be honest at all times especially with yourself its okay to say i don't know its okay to saqy no its okay to say yes as long as that is what you feel at time of question, so if someone is lying about you just say it isnt true or this is ther truth

Answer 7

so what's your question. or problem. seems like you already solved it.