What is the Best Way to Make My Husband Want More SEX?

Question

OK, I need Feedback from Men out there. What can a woman do to make her huband want sex more often, especially when he is really not in the mood? I want my husband to "WANT" me, however, I do not want to be overpowering.

We do our weekly thing, however, I want to spice it up.

Answer 1

There are a couple of things to try... I'm not trying to be vulgar, just helpful...

1) Give him a bj while still asleep. Wake him up doing it. Now that would be absolutely amazing.
1a) Don't allow him to have sex with you afterwards... Tell him... "Later" or "Not now, tonight maybe". It will drive him nuts.
2) Ask him to call in "Horny" (instead of sick) to work some day. And actually if he said horny to his boss, his boss would laugh and tell him, "see you tomorrow..."
3) During your weekly session, don't get naked first thing. Let him undress you. You might want to wear some lingerie under your normal clothes and let that be a surprise.
4) Thigh highs and garters are always good ideas.

Hope this helps... Have fun.

Answer 2

Ahhh....this is a GOOD one! And I hope that you will read mine - even though I am a woman. I often have problems getting my man in the "mood" - as he has passed his "peak" in life. Personally, the best thing you can do is be open to new ideas. REALLY open. Examples: surprise him with a porno movie; dress up in something sexy (fishnet stockings, high heels, gloves, maybe a whip?); surprise him while he's watching tv with oral sex - usually by the time you get him "worked up" he will no longer be focused on the tv and will engage in sex. I am not really prone to this one but it works for a lot of other couples - role playing. Dress up, or pretend to be someone else (it doesn't work for me because I never want to make love to anyone else other than my husband :-) OH! THIS is a good one - go to the translation site I've listed below - type in some english phrases and translate them into another language (French is the prefered one). And if you go up behind him and start whispering in his ear some "phrases of love" in another language - THAT will get him going. And if you are REALLY into trying new things - surprise him and take him to an Adult shop one afternoon and pick out some "toys" together. If you happen to have kids - some of this will be a little more difficult (we have kids, but somehow we always find a way). So..... I hope that I have given you some ideas to work with. If you want to start off easy - try the translation. Guys go CRAZY for women speaking a different language. Good luck!

Answer 3

You need to FEEL sexy and in turn you will get him to feel it too. When you are needing a naughty session, text him or email him a naughty idea. Maybe "can I kiss you in a special spot later?" or "I just went to Victoria's Secret..." It will get him thinking about you early in the day and he'll know what you want to do after work. Continue once you are home with more kissing than normal or a little squeeze to an area of interest. Get creative and hopefully he'll follow your cues. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 4

change the alarm clock to go off a half hour before the time that your husband usually wakes up. as soon as he realizes that he is up too early............ jump him. his brain will first think that he needs sleep but the only other thing better than sleeping is sex so jump him before he trys to sleep some more. try it. it works for me.

Answer 5

once a week who'd ya marry Hank Hill
I'm sorry but the problems don't sound like your fault.
unless hes in his sixties his libido is waaaayyyyy too low.
make sure hes not getting it from somewhere else
then spike his food with some Viagra

Answer 6

when you are watcing tv leave and put on something really sexy. start telling him how sexy he looks and flirt. out of the blue just grab him and kiss him. take a nice bubble bath and light candles and then call him in to wash your back.

Answer 7

Use your imagination and credit card.

Good luck.

Answer 8

get him to look at u naked