Ok so i am really popular at my school and have been since freshman year. the thing is that now im feeling stuck, i have tons of popular freinds who are actually nice and get invited to all the big parties but im not making progress. Like most of the popular girls who are my freinds hang out with the jocks who im not really freinds with cus i dont play sports ( i broke my neck 3 years ago) so its sometimes akward but everyone still likes me. If your popular please tell me wat u do to get noticed become more popular. I dont just want to be cool anymore i want to be the most popular guy in school. How do i get ther? And dont critizice me , i kno it sounds stupid to some people but i HAVE to be the center of attention...so keep your negative comments to your self
2007-11-13 17:25:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I was Prom Queen in high school, so I guess that qualifies me as popular.
I was honestly just myself. I love to be friendly and smile at everyone. In fact I love to make grouchy people smile, it's like my mission lol.
So be nice to people, but be genuine and people will like you for who you are and subsequently you will become popular. Don't let popularity be your driving force, strive to be a wonderful person and people will follow.
2007-11-13 17:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by Calista 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with wanting to be popular, but you should understand why you have such a need to be at the center of attention.
You might not value this answer, because I can't tell you how to become popular. I don't know the social structure of your school.
What I do want you to notice is that popular kids in high school tend to get a little lost afterwards, because it is impossible to remain "the popular kid" in college. There are simply too many people for "popularity" to even be possible. Without this role available, the popular kids tend to actually cut themselves off from a lot of social opportunities, and don't build a lot of normal social skills. They might get bitter, or have a hard time pursuing coursework or major/career decisions, or they might resort to alcohol and drugs to fill the void left by not being able to remain the center of attention.
I think you will ultimately be the right kind of "popular" if you branch out and befriend those who are NOT popular. The most mature kids (seniors, typically) often begin to realize this and do it. Those who don't realize it tend to suffer later.
2007-11-13 17:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you unable to play sports or do you just not want to because you broke your neck three years ago? If it's the second one, start playing sports again because girls like that and it was THREE years ago. If you really can't play sports, then just be yourself and be funny. Make friends, and be nice to everyone, including the nerds. After all, popular means to be liked by a lot of people. If you want attention, take it. Get into conversations and join clubs and talk to everyone and make people laugh. And being friends with popular upperclassmen helps.
2007-11-17 05:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, this is a useless question. but im kind so let me break it down to you...
you dont need to do anything. you got there on your own with out any help from others. just do what you do and you will be fine. and damn, whats wrong with you? you dont talk to jock becouse you dont play sports? SO? does that mean you cant do anything with them? listen sparky:
you dont become popular becouse you do a lot of crazy stuff that brings attention. you get in becouse your always open for a conversation. hang in the heavens then you dance on the earth, you know what im sayin?
and besides, do you have anything better to do? wash the dishes, do your homework or something.
2007-11-13 17:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by thadus_2pk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am the most popular kid of the entire school you know I am the president and cheerleader. Well lets see you could like wear the latest and hottest clothes. And dont be like a snob be like cool and laid back. Maybe you could like run for president or sumthin. That would be like major poplar points. Hmm lets see what else. Dont be a player but make sure to always keep a cute poplular girl on your arm. Yea that would help. And myspace is another good way. Make your myspace the hottest of all the othe myspaces. And get alot of friends on myspace. Yup. I guess I said it all. Hope this helps and hope you become even more popular!
2007-11-13 17:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by mommas33196 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
youve said yourself that you are popular...who measures or determines who is the MOST POPULAR....??
i dont think in any situation there is just one most popular person...
be true to yourself, treat others well, respect your peers, help those who need help and most of all enjoy these years you will never be able to go back and do it again...
2007-11-13 18:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they make you feel akward then tell them how you feel
act like your self coz if you keep acting they will like you for who your trying to be and not who you are and if you all of a sudden start acting normal you will go down the hill so act like your self and dont allways hide your feelings...
2007-11-15 18:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by wild chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself stupid!...I'm popular at my school too..stay where you are..you don't ant to be the center of everything..you just want them girls...just be yourself...
2007-11-13 17:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have th3e biggest pokemon card collection than you'll be the coolest kid in existance
2007-11-13 17:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by m_jizzle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be yourself, don't cater to what other people want you to be.
your so called "popularity" won't matter jazz when you graduate.
2007-11-13 17:29:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋