I see the lads once a week on a Saturday night, we go out drinking and then to a night club.
Now I love my girlfriend like mad, she’s one of the best things that’s ever happened to me….BUT she gets so moody and off when I tell her I’m seeing the lads. She has even called me and tried to cause a fight to ruin my night when I have been out.
I don’t see what the big deal is…..I go out on a sat night, drinking and clubbing but I spend a lot of the rest of my free time with her!!! I’m not cheating I just wana see my mates and have a laugh…how can I get her to understand this and not freak out at me all the time….
also the thing is the lads wana a lads night...sometimes we bring the girls but we like a girl free night once a week!! some space to recharge as it where! Why can she see its not such big deal??
I need her to understand im not gunna give this up no matter how much she strops out…..
Can any of you shed light on why shes behaving like this??
2007-11-13 22:58:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes girls can get jealous fast... Maybe since you've already had the girls go with tell her to go out to the club or with friends that night so she goes and has fun too.. And inform her that she means a lot to you and you'd never cheat...
My boyfriend goes out and i get jealous but he just tells me he loves me and doesnt want anyone but me just wants to have fun drinking with the guys. And even when he goes out to clubs i tell him not to dance with girls... and he tells me he doesnt
2007-11-13 23:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by rayray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take up a sport or daytime hobby and involve ur friends that way... maybe paintball or sailing or archery? But clubbing & drinking & picking up girls with ur mates while your girlfriend sits at home is not acceptable.
She needs to know your relationship is serious & unless you change your ways, the best thing that ever happened to you will leave.
2007-11-14 07:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's insecure, cause thats what happens when females get that way. She also may have somee trust issues... Ive been there before, not like that now cause when the guys have a night out, so do us girls :)
Maybe encourage her to have a girls night out :)
2007-11-14 07:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by Fearful Soul 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is worried about you cheating on her . Have you done that in the past ? You need to reassure her how much you love her and maybe buy here a card or small gift and give it to her before you out with your friends .
Good luck to you !
2007-11-14 07:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by Michele b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she loves ya and obviously has jealousy issues. women tend to feel very threatened when their partner is going to be in an environment where they have the potential to be hit on, etc. by memebers of opposite sex. just tell her you love her and you need a night or two out to unwind with your friends. explain to her that she too should be out with her friends letting her hair hang down! it doesnt mean you dont love her or want to find someone else, just that you want to have a relationship with your buddies too!
2007-11-14 07:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest that she take a night out with her female friends too.
2007-11-14 07:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like you said she is jealous I would be to sorry.
2007-11-14 07:02:49 · answer #7 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋