ii had sex with my bf
and my mom doesnt know and she suspects
shes getting me a physical to test it out
and if she finds out ii will never be able to see my bf again
and ii love him
it was so worth it either way
ii wasnt horny or anything
ii trust him
ii need to get out of this
can ii lie and say ii finger or it was a tampon
will it work????
2007-11-13 23:23:53 · 13 answers · asked by Person I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont think iim a whore but iim sortta young but not really
ii love him and trust him and if it was legal ii would marry rite now
DROP DEAD serouis
2007-11-13 23:34:09 · update #1
Any doctor can tell your mother that there are many reasons why a hymen may not be intact, but lying about all of this isn't a good idea.
2007-11-13 23:28:03 · answer #1 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For females, virginity used to be defined by an intact hymen. The hymen is located about a half-inch inside the vagina. Not all girls are born with hymens, which makes this definition of virginity somewhat misleading.
Unless there is tearing of your insides, from really rough sex I dont think even the doctor will be able to tell if you have had sex. But, you really shouldnt sneak around, you dont want an unplanned pregnancy. Make sure both of you are using birth control.
2007-11-13 23:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by phoenixlstilwell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? If your mother doesn't know that a girl can break her Hymen many ways other then sex, then she needs to go to talk to a doctor and learn something. It also isn't right of your mother to make you get a test like that, how embarrassing that would be. Good luck !
2007-11-13 23:36:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jenniferann88 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like that one girl said the doctor can tell your mom the hymen broke from other reasons like your tampons or masturbating. Lie to the doctor when he does it when he tells your mom your not a virgin/your hymen broke just say well i haven't had sex.
But other than that i dont think there is anything else you can do but lie but one lie is going to lead to another, and sooner or later your mom's going to find out your having sex and not a virgin.
2007-11-13 23:37:16 · answer #4 · answered by Rayray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hectic! I've never heard of anyone doing a test like that! But its silly because you can break your hymen by being a gymnast, horse riding, riding a bicycle... so many ways! Shame, I really feel for you! Good luck. What a shitty situation to be in!!!!!!!
2007-11-13 23:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so out dated...u can appear to not be a virgin by using tampons. I am so sorry u have to go through this. Good luck girl!
2007-11-13 23:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by Calisofie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just claim that you masturbate with vigorous force.
They will be checking for a broken hymen.
I'm pretty sure that you can not be forced to get tested. Just don't agree to it nor sign ANYTHING.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hymen
And buy condoms...
2007-11-13 23:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be Muslim
no one does this in European or American culture its absurd.
Act traumatized by even the thought of a Doctor touching you this is how a virgin acts.. Cry your way out of it
2007-11-13 23:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol, well my grandma lost her virginity on hurdles in pe lol, i lost mine by someones finger i bled for a couple of days, if your over 16 your mum cant do much about it.
2007-11-13 23:30:09 · answer #9 · answered by lilhails 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You fell off your bike and started bleeding one day. That happens to a lot of girls.
2007-11-13 23:31:51 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋