Family & Relationships - 17 November 2007

Is there anyone real left to talk that actually enjoys conversation

2007-11-17 14:50:38 · 2 answers · asked by Kaiel Themael Blolese 2 in Singles & Dating

i had a friend he lost her husband and its a very sad story bcoz the body was not found, its happens when her husband going home from his work from a mountain full of snow.......its been two years now and my friend still longing to his husband would go home and i wanted to help her..how can i advice her to stop expecting her husband would go back....im glad to hear your answers to those who's concern,,tanx in advance

2007-11-17 14:49:51 · 13 answers · asked by akira 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i go in the other day for a anual exam an he goes all sayin how he sees me in the grosery store an I thout it was kinda weird (&cute) but kinda impresive caus he's not too bad lookin. not all nerdy like alot of dentists where their going bold, rinkled, and smelly. THIS dentist is cashual cool, smells good (i would LOVE to know what he wears!!!) and then usually the doctors wear the face masts when they get all close to hte face but he didnt wear one!!!! WHY? I been havin all these fantisies sinse I saw him on Thursday. I DREAM about him, and I think about him all thu the days, I cant even stay focus'd and now im thinking that he feels the same way becaus all the signals are leadin up to that:

1. Said he saw me in the grosery store
2. didnt wear a face mask when he got on top of me
3. Told me "there there honey its going to be ok"
4. Devilish smiling

2007-11-17 14:47:27 · 26 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 14:47:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with the same guy for the past five and a half years. We have two beautiful children together. We used to have an alright relationship. I should add that he is 24 & I'm 23. I guess you could say it was a typical relationship for that age. But after having kids I've really changed. I'm a totally different person. The thing is is he isn't. He'll even admit that he hasn't changed. He still goes out with his friends almost every night. Granted they're not at the bar, but still, he's not at home with his family. He does whatever he wants to whenever he wants to. I, on the other hand, have to make sure it's okay if I go here or there and I have to give him a specific time I'll be back. He never takes the kids anywhere with him & he's never had them for more than an hour by himself. He usually goes to his mom's. I'm getting very frustrated and starting to resent him. I feel like I'm a single mom! I've tried talking to him but its not working! I'm about ready to leave! Any advice?

2007-11-17 14:46:49 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you've ever read any of my other questions, or even answers, you know that I'm crazy in love with my ex girlfriend. If you haven't, well now you know. She "broke my heart". It's still beating, I'm still physically alive but I feel physical pain. Why? I'm 100% sure it's not from any physical trauma. Why do I physically hurt? Does this happen to any one else?

2007-11-17 14:45:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He put his arm around me when we wer both up with the teacher

he gave me a back massage lol when we wer in assembly and our row moved the seats back (he sat behind me)

He jokes about me sometimes

His friend asked for my number and said "Can i have ur number Dales likes u" - BUT THEY BOTH ALREADY HAVE MY NUMBER

the guy i like isnt shy at all he is really confident

Hes been in my class for 3 years and he has never touched a girl, like put his arm around them or n e thing apart from me

He Sometimes walks to class with me, but only when its just him not with n e of his friends

He smiles alot when im around and i someimes see him looking at me


He has my number and never txts me and when i text him he isnt really all that talkitive, and i allways see him texting other people

If u think he does then why is he being so confuzing??!

What should i do i really like him !!?

2007-11-17 14:44:05 · 12 answers · asked by La P 1 in Singles & Dating

i do

2007-11-17 14:40:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-17 14:37:14 · 12 answers · asked by the maverick 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with the same person for going on 8 years (since I was 16 he was 19) Here I am, 23 and I want to get married (soon), he's 26 and also wants to get married (eventually), but is very unenthusiastic about it.
I feel like I'm pressuring him, which I don't want, but as many people have so bluntly put it 'sh*t or get off the pot' (you have no idea how many times i've heard this in refrence to my issue)
His reason for not wanting to is because he's just a temp worker right now, nothing extrememly stable, but does support him/us along with my very stable income (i'm a special ed. teacher)
I never thought I'd post a relationship question here, but I'm at my wits end. I want our relationship to move past 'dating' and he seems so complacent to have it stay like this for another 8 years
Is patience my virtue, or my curse?

any insight, life experience, or advice is greatly appericiated

2007-11-17 14:37:06 · 18 answers · asked by BAP 2 in Marriage & Divorce

the only mistake they did is they love each other

2007-11-17 14:35:42 · 16 answers · asked by fire 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, this question is for anyone who found leaving home hard, how did you deal with it and what was your parents reaction?

Well, my case is that I don't want to live with my dad anymore because I would much rather live with my mom. This is extremely hard to do because the last thing I want my father to think is that I don't love or appreciate him. It is nothing like that, see, I am pregnant with my first child and the only reason I came to live with my dad was to escape all the stress and drama I was going through. Well, now my head is clear and things are back on track and I feel I don't want or need to be here anymore. I love him soo much and I am sooo grateful for everything he has done. But, I feel as if being in Texas with my mother would make me so much happier than being in NY with him. This is one of the hardest things in the world for me and I know he won't agree with it, but I just have to go. Help me, how do I talk to my dad.

2007-11-17 14:35:28 · 1 answers · asked by Tnisha 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

parents dont get along, selfish, manipulators in a sneaky way,

2007-11-17 14:35:26 · 2 answers · asked by me 1 in Family

i have no trouble attempting to talk to married women but i have trouble attempting to socialize with single women but i do also have trouble socializing with married women too. i am 32 and single and have trouble

2007-11-17 14:35:01 · 1 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating

Looking for a healthy mind and body, kind-hearted, level headed and intelligent woman. Looking to share loves of life. It might be fun to go to a comedy club , and some museums. I'm a man 6'1" 165lbs and have blue eyes, shaved head, single, no kids.... I'm a down to earth, honest, caring, good with kids. I enjoy cards, board games, open to trying something new. I cook non fancy foods regulary, I do eat out but not much. This is important to me:I would love spending time with you outdoors rain/shine, night/day, cycling on/off road, hiking, disc golf, swimming, etc. Also enjoy relaxing and enjoying a good tv show, or book. I also enjoy giving and receiving a good massage(I used to do it professionally) .
I HATE smoking and I am not religious. I believe in being a positive influence on society.
I do have some conservitive views such as people being responsible for themselves, I am not always politically correct.
Lets have some real communication.
Thank you for your time and wisdom!

2007-11-17 14:33:50 · 3 answers · asked by Be responsible towards others 2 in Singles & Dating

I dumped him as soon as I found out, but should I tell his wife or just let it go?

2007-11-17 14:30:44 · 24 answers · asked by Ima K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

its been 6 years. my parents are stupid and i completly hate them. i cant trust them for anything. how can i get over this? and yes i have tried killing myself many times, one time it would of worked but i weighed to much. please help.

2007-11-17 14:27:57 · 13 answers · asked by allie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Just trying to see how divorce rates have changed over the years........

2007-11-17 14:26:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I go to a roughly all white highschool..and the few black guys that go there think they have to be hardcore gangsters. I am not into that I lve the beatles and journey as well as lauryn hill and Erykah badu..I am very laid back is it wrong that I am not attracted to alot of black guys

2007-11-17 14:24:59 · 15 answers · asked by trendsetter08 1 in Singles & Dating

i can never find the right guy. it's probably not time, cause i'm too young, but still. i want a true guy, one who listens to me, who cares about me, who will always be on my mind.
there's just no serious guys anymore. limited supply=[

oh, and i had a dream that i met my future husband on a plane. it was really sweet. he had spiky, brown hair. but it was cute. he was nice, and he was a christian.

are dreams true?
lol i have a lotta questions here, but that means more answers for you guys, which means a better chance at best answer=]

2007-11-17 14:20:42 · 3 answers · asked by 14534562 4 in Singles & Dating

Me and him are not on good terms. But I can try to get on his good side again so I can access to her again. I just don't know what to do. I know she still has feelings for me but since she was with him longer and he went out with her first she went back to him.

2007-11-17 14:20:17 · 12 answers · asked by jason 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 14:19:10 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We've lived together all of these years, engaged for 3 yrs (i wouldn't commit),and now I find out he's been cheating for 10 mos. I hacked into his computer, got into his email, chatted with one of the girls, found out he had unprotected sex with her, confronted him, he lied, found out there were others (7), and all were from "Craigslist" so they were strangers. I am 40, he is 36. I have since talked to 2 others who tell me it was casual sex, not a relationship. He promises it stopped months before I found out and he swore to himself it would never happen again. He is very remorseful but I can't get over the fact that he had unprotected sex with these strangers. He knew how I felt about cheating and having unprotected sex (to me it means you don't care enough about your significant other to protect their health). We've gone to counseling, read books, etc.Either I forgive him and keep him or decide I can never forgive and loose him. How do I decide if our relationship is worth the pain?

2007-11-17 14:19:08 · 50 answers · asked by rabbit4041 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-17 14:16:39 · 14 answers · asked by wbp123_06 1 in Singles & Dating

Which one u feel more...

2007-11-17 14:16:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you rather a super skinny girl with an average or not super pretty face OR a girl with a average body with a pretty face? Both have great personalities...what do you pick?!!

2007-11-17 14:16:11 · 4 answers · asked by daisyflower_21 2 in Singles & Dating

does this mean im not in-love with him any more? im very attracted to other men. is our relationship doomed?

2007-11-17 14:15:43 · 12 answers · asked by amber 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Today I went outside and I went to the bookstore in Borders... As I was going down the escalator, he was going up and waved and said "hello" to me and I said "hey" back, and I couldn't really continue seeing I was going down and he was going up. And then later on weirdly, I met him again for the second time. That never happened before and I didn't notice till he yelled at me because he was in the car, and then he smiled at me and I smiled back. What kind of fool is he? After that he just left. He could have continued the conversation. If he wasn't interested, then he shouldn't have done any of those things at all. What is the point? Why can't guys approach me? Why do they always give chances to other girls that are gonna break their heart and then groan saying nice guys finish last? It pisses me off! What else am I supposed to do? Finally a decent guy who I was attracted to bravely made a contact... and we even met twice on the same day... and he didn't ask me out...

2007-11-17 14:15:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what makes you like a grirl (don't say she is my type explain) just curious

2007-11-17 14:15:15 · 23 answers · asked by ellie 1 in Singles & Dating

I just found out my husband who is extremely immature for his age 55 has been venting to someone at work about me Male or female who cares this is a betrayal ........... give me a good way to get him back........ how does this end?? anyone?

2007-11-17 14:13:26 · 7 answers · asked by halo 2 in Marriage & Divorce