I dumped him as soon as I found out, but should I tell his wife or just let it go?
2007-11-17 14:30:44 · 24 answers · asked by Ima K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just let it go. I know you feel hurt now and want to get even, or you want to let his wife know the truth. If you want to get even, you may not get the satisfaction. He could tell her you came onto him. Who do you think she will believe? And yes, women are very blind sometimes. We rather believe our lying husbands than see the truth. And no woman wants to hear her husband is cheating on her from another woman, especially the one he cheated with. You will open yourself up for prosecution. You did the right thing by dumping him. Some (most) women can't do it and will choose to still be with the married man. His action will catch to him. Just let it go and live your life, happily. He is the one that is stuck in an unhappy marriage, not you.
2007-11-17 14:40:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell his wife in a nice sweet letter and if you have any pictures of you 2 taken together include those in the letter .....but seriously there were no signs he was married for 6 months
so he always went to your place right there would of said something is fishy, and he could only talk to you during certain hours of the day Hint #2
2007-11-17 14:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by Dan M 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Is he the "abode husband"? If he's searching after infant and the loved ones at the same time as you artwork and grant for the kin, than you've a operating association. Who cares who buys the earrings? once you've resentments, or if he's not pulling his weight interior the relationship, then carry off on the marriage concept until eventually you spot some attempt on his section. actual, if he has credit themes already and is no longer operating, had a touch one out of wedlock.... then he's not the perfect wager as a valuable marriage better 1/2. Love is grand, sex is giant, yet you want a roof over your head and food on your stomachs to live to inform the tale!
2016-10-24 10:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, that's a tough one....LET IT GO!
My husband said so too. If you tell his wife, you're just aiming to get your **** kick if you tell the wife. Let it go and don't ever talk to this guy again. It would not be smart to tell anyone nor the wife especially. It's not good for your safety either.
2007-11-17 14:37:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
She'll find out eventually whether he does it again or not. I wouldn't go through the trouble... it is just a matter of time before she finds out and it isn't up to you to tell her unless you REALLY feel compelled to. I'm sure she has suspicions but is just in denial about it. Not for long though, she'll have to accept it-- that a**!
2007-11-17 14:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I'd hate to be in your shoes. She deserves to know that she's married to a scumbag. Maybe write her an anonymous letter? If she doesn't believe it, then it's off your shoulders. But at least you''d have done the decent thing... I think. (I would want someone to tell me.)
2007-11-17 14:37:09 · answer #6 · answered by Rosesarered 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, go for it and let the wife know she has a cheating liar on her hands. But then again, she could be the type of fool that's been knowing he cheats and chooses to ignore it in order to keep his sorry ***. She may already know. If you really really hate him now, then go on and tell her. It'll teach his sorry a** that he lied to the wrong one!
2007-11-17 14:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by Mama Nuveau 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry about your boyfriend and talk to his wife about what you and your boyfriend have been through tell the wife that you are also sorry and you didn't know
2007-11-17 14:37:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hard to believe you were with him 6 mo and didnt know ... but any way.. if that was my hubby id want to know... i would tell her but in a way to that she understands you didnt know he was marreid and broke it off soon as you found out. she deserves to know the truth.
2007-11-17 18:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by deerlady2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah. Oops. Tell the wife.
2007-11-17 15:06:32 · answer #10 · answered by csiders30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋