Looks are always the first for me. No... I am not talking about models, or professional types. Cute counts, but if I am seriously thinking of a woman. I like to see that she is taking care of herself, and has a sense of self. Anything unusual is always a plus, but not a hard fast rule for me. I guess the easiest way to put it... I look for a woman who just is, and isn't afraid to being open. I am not talking about freak nasty. I am talking about a woman that can say I like silly things, and it is OK that you like silly things too. We all have to dance the tango of dating, but it would be nice if it was that simple.
2007-11-17 14:24:16
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answered by wbp123_06 1
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First and foremost the thing that I look for is the personality and if she is funny, serious and straight forward. Believe it or not, her looks play a important issue but if she has has the items I am looking for, I would ask her out. Being skinny or large plays little value in my judgment
2007-11-17 22:21:21
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answered by Richard K 3
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1. physical attraction (if the girl is a stranger)
2. personality (if she's nice, can carry a conversation, not psycho or bitchy)
if you know the girl beforehand and dont find her very physically attractive but she has a good personality, the attraction will grow over time
2007-11-17 22:29:53
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answered by R 3
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c'mon, are you serious. as usual, it starts with looks and then the meeting of the personalities takes the prize.
I mean, i am an avid sportsman, hunting, fishing, any sport. It took me almost until I was 30 to find the girl that I wanted to have my children.
2007-11-17 22:20:13
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answered by Veteranschoice 4
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Wow that is very open ended. It depends on what maturity level and age you are trying to attract. Less mature looks mean more. More mature people are more about the person personality, quality, intelligence, lifestyle, activities...
2007-11-17 22:20:24
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answered by Be responsible towards others 2
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mainly if their cute that is kind of the catch, but once you've known them for a while, the kind that you can talk to and even get a few words in yourself every now and then, and if their not ditzy(huge turn off, 4 me at least)
2007-11-17 22:20:55
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answered by brandon p 2
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face and figure may attract but its the personality and how well we mesh that makes anyone stay ---- and its not possible to say what i like or dislike everyone is different and sometimes we just click and usually we dont --- best wishes
2007-11-17 22:20:13
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answered by trader1867 7
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I really like girls that are kind of mysterious
they keep to them selves but they give you little hints that they like you, and if there assertive and instead of waiting for me to ask them out they drop the bomb and ask me out (I know there almost complete opposites) and I really like eyes and girlst that don't flirt alot
2007-11-17 22:19:16
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answered by Anonymous
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attractiveness means alot of different things..not just physical looks, if a girl has a sweet, funny, intelligent persona about her, thats always more attractive to me than just good looks. its more how a girl "carries" herself in her day to day life. that is whats hot!
2007-11-17 22:21:02
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answered by Bamafan 2
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I want a woman to laugh at my jokes, find something in common that we like to do, actually and truthfully like me. I don't want to sound shallow, but looks are somewhat of a factor to me.
2007-11-17 22:20:00
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answered by Anonymous
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