I just found out my husband who is extremely immature for his age 55 has been venting to someone at work about me Male or female who cares this is a betrayal ........... give me a good way to get him back........ how does this end?? anyone?
2007-11-17 14:13:26 · 7 answers · asked by halo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You say who cares if it's a male or female,you got to be kidding it makes a big differences. It's a female he is talking to and that means he has feeling for her. That's how man get in get close to the one he has his eye on.Forget about the talking to her for now you need to watch your husband and her very close.
Make sure he doesn't work over or go in to work earlier or stay with the guys for a beer after work if he does surprise him and walk in to the bar and you will see for yourself.
2007-11-17 14:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well It's sad but, not a proper husband.
But he won't every stop. It's not surprising not more lies have come to you. Can confront but, may not change. There are % men that do theses things and others don't. On the same token do you know how long he's been doing this to ya. Shows the lack of respect that he has for the wife. hmm does know whata love is???
2007-11-17 14:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a betrayal, I agree. Whatever beef he has with you should be discussed with you and only you. However, it's good to have that close friend who you can talk to, but not your co-workers.
Don't go down the "get-even" road. Nothing good ever comes from that. An old bit of wisdom-- The moment you let someone anger you, you become their slave.
2007-11-17 14:19:25 · answer #3 · answered by Rosesarered 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think all husbands do this regardless of age. it's just venting. i'd be more upset on what those friends were telling him. i have come to realize that you can't ask the advise of someone that isn't married about your own marriage. you'll never get good advise this way.
2007-11-17 14:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by Isabella S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband now my ex did that all the time and still at age 66 is still doing it to my married children...We have been divorced 22 years...How does it end? It does not as long as they can breath....Best of luck..This is hurtful to you
2007-11-17 14:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by wilma s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talking to other people about your spouse is immature...but so is "getting back" at someone...just tell him that you don't appreciate him talking about you and to please refrain from venting to others about you...
2007-11-17 14:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"getting him back" is immature too
2007-11-17 14:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋