Today I went outside and I went to the bookstore in Borders... As I was going down the escalator, he was going up and waved and said "hello" to me and I said "hey" back, and I couldn't really continue seeing I was going down and he was going up. And then later on weirdly, I met him again for the second time. That never happened before and I didn't notice till he yelled at me because he was in the car, and then he smiled at me and I smiled back. What kind of fool is he? After that he just left. He could have continued the conversation. If he wasn't interested, then he shouldn't have done any of those things at all. What is the point? Why can't guys approach me? Why do they always give chances to other girls that are gonna break their heart and then groan saying nice guys finish last? It pisses me off! What else am I supposed to do? Finally a decent guy who I was attracted to bravely made a contact... and we even met twice on the same day... and he didn't ask me out...
2007-11-17 14:15:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seriously, this always happens. Guys outside show they like me, like stare a lot/smile and sometimes compliment, but I usually ignored, but lately I signalled back... I don't really know what to do anymore.
2007-11-17 14:15:54 · update #1
You may be lucky he didnt ask you in his car. You never know who the stranger is, he could be a murder a criminal, etc. They may look nice but dont judge a book by the cover. Be careful, Ive heard of so many women being picked up and raped and murdered. Prevention is better than cure. Love and respect yourself and concentrate on your job and career, no one is worth. They only bring pain and sorrow and suffering into yur life. You are better off on your own, with your own circle of good trust worthy friends. Take care and cheer up and God bless you always.
2007-11-17 14:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by live and let live 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can say this, that some men generaly don't wanna waste their time on a woman they feel is stuckup or just full of tude.
The real question is, did you offer your number?...This is a common mistake that women make. You all want us to chase you, and that isn't fun anymore....If a woman likes a man ....tell him so
2007-11-17 14:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he was probly just nevers and dident want to seem like he was comeing on to strong next time ask him if he wants to do something i can remenber whin i couldent think of anthing to say to a girl i liked and i would do the same thing so give him something to talk about
2007-11-17 14:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by jan doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont always leave it up the the guys to do the dirty work girls.... after all it is your happiness. If you feel that you like a guy, then tell him you would like to share some time with him.
2007-11-17 14:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by Veteranschoice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
generally its fear of rejection and also would our advances be welcome??? --- when we are unsure we just look from afar and wonder even with encouraging signs ---- and i understand your feelings --- i met a lady we had coffee and talked we had dinner and talked and i would not call her again as our interests are not compatible and we did not connect --- it may be what has happened here --- then when you least expect it you find someone very very special --- best wishes
2007-11-17 14:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in the same boat
2007-11-17 14:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by Blythe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋