Family & Relationships - 17 November 2007

like cousins who I care about but hardly ever stay in touch, or to close friends who stay in touch and know me even better than the family. Is there any reason to choose family? What do you think?

2007-11-17 12:02:47 · 3 answers · asked by topink 6 in Friends

We have never met and he lives in Texas, but we've been talking to each other for 4 months now and i'm strtng to really get emotionally attatched to him. I've broke up with him twice to see if he really likes me but every time he says (i dnt really care) and (it dsnt matter) but then he wnt tlk to me and he acts like he's mad that i broke up with him. I'm still trying to find out if he really loves me like he says or if he's just trying to get a quick girlfriend. Then i want to know if he really does care that i broke up with him but thinks it will make him seem like a wimp if he says he does. So my questian is should i get back with him and please explain why if so and why he's acting this way.

2007-11-17 12:01:03 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my other account got deleted, appareltny i did somthing in a question to get suspended, but i dont understand what because all ia sked was how do you make friends on here? and i was wondering is it the acual yahoo people who look and see or is it just people reporting you?
i didnt swear or anything

2007-11-17 11:57:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife and I have been married now for for two years but I chose to separate from my wife 4 months ago because it got pretty rocky. We separated in a very nasty way. Mostly because I was an a**whole during the first couple of weeks of the separation. Two months after we separated I went back to her and apologized to her in the most sincere way possible. During that time I realized how much I really loved her. Now 4 months after our separation we are back together, but she has just admitted something that is killing me inside. She admitted to me that she as slept around with other guys while we were separated.
I love her very much, but how do I still look at her and not feel like other guys have been with her. Everytime I see her I can't help but to think about it. So basically what I want to know is how can I get over the fact that other guys have been with her during our separation? FYI I didn't sleep anyone because I loved her and missed her.

2007-11-17 11:57:17 · 20 answers · asked by Leo P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I posted this earlier i only got one answer, please answer me, i can't sleep

Hi there,

So here's the story...me and my bf have long distance relationship....but we talk everyday....so i came back home and was so excited to call him...I called him, and he picked up and sounded not in a good mood, then i was trying to make it better, he said he has a toothache...and he asked me to call him back later...but the tone of my voice change cause i felt i got put down since i was so happy to call him...so then he goes like why ur tone is down bla bla bla, iwas like nothing, i just don't wanna stay on the phone when ur hurting, then we got in a little argument...so he told me 'i just wanna break this phone, i'm tired of listening to it and its voice' i was like 'wow that feels cold and awkward'..he goes like ok 'don't call me anymore' so i hung up crowled in my bed so sad and slept....should i call him again? i don't wanna call, but i just wanna know if i should or if i did anything wrong?

2007-11-17 11:50:26 · 26 answers · asked by prettybella 2 in Singles & Dating

after themselves. They're 9, 10 and 11 the oldest is a boy and then the two girls. Their dad was in a terrible relationship where her and her kids destroyed his house; which we've all come together to get it cleaned up. But even now they don't pick up after themselves. He forces the rules, and I reinforce them when I'm there. He's told them that I have this right because I helped clean up after the ex and her crew moved out; his kids weren't around; so it was his family and some friend and myself. How do I get over the "dad, I don't like her" comment. He's not going to break it off over something like that =) He's had many talks with them and put his foot down with how they act.

2007-11-17 11:48:18 · 5 answers · asked by suzlaa1971 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom is 47, and she has been married to her husband for almost 10 years. He has been verbally and mentally abusive to her nearly all 10 years. He has been physically and verbally abusive to me since I was 10. She is disabled and unable to work because of physical problems, and she is in the process of filing for disablity. She can not work and make money for herself, but right now, money isnt a big deal for her because my grandparents will help her with whatever she needs help with, but only if she leaves her husband. She just had a 2 strokes back to back, and just got out of the hospital last night. She came to my house last night and he called her here, and was yelling at her because she didnt go home and that she was staying here. My family and I have tried to get her to leave him, but she wont do it, and we believe its because she is scared of him. We have no clue what to do anymore, and it seems like we have no more options. Does anyone have any advice? Please.

2007-11-17 11:46:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It seems like only gay men seem to approach me when I'm out, and I'm getting sick of it, and don't want to go anywhere anymore. I know I know...I have to approach them, but women make sure to look past me when I'm out. I never see anything definite enough to make me approach them, as far as hints go. A look or smile means nothing to me; well, actually I don't know what it means. She could be smiling cause she likes to be looked at for all I know, or cause I gave her attention. I don't want to find out. I have been trying to party to meet someone special, and this is just not working; I'm turning into an idiot. I mean, even the girl in school I thought was a good girl, is a partier; this is how I got to drinking again anyway. This isn't working. I rather stay home and watch lifetime network. I watch people not half as good looking as I am (not fluffing my feathers), get what they want all the time, but I'm always alone, he he... What do I do?

2007-11-17 11:45:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they have kids and don't want the kid to have to deal with them being apart?

Well I think that my parents might have been like that. I don't think that they really love each other anymore.

They don't sleep in the same bed anymore, they argue all the time, they talk bad about each other behind each other's backs to us (us meaning us kids), and I haven't seen them hug or kiss in forever.

It's coming to the point where I am just thinking,"Why can't they just divorce? It would make our lives all easier! And we wouldn't have to hear the arguing."

What am I suppose to do in this situation? I know this sounds wrong, but I really wish they would just divorce! It would make everything easier on us.

2007-11-17 11:44:54 · 4 answers · asked by . 4 in Marriage & Divorce

is it a mistake?
justifiable as long as they 'love' each other?
plain stupid?
let me know your opinion. =]

2007-11-17 11:35:53 · 19 answers · asked by kg 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 15 1/2 and ive not yet kissed a guy.. is that a bad thing or not...all my friends have and most have gone further, they think im wierd for not...but im just shy and havent found the right guy..plus i need the guy to make the first move (cause im nervous)...

2007-11-17 11:34:17 · 70 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 11:25:54 · 4 answers · asked by Larry morrow 2 in Singles & Dating

OK, well its 2 girls, and I've seen them before because i had to go to their class many of times (during lesson time) and i sometimes see them at break time and before the start of school. how could i talk t them with out feeling embarrassed by other class mates ? i sometimes see 1 of them on their own but how do i talk to them without looking freaky. they seem friendly and sometimes smile (i think), but they look at me most of the time.....how would you go up to them ,when your in fronte of other classmates (who by the way sometimes talk to you)...by the way im shy, when meeting new people, but when the ball starts rollin', im fine ! lol

2007-11-17 11:21:23 · 1 answers · asked by (Persepolis) 4 in Friends

2007-11-17 11:21:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live in Holland Michigan.

2007-11-17 11:20:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend told me last week. When she told me i flipped this is the first person think i have been able to tell. I don't know what to do i flipped so i haven't talked to her yet. She said that she did not like me like that but i am afraid to still be her friend. Help what should i do????????????

2007-11-17 11:19:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Me and my teacher are a couple. I am 18 years old and he is 38 years old and we started having sex. Evryone who knows that we are a couple is telling us that its wrong for us to date. We are 2 pple in love. Why cant anyone leave us alone??

2007-11-17 11:17:47 · 38 answers · asked by Jus call me "BUBS" 3 in Singles & Dating

very bad day and been crying whole day..............Thanks:(

2007-11-17 11:17:41 · 19 answers · asked by anamika s 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been working with him for about a year and we have never went out on a date, everytime i'm around him i get butterflies and my whole world changes. we've had sex i dunno how many times and we talk all the time. i've tried talking to him about making things official but for some reason he doesnt want the name or title..he told me to wait and be patient and still nothing...he knows i love and care about him, but he never wants to talk about his feelings torwards me..he always makes excuses even though he acts like he wants to be with me. i've decided to just draw the line and put a stop to it all bc of that, but since i work with him im afraid everything is going to be totally awkward and hes gonna be mad at me. i dont know if i should just tell him on the phone or just tell him in person next time i see him or even ignore him and try to play hard to get, maybe he will wake the hell up but i shouldnt have to wait, right?? im confused and i need help! :(

2007-11-17 11:12:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or do they break up with them? Just curious

2007-11-17 11:08:30 · 4 answers · asked by CustomBentley 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 11:08:25 · 7 answers · asked by man_of_faith 2 in Marriage & Divorce

everytime my boyfriend kisses me he giggles. i ask him what hes giggling at and he just says "nothing" and smiles at me. what do you think hes thinking?

2007-11-17 11:08:16 · 11 answers · asked by dannyb 1 in Singles & Dating

help im young

2007-11-17 11:08:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girls can answer this question too but I want to see from a guy's POV. I want to buy this dress. Do guys think it's pretty or not?

Or do you not even have an opinion on things like this?

http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2948644/0~2378467~2378483~2377032~6008190?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=6008190&P=1

2007-11-17 11:05:27 · 44 answers · asked by Madeline B. 2 in Singles & Dating

I saw my crush whom just happens to be a college professor the other day for the 1st time in like five months. When I saw him he kept staring at me and blushing. It was like he was in a trance when he staring. He was acting all flustered and stuff and yet he was with some other girl. It looked like he didn't care he was with her because I was there. In the end she left him and he was standing in front of me and staring at me/checking me out. His face was also red. The I saw my crush again 1 month later and he was blushing a heck of a lot. He also smiled at me and he raised his eyebrow. Plus his eyes got wide and he face got beat red when he realized it was me and then his eyes looked a little blurry after that when he saw me. He also had some gleam in his eyes. Then he was just looking at me a lot and he was stuttering and flustered. What does this mean? My friend said he was also amused and pleased to see me. So anyways I tried to add him to myspace and he blocked me.

2007-11-17 11:03:50 · 1 answers · asked by shanta 1 in Singles & Dating

We're trying to cut costs and we're considering having the rehearsal dinner at the church (in the activities room) instead of going to a sit down dinner. We've talked about getting it catered or just ordering pizzas. Has anyone done this? How did it go? We're planning to have 25-30 people at the rehearsal dinner, so we're looking at alternatives to a full-fledged dinner. Any suggestions?

2007-11-17 11:02:54 · 23 answers · asked by Why? 5 in Weddings

Okay, some of you may have read a previous post about missing my ex and wanting to be close to him (as in friendship) but then I had a dream about being with him.

Well, since then we started talking more on the phone and on the internet. My husband doesn't mind who I talk to, he's not the extreme jealous type.

Tuesday I went to his house to hang out. We began talking and he said he loved me still. I told him I loved him too. We were talking and watching tv. To make a long story short, I ended up kissing him and that's it! Seriously, it stopped at kissing other than the good-bye hug.

The question is what do I do now? I know what I did was horrible and wrong. I feel safe and secure with my husband as far as always having someone there for me. But I love my ex so much and miss him terribly. We have been friends ever since the break up, but lately I want so much more.

What should I do? I'm so confused.

2007-11-17 11:01:31 · 29 answers · asked by *ConfusedPrincess* 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have long brown hair. I have hazel eyes. I wear glasses. I am 5'4". I am really shy. I am 92 pounds. What do you think?

2007-11-17 11:00:47 · 39 answers · asked by julierbear_92 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a believer in Christ, recently a guy said to me that he wanted a long-term relationship, and i too was searching for one. So I told him that before we proceed further, i just want a week to pray and find that will of God that you are the right person, and i suggested him to do the same thing. he too is a christian and an american. but the moment i said that, he stopped talking to me and said good luck. is it something wrong i said or maybe he is not a believer in christ? i am not able to understand.

2007-11-17 11:00:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do you flirt with a boy??

2007-11-17 10:58:55 · 11 answers · asked by Blondii 3 in Singles & Dating