Family & Relationships - 17 November 2007

2007-11-17 10:12:59 · 38 answers · asked by Denny D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy, he'd been showing signs he liked me for ages, he's real shy around me and he admitted it online finally when he found out i liked him, but before he found out, a coupla weeks ago he told this girl (who's a sort of friend of mine) that he likes her but she told him she doesn't like him back, they are best friends and she says he's just saying he likes me cause he finds it funny (but he's not that kind of guy)
i don't know if she's just jealous, because she's acting like the whole things a joke and why the hell would he like me...
but he says he no longer likes her, he likes me
and he may have just liked her because he thought he couldn't have me

2007-11-17 10:10:54 · 15 answers · asked by kaykay 3 in Singles & Dating

i dont want to be too harsh cause if its someone in my school i would get me beat up or hated.something cool...

2007-11-17 10:08:12 · 30 answers · asked by Chris M 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my woman are meeting up with some friends tonite, at 10, but were board and nothing to do, what are some ideas you can give me before we go out tonite, ? thanx, .

2007-11-17 10:08:05 · 1 answers · asked by music4life 1 in Singles & Dating

I got married at 17 & my husband was 26, he got me a job with hem after a year and everything was great, then we had to move to NY (I worked there as well, but in the office) then I saw hem kissing with this woman & it was terrible for me but we gave it another chance everything starterd to crumble from there, came back & now we started our own business but working together has been so tuff to the point we hate eachother & insults that I cant stand, We are always together 24/7, oohh he gain weight & I'm still the same so i don't feel atractive to hem anymore, he is very loveble and nice, also 2.5 years ago i wanted kids so bad and he didn't, now he wants them & don't feel like it anymore, I told hem i need to see a counselor to help me figure out why do i feel so weird but he said no, that i can talk to hem, that he love's me, but now i'm not so sure i do I always depened on hem for everything it's been 8 years together and I'm not sure what & how to make a decition. Any suggetions?

2007-11-17 10:07:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what song do you like to listen to why'll having sex.
or do you like it quiet and moans?

2007-11-17 10:06:16 · 6 answers · asked by girl_2007 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband left on a trip Friday early morning, we had gotten in a fight Thursday night...he wont answer his phone or return my calls...I am 8.5 months pregnant and don't like the way he has been treating me. The fight was actually more hurtful towards me, so I would think he would be calling me feeling bad, but he hasn't (don't worry, he is okay, his mom has talked to him). I just know that most husbands would check up on their pregnant wives and see if their okay and stuff...I'm so upset, cause I think he is going to just go home right from his trip for Thanksgiving and leave me here a lone for the whole week and not answer his phone or talk to me. I might pack my stuff and go home (different state) but I have a doc. appt. on Weds. so I would have to wait, plus he left his dog...what do you think???

2007-11-17 10:04:50 · 21 answers · asked by elle 3 in Marriage & Divorce

to save your spouse or bf or gf.. courage or would you consider it foolishness

2007-11-17 10:04:39 · 12 answers · asked by vis 7 in Marriage & Divorce

that hurt her feelings. i feel like whenever i call her, i'm annoying her but i want to talk to her to try to make things better. i am very scared we will drift apart. what should i do?
the last time i talked to her, i told her i had written her a letter on facebook. she logged on, and i assume read my letter, but didn't write back. i want to know what's going on. should i call her again?

2007-11-17 10:04:09 · 16 answers · asked by the w 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 10:02:25 · 16 answers · asked by timeforce20 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I loved one girl, some time back her father accepted my proposal and suddenly my girl is saying am not interested.. again I spoken her dad about issue., he said nothing wrong from my side.. I just shocked about it.. I really not getting any idea how to proceed…

2007-11-17 10:02:14 · 1 answers · asked by sai y 1 in Singles & Dating

i like my guy but yet i love to look any thoughts? anyone out there have the same experience

2007-11-17 09:59:10 · 9 answers · asked by El Dorado 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what do u do when u fall in love with a guy that he doesn't care about u?although u went out together and he told u i love u but then he suddenly go back from u

2007-11-17 09:53:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Him and his friends get to eat in the den and watch football but he won't let me when I want to eat popcorn while watching my penguin movie.

2007-11-17 09:50:44 · 17 answers · asked by Little Angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he has been emotionally and verbally, and somewhat physically abusive to me. we have a lot of problems that i just no longer am willing to work on. we have only been together for 3 years, but the toll it has taken on me and the children has just become too much. He just returned home from iraq a few days ago and has already done a few things that are not okay. yelling at me in a parking lot (really mean names) and F You, things like that. Today we talked for awhile and i let him know i was done with this, and now it is time to prepare for divorce. please understand i did not want to leave him while he was deployed. i just didnt have the heart to do that to him. now, he just isnt understanding that all of the things he has done to us in the past are wrong. he will be moving out after xmas. what can i do to support him? he doesnt want this at all, i do.
thank you

2007-11-17 09:47:52 · 10 answers · asked by ★SuGar and SpiCe★ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been reading and many people define love as a willingness to open upen up to your partner and trust them with your life, but if the person you love isn't your partner could you really trust them?

2007-11-17 09:45:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 16 years old and im a sophmore at manalapan high school.. in history there is this one guy that flirts with me and i think he is very cute.wat do i do ?

2007-11-17 09:43:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm nineteen and have a one year old. I haven't dated or gone out since I had her, I know my dating life has changed for sure & I'm fine with that.

But are their any young people out there who would date someone with a young child?

Just curious. Not asked if anyone would go out/ date me. lol. sorry if it sound like I am.

2007-11-17 09:43:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my other friends have told me this
and it is definately true he was about to tell me when i made up an excuse to walk away
im scared if he finds out i know he likes our friendship will be wierd
i can get over something like this, but i know he cant because he falls in love so easily
help please? what can i do !!

2007-11-17 09:42:53 · 14 answers · asked by Charlotte.♥ 3 in Friends

bf and I were joined by his cousin and his gf. Well, during dinner I started to notice that billy's (bf's cousin) gf was "extra friendly" with my bf and a little lovey dovey. and she always throws comments like your so cute, those xxxxxx are almost as cute as you, lookin' good eh? blah blah

My bf shows nothing back and i know he's loyal to me. But now, its her birthday party and we were invited but i decided not to go because i'm working during those hrs (hospital employee).

BUT my bf decided that he's going even tho i told him that i dont feel comfortable with him going to her party.

Well. he's gone now and i feel like my opinion meant nothing. Am i wrong?

I trust my bf but I dont trust her and dont like her.

2007-11-17 09:42:24 · 6 answers · asked by SweetLady113 2 in Singles & Dating

is it necessary to be hurt and suffer while in LOVE?

2007-11-17 09:40:14 · 5 answers · asked by rossel_danieles 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 09:37:19 · 4 answers · asked by Yahoo ! 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship for nearly 3 years now on and off. My boyfriend broke up with me a week ago because I lied about being picked up from a train station by a male friend. I lied at first and said I caught a bus because he has an issue with this male friend, but then told him the truth when I was challenged. He got really mad and said he couldn't trust me and that the relationship was over and not to call him. I know i was wrong, but to me it seems so trivial.

Within this week my ex boyfriend has been in contact with me said he wanted me back I for some stupid reason contemplated doing so until I found out that he tried to meet up with a friend (not close friend) of mine basically to have sex. I feel so stupid and let down by men. There's so much more to tell but I think I would send everyone to sleep if I haven’t already done so.
Any advice?

2007-11-17 09:37:14 · 3 answers · asked by Den 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a couple Q's 4 the men

1. Would you approach a girl with natrual hair (afro, kinky twists,etc.) or would you prefer to aproach a girl with straight silky hair?

2. Do guys still like petite girl or do they have to be "thick"

3. What's a turn off in a girl's appearance and personality?

Thanks!! God bless

2007-11-17 09:35:43 · 1 answers · asked by *Intellectual* 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband set up an account for his son my husbands mother has acces to the account. His mom takes money all the time for herself sometimes $500 or less it depends, but she uses it to pay her own bills she has with her family. It wouldnt be bad if she would ask for money if she really needs it but that doesnt happen I asked my husband to tell her but he didnt say anything. he feels its his family he needs to help so i said ok help them so why not help your brother and sister they all need money. We arent rich but people seem to think when you are in the military you always have money and we also have 3 children. It is for his son and not for his mother to take out when ever she feels like it. He lies to and says he will say something, then he says he does it so I will shut up. This is our money together if I would give my mom money he would be mad and plus mom doesnt have that much either she is by herself and still pays me back if I lend her money.

2007-11-17 09:34:01 · 5 answers · asked by Key 1 in Family

I have been with this girl for over 4 years now. I pursued a lot before we fell in love 4 years ago. We always talk about being together and how our family would be.

She always wanted to marry me, but now since last year she has changed the stance and says for her marriage is not that important and she will not die if she not marry me.....
I asked for a pic that can be shown to parents but she does not agree now and says in love marriage photo is not required.
But in our culture and hers it is always needed. She just keeps asking me to wait and I have been waiting for an year. Earlier she said that nobody knows about her in my family .. Her family knows me very well and they know that she is going to marry me. But I don know how to take things forward, she said dont eat my head with all the crap of yours and ask ur parents to wait for antoher 6 months..... earlier it went from March to Sept and then to Nov, then she asked to wait till March 2008, I don know still.

2007-11-17 09:30:49 · 28 answers · asked by anu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so when I asked about sides for my vegetarian wedding with thai food, I got the most ridiculous answers that were not even related to my question!

So, if you were going to a wedding of two vegetarians, who were definitely going to have only vegetarian food at a reception (lacto-ovo), what would you want to eat? I know of at least one guest who is vegan (maybe 2), so I want to be able to cater to them.

I wanted to do a delicious thai dish with sauteed vegetables and tofu in a garlic or orange sauce (my mouth's watering). Then have a couple of sides like sticky rice and spring rolls, and maybe an additional salad or soup. Apparently, that disgusts most people (wth...I'm almost believing most people haven't tried tofu dishes at a thai restaurant!)

What would you eat then? Remember, saying vegetables and pasta would be a regret. I went to a wedding this summer, and that's what we veggies got...disappointing (no protein, so I didn't feel full).

2007-11-17 09:30:49 · 32 answers · asked by Mee 5 in Weddings

Well see this girl Ialso know but not as much as my husband asked him to go with her and shop for me. But the thing that gets me is why couldnt WE go shopping . Im pretty sure he is using our money. and it just gets me. what do i do

2007-11-17 09:29:57 · 29 answers · asked by expe girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i just dumped my supposed fiance because i decided that he was obviously conning me into marriage to get a green card.

i knew he was a con because he was lying to me about visa issues.

anyway, to know FOR SURE if i did the right thing, do you think this response is an anwer? he hasn't said a word to my email (i sent email because i didn't want him to try to sweet-talk his way out of it). i figure that if he was sincere, he'd be over here trying to show me his documentation and prove he's for real.

what do you guys think?

2007-11-17 09:29:48 · 6 answers · asked by Loon-A-TiK 4 in Singles & Dating

What does love mean to you? I'm curious to see the responses of guys.

2007-11-17 09:29:38 · 11 answers · asked by Liz 2 in Singles & Dating