Family & Relationships - 17 November 2007

ive been with my bf for 3 years, we actually broke up a few months ago because i got tired of him looking at porn all the time and not caring that i wasn't okay with it. he doesn't understand that it makes me feel like i'm not good enough...and he tells me its not me and yada yada. i thought if he cut down on it then id be okay with it, so i got back with him. well, it still bothers me. i'm almost to the point where i just really dont care anymore. idk if that's a good or bad thing. how am i supposed to deal with this one??

2007-11-17 08:54:05 · 47 answers · asked by *TiNK* 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 08:53:18 · 9 answers · asked by April 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Can anyone shed light on a debate we are having? .My sis recently dumped her fella ,one of the reasons was that he urinated sitting down,I personally can't see the problem but others say it's just weird. what do you think ?

2007-11-17 08:49:46 · 15 answers · asked by Rhona 66 1 in Singles & Dating

Ladies, if you wanted to get your bf or husband's attention while he's watching tv, what would you do to get his attention.

2007-11-17 08:49:33 · 16 answers · asked by Carlos de La Vega 3 in Singles & Dating

Former fiance broke it off 2 years ago and spent it with another women in town. Told her he loved her, wanted to marry her and went house shopping with her because she was going through a divorce etc.
She no longer wants him in her life and has moved on easily. Would you take him back?
I spent 6/7 years prior (4 years separted from a husband) and had no idea this man was lieing to me for the past 6 months of our relationship..

2007-11-17 08:48:21 · 13 answers · asked by Blue 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-17 08:47:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My elder sister has just got married and everytime they have a fight with her husband, she keeps calling me about it. She would tell me that she wants to leave her husband and later on she would change her mind..Her husband would tell me that my sister would compare herself to me, coz I have been spoiled by my husband while she's not. I keep telling my sister to be very nice to her husband and spoil him so he will spoil her too, but my sister wont listen to me..
Today, she called me again and said that she wants to leave her husband. I know its not her husband's fault when they have a fight, she is just being immature most of the time. Even for a nonsense reason, she would tell me shes gonna leave her him.
And now Im just stressing. My sister had made so many wrong decisions in life. Ive been hoping that her relationship with her husband will work. Sometimes I just want her to divorce her husband but I know she will just regret it...

2007-11-17 08:45:24 · 16 answers · asked by Ophak 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I dated for a few years on and off, he would always break up with me becasue he was " scared" ( i have 2 kids). He was good with the kids and we where very in love, we never even argued. everyone was happy for us and we never though about marriage until we met each other,,, when i stopped seeing him i felt like I was grieving for someone who had died,( more than a year ago) i was extremly uspet. I started seeing someone else anout 4 1/2 months ago, he seems like a great guy so far. But my Ex wanted me back, he even told his and my parents he wanted to get married, and I said no. I love him but im scared to make the same mistake for the 100th time, i felt like if i said yes i was telling the world i was stupid. I feel aweful about,, do u think i did the right thing? how can I make myself feel better and get over this? and since I feel this way maybe Im not ready for a new relationship??? but i dont want to hold myself back and not move on,,, its been years, what can I do????

2007-11-17 08:44:00 · 7 answers · asked by Jessie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've only kissed one guy ever!Thats how pathetic I am!
I have a good personality and people tell me I'm pretty but I don't seem to get the guys!I do go out clubbing and have a great laugh.I have lots of brilliant guys friends at college but thats all they are just friends.They never seem interested in anything more.
I'm really feeling down about still being a virgin and I'm afraid that my inexperience will put guys off.I feel like the longer I leave it the more afraid of the pain the first time I get!

2007-11-17 08:42:32 · 12 answers · asked by Mossy 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out with my ex on/off for 2 years. I lost my virginity to him. I needed space from it all he made me upset and hurt me. I wasnt even sure if i was going out with him. I just stopped talking to him which made him try to talk to me even more, he texted me about once every week for 2 months, he even asked me to hang out but i said i was busy, after that we didnt talk it was as if we were invisible. i broke the ice by later texting him hey congratulations on winning the game and he replied right away saying thanks lol i saw you in the stands the next day i texted him about homework and he told me the homework as well as saying tell your mom i say hi. i thought things were off to a better start and decided to talk to him at school. i said i told my mom you said hi and shes wondering how your doing. he said oh yeah tell her im doing good. the conversation lasted 5 seconds because we each had to go opposite ways. its been 3 days... and i havent heard from him. Time to move on?

2007-11-17 08:42:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(thats me) :(

2007-11-17 08:41:58 · 21 answers · asked by Talkingless 1 in Singles & Dating

do guys like the skinny or the curvy more?

2007-11-17 08:39:46 · 16 answers · asked by kristi 2 in Singles & Dating

we have had some problems. we dont fight or argue and we have sex too..

2007-11-17 08:39:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

lam 27 separated for two two years. I have a 2 year old son. I met this man who is 42 he is in the process of divorcing. He is not divorcing because he met me he was separated for 5 years He has one son and fostering two boys since the wife could not get more kids.At my age do you think its a good idea to marry a 42 year old with three kids and i got one of my own?

2007-11-17 08:36:44 · 14 answers · asked by gakuu e 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me, no money left

2007-11-17 08:33:53 · 24 answers · asked by redcandal66 2 in Singles & Dating

this song somes up my life,also i would have "the ace of spades"by motorhead,what would you have and why.

2007-11-17 08:33:51 · 11 answers · asked by damian 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Our daughter is a brides maid,all of the other girls are wearing pantyhose,but our daughter says they are not part of her style and is asking me to speak to mom on her behalf. Personally, I don't see the big deal,but I am not a seventeen year old girl, any advice?

2007-11-17 08:32:07 · 30 answers · asked by clay buckeye 1 in Weddings

2007-11-17 08:28:38 · 11 answers · asked by AMBER P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in a relationship for a while now and we have started seriously talking about marriage. In the past we have had dissagreements that we quickly got over by us both comprimising. Our arguments are now not so quickly gotten over, I have started being mean to him as has he to me. I know that we love eachother, but I also know you need more than love to make a relationship work. What can I do to show him how much I care, and to let him know that I am willing to work this out, I believe he feels the same way but everytime we try to ressolve some of these new found issues, I end up crying and he ends up upset.
Our issues aren't anything huge, I sometimes come off as controlling which he is tired of, and he doesn't know how to accept constructive critisimsm.

2007-11-17 08:27:38 · 5 answers · asked by DonsGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

In the eyes of God my wife is part of me! This is a connection that you are not able to have without marrage.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/;_ylc=X3oDMTE1MmI4N2IyBF9TAzIxMTU1MDAxMTgEc2VjA2Fuc19ub3QEc2xrA3N1YmplY3Q-;_ylv=3?qid=20071117131330AAg4F5k

Thoughts!

2007-11-17 08:22:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a few questions:

♥- if people you call say no, why do you keep badgering them?

♥- sometimes do you feel bad once you call someone right at dinner? Or some other important time?

♥- my mom had put her name on the "do not call list".
Telomarketers still call her? Why?

♥ sometimes do you lie to get them to donate their hard-earned money?

Thanks. =)
Please don't give me any mean comments. I am just asking a question.

2007-11-17 08:21:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My new girlfriend and I are about to spend our first Chritstmas together. We've both been married and recently D'd, we've been seeing each other exclusively since July, and it's pretty serious. I'm skipping my own family's T-day dinner for her's.
Here's my problem . . .
I don't want to get into that mundane plotting Christmas gifts and their costs, let's cap our spending, make me a list of what you want? To me that's the behavior of a stale relationships. But at the same time I also want avoid the feelings of guilt that come with giving too much or too little. I quess that's why we put those stale practices into play, I understand that.
But, that's not really a solution is it?
So I ask the public (you) for your input.
How far does one go on an occation such as this? I'm not going to buy her a BMW, but money isn't the issue. I want to shower her with gifts but I don't want either of us to come away with the feeling that we could of, or should of done better.
Suggestions...?

2007-11-17 08:18:56 · 7 answers · asked by paul8247 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so my fiance and I both attend the same university and we hang out with the same group of friends. Unfortunately it is a group were everyone knows everyone and who they have and havent slept with etc. Well there is this girl that he had a one-night stand with a year before meeting me. At first we only saw her every once in a while which was annoying enough because, every time she sees him she always gives him this weird look. But now she is dating one of our friends so she is always around, and its not so much that she is around but that she is ver slutty. Last night we were all in a party together and she put a dress on with no bra and her boobs literally were showing, as in she might as well have not even put the dress on. Their were guys taking pictures and everything and of course I was angry because I didnt want him to see, like obviously he has already seen but I didnt need him to have any physical reminders..so am I right to be angry?

2007-11-17 08:15:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I tried the blind fold thing, she loved it... what else?

2007-11-17 08:13:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-17 08:12:32 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A simple, average, fat boy loved a girl. She wasn't ordinary, she was real pretty and innocence could be seen on her face. The way he loved her could not be explained in words. He changed himself to become a person whom that girl would like, from his hairstyle to his shoes. But what did not changed in him was his kind, loving, caring nature. The girl he loved was not a virgin, but he hardly cared coz he never loved her for sexual desires, his love was true. Well, after changing himself, he met the girl for the first time and spoke to her. For him, it was like a dream come true. But soon his dream became a nightmare, when he found out the truth that she used every good looking guy to make her ex-boyfriends jealous coz Love was just a game she played with everyone. And he was going to be her next victim. What should he have done?
As for today nothing is the same as it used to be earlier. He have changed his place and very importantly his inside him. And no longer trusts anyone..........

2007-11-17 08:11:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 08:09:22 · 15 answers · asked by lonlie 2 in Singles & Dating

before anything else i think i should say i had a really close friend who kept drinking even after being begged to stop. she died from it. now i yell at everyone who drinks. even my brother in law, my own brother, and my father. my sister, sister in law, and mother, and other lady friends usually just have a glass or two of wine. if i could ban drinking i would. i have earned the name "anti drink" from my brother. is this wrong?

2007-11-17 08:04:53 · 11 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Friends

Well speaking strictly in the past tense here I am curios to find out why girls go for the bad boy rather than the good one? I mean I really don't get it... I've recently enough suffered due to one of these little paradoxes, short story: I loved girl, girl didn't love me choosing instead to love bad boy, girl gets heart broken and then moves on from both me and the bad boy. Now I am over this girl but its something that has happened in the past as well and I am curios just why this is so, girls can you tell me why you do this? Oh and blokes you can also thoss in an opinion as to why.

2007-11-17 08:03:10 · 1 answers · asked by Lone Silver Wolf 3 in Singles & Dating

I changed the question bcuz people got the wrong idea the first time.

2007-11-17 08:02:23 · 15 answers · asked by Goddess Allure 2 in Singles & Dating