Be honest to me...I don't care if you hurt my feelings?

Question

I went out with my ex on/off for 2 years. I lost my virginity to him. I needed space from it all he made me upset and hurt me. I wasnt even sure if i was going out with him. I just stopped talking to him which made him try to talk to me even more, he texted me about once every week for 2 months, he even asked me to hang out but i said i was busy, after that we didnt talk it was as if we were invisible. i broke the ice by later texting him hey congratulations on winning the game and he replied right away saying thanks lol i saw you in the stands the next day i texted him about homework and he told me the homework as well as saying tell your mom i say hi. i thought things were off to a better start and decided to talk to him at school. i said i told my mom you said hi and shes wondering how your doing. he said oh yeah tell her im doing good. the conversation lasted 5 seconds because we each had to go opposite ways. its been 3 days... and i havent heard from him. Time to move on?

Answer 1

Sorry for the bad news and I have to tell you, for me, is over.Think about the guy reaction and his behavior is a silly and immature one.In other words, the guy acts as a real jerk with a low self-steem.I know, by fact, that is hard for you let him go.You can't force the relationship.You can't do nothing, since to be a couple is two for tango.I had the same situation many years ago with my ex wife and was cruel for me, but in the end, I had no choice and I let her go.The pain is huge, but, sooner or later, you will in love with someone again and the sky for you will be blue and the sadness will be a memory, since life is a bid memory, sometimes bad, and sometimes good .Be strong,be you and be the best for yourself.Don't beg,just be strong and let the loser go.Be optimistic.Have some friends and have some fun.Life is too short, anyway.I wish ya, the best.