A simple, average, fat boy loved a girl. She wasn't ordinary, she was real pretty and innocence could be seen on her face. The way he loved her could not be explained in words. He changed himself to become a person whom that girl would like, from his hairstyle to his shoes. But what did not changed in him was his kind, loving, caring nature. The girl he loved was not a virgin, but he hardly cared coz he never loved her for sexual desires, his love was true. Well, after changing himself, he met the girl for the first time and spoke to her. For him, it was like a dream come true. But soon his dream became a nightmare, when he found out the truth that she used every good looking guy to make her ex-boyfriends jealous coz Love was just a game she played with everyone. And he was going to be her next victim. What should he have done?
As for today nothing is the same as it used to be earlier. He have changed his place and very importantly his inside him. And no longer trusts anyone..........
2007-11-17
08:11:43
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Family & Relationships
➔ Singles & Dating
Not too long ago, a lone wolf found an angel, fallen far from grace, her soul shattered, her will undone but her beauty, inner and outer shone still, he saw in her that which he had been seeking for so long. The lone wolf sacrificed so much, became her stout shield, at least he could see her rise again if his love was not shared... In the end... The lone wolf fell, exhausted, stricken with deep hatred for himself for in truth he was a fool... the angel in the distance ran straight into that which had undone her before.
Your not alone mate, trust me, I've fought, I've bled, I've sacrificed greater part of who I was in succesive such incidents, to change isn't a big problem as long as your still the same deep down. For you it is not to late, hope is still alive just hold onto it.
2007-11-17 08:20:59
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answered by Lone Silver Wolf 3
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He shouldn't've changed for anyone but himself. If she loved him for him, he wouldn't've had to change for her. HE should've just stayed as himself and seen if she would've loved him for him...and not just some trophy to make her x men jealous. HE might've found that out if he was just himself...he would've liked himself too. But now, he just changed for her, and because of what he did that ended in vain, no girl with geniune intentions can ever get to know him....because he's turned into a typical ******* male(because that's how guys usually end up, once bitten by a girl), and so, he'll treat all others accordingly because his trust is gone. Be true to u, and someone worthy will come. When ur fake, u'll only attract fakers.
2007-11-17 16:19:24
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answered by Uncertain Soul 6
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Just tells you that something that seems beautiful, may not always be. And something that seems ordinary, may very well be beautiful inside. The simple, average, fat boy should thank the girl for an important lesson learned. That his angel is really ugly and insecure inside. That he is way better than her. So he could move on to find his true angel.
2007-11-17 16:19:36
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answered by Jessica C 4
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i have found that "beautiful" men and women have inflated egos, and think the world belongs to them in any way they want. but REAL life is not like that. Never, EVER change your looks for such a person. if she didn't notice you BEFORE you changed, you will mean nothing to her now, either. And of course nothing is the same for you anymore. you made an impossible goal for yourself. To get a girl who is beautiful outwardly, is what many men want, but it rarely leads to true love.
A greater truth in life is that it's the ordinary girls who are true. We are loyal when we truly fall in love, and that 'love' has nothing to do with outer looks. It has to do with personality, and having likes and dislikes in common. It has to do with if you smile and laugh and are happy simply by being with her. that you feel comfortable and can tell her anything. Forget beautiful girls... they mainly think others should worship them BECAUSE of their beauty.
but in the end, they will grow old and ask themselves 'what happened to my life? why do i have no love and family? and why were all my friends fake?'
So do not worry about being her next victim. turn away from her fakeness and find a girl like i described. us regular looking women are mostly loyal because we find love in the ordinary, and turn away from the fake people by instinct.
and don't be afraid to trust again -- just keep in mind that beautiful people have inflated egos. in time, their beauty fades and they are left with nothing.
2007-11-17 18:14:55
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answered by Angel_Blue 6
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sad story... the fact that you told it in the third person shows how bad it was... I haven't gone through too much heart troubles, but I have overcome several obstacles in my way... I think that mosty you should just give yourself some value that's not based on others' perspective... she wasn't worth it... human beings all have flaws and you can't help that, so you shouldn't generalize when it comes to "anyone". some of us don't have corrupted souls; There's someone out there for you... it doesn't have to be a romantic relationship, but it can be the person that gives you hope back... there's always someone new, but just make sure that you do not expect perfection out of everyone... mistakes happen and forgiving exists...
2007-11-17 19:15:49
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answered by Confused 2
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err u really arent asking should don't expect a real answer
2007-11-17 16:17:05
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answered by Anonymous
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love is a season,it will pass
2007-11-17 20:11:44
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answered by charlatan 7
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