Family & Relationships - 17 November 2007

problem is we are going to meet up for the first time and i have this secret i havent told him. im not the person who he thinks i am my name is not what it is and i am nothing alike to whom i have been posing as . As the person i have been posing as isnt real i made her up, but if i tell him he will hate me as a conversation we had the other day was about lyng and fake people OH GOD WHAT SHALL I DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-17 06:03:17 · 7 answers · asked by tiny_little_diva 1 in Singles & Dating

Cant do both!! No stupid or perv. answers!!!
I would save a friend

2007-11-17 06:02:44 · 52 answers · asked by Dann (: 4 in Friends

no matter what the reason is, whether its your fault or not, even though you think there is a chance to get back together, it will never be the same again.

2007-11-17 06:02:41 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've just met this guy through a friend who i really like, and peopole tell me that he likes me too. He just got out of juvinal hall, but I'm not sure weather I should go for it. I'm kinda afraid that he's just looking for some on to be with or not, because I'm not into that, I'm looking for a relationship, and I'm not sure if that thats what hes looking for or not. I'm just not sure what to do.

2007-11-17 06:02:00 · 4 answers · asked by Naommi K 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 05:59:23 · 20 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Singles & Dating

i told him i have but its not true and i think ive waited to long to tell him the truth...help...im an idiot

2007-11-17 05:54:38 · 13 answers · asked by lorennys2002 4 in Singles & Dating

We have been together over two years now. I go 2 university and I still make time 2 c him but he on the other hand acts like he is so busy when I know he is not! The only time I feel he is interested in doing something is when he comes over 2 my house 4 sex! Could he really be using me 4 sex 4 these 2 years? We have hardly done anything together last year we even did more than this year! He promises to me that he will take me out but then when the day comes he does not! I dont know why he is doing this can anyone help?

2007-11-17 05:52:38 · 46 answers · asked by Miss T 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 05:47:25 · 5 answers · asked by Cool_Dude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 17 and my boyfriend is 18. We have been together for almost three years. We have ultimately decided that now is not the time for us to have sex, mostly we want to make sure that when we have sex, we are being as safe as we possibly can, meaning using both the pill and a condom. Since asking my mother to put me on the pill is simply not an option for me, we've decided to wait until I'm 18. We've also decided to wait until we've been in college for a while and we know that a long distance relationship is going to work out.

I guess I just want to hear other peoples opinions on the issue. Why did you decide to have sex? Did you rationally talk it out first, like my boyfring and I did? Or, why did you decide not to have sex? I'm not trying to judge or be critical to anyone. I'm just curious about others rational behing making such and important decision.

2007-11-17 05:45:58 · 7 answers · asked by ... 4 in Singles & Dating

I know this does not belong here, but I trust you guys and nobody in the dating catagory knows anything, they are all kids please help.

Wanted to add?
I asked this question this morning and wanted to add to it since some of you thought I was chasing him and wouldnt leave him alone.

I met this guy, I really like him a lot and he has said he likes me, he has been divorced for 2 years. I have asked him over, we have had drinks together, made out etc. then all of a sudden he backs off. he calls me every night, emails me, comes in for lunch where I work, but he wont be alone with me and keeps saying we are going way to fast. he has said that my dreams match what he has been wishing for forever, like the beginning of his fantasy life. yet he wont do anything but talk to me on the phone or email. I am very confused. what do I do?
I wanted to add, that I had a long talk with him and told him I would leave him alone and back off, not call etc if he didnt want me to, thats when he said that my dreams seem to match what he has always wanted, like this was the beginning of his fanstasy life. I just dont understand why he wont be alone with
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me, he will just talk on the phone and e mail and when he comes in for luch, he is very distant for most of it till he gets ready to leave, then softens up. when on the phone if I say goodbye, he says "see ya: very forcibly, but will not say good bye. how long will I have to wait on him to figure out what he wants?
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his last two emails

Ok here I go. I'll try hard at this but it may be stupid. ( Friends first than maybe extras latter. I hate to see people hurt and don't want to be a part of it. I feel your dreams also are what I have hoped for would come true for a long time, it is the start of my fanitsy story. I admire the energy you have and the fight you have to reach your goals.


Ok, past statement you made. It is ok, so I'm I. What happens 10 years from now if things change that I can't control?

he is about 15 years older than me
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2007-11-17 05:39:26 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What should normally be the schedule for a girl on her wedding day? Get up late - have a small nap in the afternoon - eat less - the type of diet - the idea is not to get tired at the end of the day for thats the time to begin ...... ;)

2007-11-17 05:39:11 · 14 answers · asked by SimranSophia G 1 in Weddings

2007-11-17 05:38:32 · 3 answers · asked by GargVK 7 in Family

On a dating site there is a girl whos looking for a date but on her profile it says that she is engaged and has 2 kids. why is she on the site if shes engaged with kids?

2007-11-17 05:35:30 · 2 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Singles & Dating

i and my friend r studying in the same college.v r 19.our computer sir is odd.he always stares at us.he observes us where ever we go or whatever we do.he is 25. v r scared to even go to him.once v did not submit our record in time.so he scolded and later was kind of sorry.he comes in our bus.so wherever v sit he sits next to our seat,and just stare at us ar look at us thru mirror.it's so uncomfortable coz v found that other teachers got to know about this.v were just kind of fed up with this.wht could b the reason??
no foolish ans plz

2007-11-17 05:34:28 · 11 answers · asked by Michelle ツ 3 in Singles & Dating

At every family gathering she gets drunk and insults me. I don't know how to deal with it and I'd rather not go at all.

2007-11-17 05:33:25 · 10 answers · asked by Your Mom 6 in Family

Okay, so, I'm the youngest in my family, and only having an older brother, but all my life, I've wanted an Older Sister. I don't know why that is, but the fact is that it's true. Is this normal?

2007-11-17 05:30:11 · 18 answers · asked by Sonicwave 2 in Family

ok i know she doesnt actually hate me, but our relationship has been so tense nowadays.
she always compares me to other people. she wont shut up, its like she gets paid for nagging, she deliberatly looks for mistakes in me. i consider myself a good girl most of the time...i dont talk to guys, i dont lie to her if i want to go somewhere with my friends after school, i get ok grades at school. i know i need to improve in my behavior towards her, but its so HARD. she gets upset if a raise my voice (or she thinks im rasing my voice) at her, but its so hard not to.when we get in a fight, its the same procedure: spend 30 minutes CONTINULOUSLY yelling at cursing at me, saying how shes cursed to have kids like us, and how other people are blessed to have their kids, then she cries, and then she calls her friends and air our dirty laundry around. she never lets me have my privacy, never lets me lock my door.
we just had a fight, and shes doing the whole crying thing now with a friend

2007-11-17 05:28:25 · 5 answers · asked by Tibs 2 in Friends

I am really confused. I love a girl but she refused. It was ok but she behaves abnormally, She talks to me sometimes and sometimes dont. Her behaviour is strange. This really distracts me and I am not able to concentrate on my studies for few days. I need a quick solution. Is smoking an answer?

2007-11-17 05:25:15 · 37 answers · asked by james b 1 in Singles & Dating

how do i ask him out? were only 14..and hes shy but i like him. where could we go or do?

2007-11-17 05:25:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so there's this girl... she's cool and all, but I fear she has a crush on me. She's that hyper, fun-loving childish girl. One day, during school pics, I told my stepsister she looked really pretty without her glasses on. She told that girl, and i think she likes me now. The girl walked up to me, fluttering her eyelashes, and said 'Megan told me you think im pretty!' In a 'flirtatious' tone. And she's been acting different lately. And I noticed she's also been wearing makeup now, which is unusual for her.

2007-11-17 05:13:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The details we have sofar are having a costume party reception, a candy buffet, mini pumpkins as placecards and using Halloween-ish dvds (the Crow, Brothers Grimm, Sleepy Hollow, Van Helsing, etc) as table numbers.

What ideas would you suggest or use if you were doing this?

2007-11-17 04:47:49 · 7 answers · asked by *Miss_Autumn* 7 in Weddings

So my mom loves to spend time with me and she loves it when i go to work with her, and so i told her that i would go with her today. (because she is a therapist and i need medical hours to be a pediatrician in the future). but right after i told her that i would go with her my boyfriend called me and asked if i would like to go to the game with him. and this isnt just any football game. this is the last game for my school before state. if they win today then they play at state next saturday . football is a pretty big deal at my school too. so who should i go with. i would rather go tot the game, but i don't wanna hurt my mom's feelings.

2007-11-17 04:46:41 · 13 answers · asked by SaJaGri 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

And if they came back into your life now would you want to pick up where you left off? Even if you were involved with some one else, or even married?

2007-11-17 04:44:36 · 8 answers · asked by iceprincess 5 in Friends

she's a really good friend and has been for a long time. we know everything about each other but sometimes it gets awkward when like...it comes to calling up guys and all. she just duzn't enjoy that kinda stuff. and yet she's my best friend forever and we have lots of fun togather. the hard part is when we hang out in a big gang and she stays out of some sort of activity and then i get totally stuck. do i stick with the gang or keep her company?

2007-11-17 04:43:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

After months of fighting and crying me and my best friend aren't best friends anymore and she is sorta popular it's not that i wanna be popular it's just that i think she might make fun of me!!!!! What should i do?

2007-11-17 04:41:33 · 7 answers · asked by Grace! 3 in Friends

there's a girl in one of my college classes that i've grown to really like since the start of the year. We sit beside each other, talk about everything, she invited me to her place for a party a month ago and even let me spend the night there (not in a funny way), we help each other alot with assignments, and we've had coffee together but that was while helping me with an assignment. We are becoming good friends atleast. But i'm not sure if she's pursuing anything more than friendship. Her Facebook says that she's in a relationship but she never says anything about a bf. But someone did leave a comment asking her about how things with her and the bf were going; it seems that he may be far away. This bf's name is also tagged in her profile pic and i think there is some implication in her msn screen name. But has she not said anything about him b/c she thinks i only want to be friends OR b/c she doesn't want me to know about him yet?? I want to get closer to her BUT....

2007-11-17 04:41:05 · 21 answers · asked by REDSOX847 2 in Singles & Dating

Yeah there's the old cake n eat it theory but what's the reality?

2007-11-17 04:40:24 · 28 answers · asked by Goldie P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-17 04:38:04 · 13 answers · asked by heartslikelaughter 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 04:37:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-17 04:36:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating