i and my friend r studying in the same college.v r 19.our computer sir is odd.he always stares at us.he observes us where ever we go or whatever we do.he is 25. v r scared to even go to him.once v did not submit our record in time.so he scolded and later was kind of sorry.he comes in our bus.so wherever v sit he sits next to our seat,and just stare at us ar look at us thru mirror.it's so uncomfortable coz v found that other teachers got to know about this.v were just kind of fed up with this.wht could b the reason??
no foolish ans plz
2007-11-17 05:34:28 · 11 answers · asked by Michelle ツ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do not want to alarm you, but anyone exhibiting that kind of behavior could become dangerous. What he is doing now is definitely harassment and possibly a form of stalking.
I do not know what country you are in, but all colleges around the world have a responsibility to protect its students from harassment. Go to BOTH your dean/counselor AND campus police/security. From your statement "computer sir", I assume that he is a teacher. The college has an obligation to make sure that their employees act in a proper manner.
Make SURE that both your and your friend's complaint is documented... ask for a copy of the complaint.
If he tries to harass you in any way (lowering your grades, etc.), do not accept that. Go back to the college administration and complain.
Check the link below for info from a US college to its students.
If the bus you use is public transportation, the school may not be able to do much. You may have to change buses.
But by all means, DO NOT EVER be alone around him. And do not hesitate to call the public police if he tries to touch you or stalks you. Be very aware of your surroundings both on campus and off.
Good luck!
2007-11-17 05:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by Charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't want to be mean or anything, but, are you wearing any reavealing clothes or doing anything that could bring this on? If not, maybe you could talk to the D.A. or the head proffesor. Or even your Mother. This guy has something wrong with him. Maybe you could try talking to him even. And approach it in a nice calm way. Say, "Could you please stop focusing on only me, it makes me uncomfortable." Hopes this helps!
2007-11-17 13:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by Library Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I smell a stalker!! If her persists in following you tell the counseler about him or who ever is in charge in this matter. Take care of your self
2007-11-17 13:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by ferris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a freak! Why don't you guys just straight up ask him what the f*ck are you staring at us for, are you a freak?
2007-11-17 13:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well v had a teacher like dat to... he used 2 touch gals at all odd places... but i guess its just dat des guys are sex maniacs.. cant take der eyes off gals... talk 2 other teachers bout it... if they dont respond well... talk 2 ur princi n ask him/her to keep ur names a secret orelse he mite do sumthing 2 u considering wat u say bout him
2007-11-17 13:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you... some guys stalk girls they like. Its wierd but true. This might be the case.
2007-11-17 13:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by ♫K♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure, but if it gives you an uneasy feeling, i would report him to somebody, as you never know what's going to happen. side note---i would work on your spelling and grammar.
2007-11-17 13:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by Sherry L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stalker ?
2007-11-17 13:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by Boss 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he is crazy or may be sick.
2007-11-17 13:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by boss of bosses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
creeper...
2007-11-17 13:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋