i told him i have but its not true and i think ive waited to long to tell him the truth...help...im an idiot
2007-11-17 05:54:38 · 13 answers · asked by lorennys2002 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's bad in the sense that you are not getting your pleasure from the encounter. It's bad because it doesn't HAVE to be that way, you told him in essence you were happy with his efforts. Denying him the opportunity to rise to the occasion and denying yourself potential mind scrambling satisfaction. So, yeah, it's bad...
2007-11-17 06:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by HotDockett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that's a long time to have not told him the truth. sure i've lied about it before but only when it wasn't serious. you should tell him the truth, especially if you plan on being with him any longer. what happens if you end up married? you can't lie to him forever.... besides if you tell him the truth you can work on getting him to actually be able to please you.
2007-11-17 14:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by labellavita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weeell - it may have been good for his confidence earlier on, but now it's your turn. It may hurt his feelings a bit, but you're going to have to teach him how to please you, and he'll thank you for it.
Remember, guys don't know until you show them. Some women go off like rockets the moment you touch them; others need a roomful of diesel-powered equipment and a team of surgeons standing by.
If *you* know how to get yourself off, why not just do whatever you do while he's doing what he does? If he's sensible he'll find that a complete turn-on.
CD
2007-11-17 14:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by Super Atheist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sure did wait too long! At this point, bring up to him you'd like to try something new in the bedroom. Use that opportunity to teach him how to rock your socks off!
2007-11-17 14:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by souldoubt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that's sad. it was bad to lie to the poor guy. you have to tell him, he's gonna feel like crap thinking that he cant please you but it would be better maybe you guys can work something out, try different things in the sack something that will make you reach that Ecstasy with your man
2007-11-17 14:05:33 · answer #5 · answered by Aldy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him in a calm and let him know you want to work on it or something. Sometimes women think about having one too much and don't let the nature of it take its course.
2007-11-17 13:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Caramel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES . IT"S A VERY BAD THING TO LIE TO A GUY. NEXT TIME, TELL HIM THAT YOU WANT TO COME FIRST. THIS WILL MAKE HIM MORE EXCITED AND BOTH OF YOU WILL HAVE SO MUCH FUN
2007-11-17 14:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by LEXUSRY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a little playing around and experiment to get that spot and you no longer have to lie....give some directions and you are home free.
2007-11-17 14:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by gr8ful_one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women always faked their orgasm... only to protect the ego of their man...the best thing to do is to learn how to get an orgasm... how??? you must know your G-spot...dont wait for him to discover it... you should be the one to locate it....know your body that's the only way....
2007-11-17 14:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't think much of him if you lie. Your sex life must be lousy and your communication even worse.
2007-11-17 14:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by towanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋