problem is we are going to meet up for the first time and i have this secret i havent told him. im not the person who he thinks i am my name is not what it is and i am nothing alike to whom i have been posing as . As the person i have been posing as isnt real i made her up, but if i tell him he will hate me as a conversation we had the other day was about lyng and fake people OH GOD WHAT SHALL I DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-17 06:03:17 · 7 answers · asked by tiny_little_diva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cancel the meetup and tell him the truth. If he still wants to meet up thats great, if not you brought this on yourself unfortunately.
2007-11-17 06:11:04 · answer #1 · answered by CJ B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he's the real deal? I mean, it's easy to be someone ur not online...so he should understand. Be up front. Because there's no use in going on with the sharade. Because if u do, and then things go further and u get hitched or something, then things'll really be messed up. So it's better to be honest now than later. Because it's easier to be let down now than later when u guys are MUCH more involved. But hopefully he'll understand and forgive u, and thank u for ur honesty and y'all can start over. Good luck.
2007-11-17 14:10:22 · answer #2 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i honestly think that you shouldnt have lied to him in da first place but da sooner u tell him da betta off it'll be i would jux explain to him da real u n if he really likes u n has fallen 4 u like u say he has he'll understand n forgive u n yall can put this behind u n move on jux make sho dat u dont lie to him anymo or he'll neva be able 2 trust u again n u kno if u dont have trust u dont have a real relationship
2007-11-17 14:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by alesha s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think is going to happen when you meet him, and realizes you aren't at all who you've claimed to be? He's probably going to freak out and who knows what will happen. If you want to meet him, you need to tell him the truth before hand. If he still wants to meet you, be sure its in a very public place. You've lied to him. How do you know he isn't lying to you? Be careful!
2007-11-17 14:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by kyliekissesx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's going to find out one way or the other- might as well fess up before you meet in real life so he can digest the new info and make a more level-headed decision.
2007-11-17 14:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all, its dangerous talking to a stranger online and then meeting him somewhere. seconnd of all, he could be this 70 year old pervert. i wouldnt go at all. that person could be dangerous.
2007-11-17 14:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by Mike C 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DON'T fall in love online!!!!!!! Trust me on this, it's the worst mistake you could ever make!!!
2007-11-17 14:10:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋