Family & Relationships - 17 November 2007

I have read some questions girls talk about things
i found disgusting.I wrote the question if your grades got better less you wore
The test was to find out if girls was honest.
I.m proud to say that 99% of the girls pased with
strong mad answeres as i expected.I WAN T YOU TO KNOW I WAS WRONG,BUT SOMETIMES
A FEW KIDS MESS IT UP. THE QUESTION THEY ASK.I AM PROUD OF THE GIRLS THAT STUCK UP
FOR WHAT THEY FEAL AND BELIEVE.IT RESTORES M Y FAITH IN THE FUCTURE.
Having 4 daughters of our own.and after my wife
died of cancer I raised them or should i say they raised me.Any way we always tried to teach high
morles.Wearing jeans then and now is a haf to
thing.Yes i don't spell very good but i am doing
better, NO I AM NOT A DIRTY OLD MAN ,YEA
OLD BUT THAT COMES WITH AGE.
I wish all you girls the best of grades and dating.

Phillip W

2007-11-17 07:01:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 06:59:57 · 15 answers · asked by robinwritergal 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 06:59:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 06:56:35 · 15 answers · asked by Jammy B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 06:55:27 · 21 answers · asked by kiaira r 1 in Singles & Dating

The relationship turned abusive and I had him arrested. After this I left him and moved out while he was at work do to being scared of what he would do. Long story short he promised to pay the ring off and now will not do it. What can I do?

2007-11-17 06:54:03 · 28 answers · asked by marvinj1313 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She sent contempt of court papers yesterday for non payment of child support even though I am positive he is current. She has told many lies about me to his family, turned his brother against him using me as a wedge and just tourments my husband using the kids constantly. She has told him that she is jealous of me and what we have and will never leave him alone. She had an affair and became pregnant by a colleague of hers is why they divorced. I have been so miserable watching the crap that my husband has to go through and dealing w/ the reprocussions from the children at our expense through her manipulating him that I just can't take it any more. He is afraid of her, or so he says so he doesn't tell her to stop calling him and emailing him only at work. Sometimes she is able to convence him that I am the cause for the way she behaves...I can't take it anymore and I am thinking of leaving him. Has anyone been able to survive this type of thing...how did you work it out????

2007-11-17 06:52:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Husbands when bringing "toys" into the bedroom will u let or have u let ur wife use them on u...or...wives have u or will u attempt to use them on him?

2007-11-17 06:51:07 · 9 answers · asked by NONAME 4 in Marriage & Divorce

we have no classes together and we want to go somewehere. We went to the movies last weekend and I almost fell asleep. I really want to spend more time with him. Any ideas. BTW I am in 8th grade so keep answers appropriate please.

2007-11-17 06:42:26 · 3 answers · asked by Autumn 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't know if I'm asking too much but I don't think I see my boyfriend enough. We've been dating for 3 months and we go to the same college. He commutes but, most of the time, he drives home as soon as classes are over. We usually watch a movie at my apartment maybe once a week (we haven't gone on a real date since we had just began dating). I offer to drive to his house but that usually turns into me driving to his FRIEND's house to watch them all play videogames. Hell, I spent my birthday doing just that! It's so frustrating because I care about him a lot, yet, I feel as though he doesn't want to put any effort forward. Sometimes, I go the whole day without even talking to him except a text saying I'm going to sleep. I've told him about this on multiple occasions but he usually says "i'm sorry" and that he doesn't want me to feel like this. I honestly don't think he knows WHY he's apologizing. All I want is some alone time with my honey. So do you guys think I'm being irration?

2007-11-17 06:42:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and i dont like him like that anymore. cause i have my eyes set for soem other guy.

2007-11-17 06:41:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You went on one date with a guy, you plan a second date and call him and he never picks up his phone.

This was two months ago.

All of a sudden, in one day, he manages to call you twice and leaves a voicemail.

when you dont respond to that, the next day he emails you

when you call him back to talk about what exactly is so urgent he says

he just sent you a letter.


this is the guy that faded on me two months ago, fyi.


what would you think? what would you do?

2007-11-17 06:40:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so here's the story and question....

I was with my girlfriend almost 5 years....we loved each other very much....we did have some fights and arguments.
I wasn't perfect, I did say mean things sometimes or do things but I have OCD and Borderline Personality Disorder.
Not all of it, but most of it was caused by my problems, I have been getting help and working on myself for the last
year and a half and been getting better. I regularly go to my therapist and psychiatrist and take my meds as prescribed.
I have gotten better. She left me 3 months ago because she said she didn't like the way I treated her. She is the type
that wants a "fairytale" relationship. Everyone has told her including her parents that she won't get that with anyone.
She also expects no fights or arguments. Well anyways she told me for the first two months after she left...that she
still wanted to be with me, she loves me, misses me, wants to know I'm serious about us, etc. Then two weeks after
that go by and she doesn't say much to me....well I texted her a lot but it was because when I tried to give her space
before by not texting as much, she would text me and say why are you ignoring me or I don't think you're serious about
this...and then when I did she didn't want me to text or wouldn't text me back most of the time.

2007-11-17 06:40:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i hve a close friend whose datin a gurl i know i call ha and stuffs but we are jst friends now my friend's tellin me 2 ask ha out to see wat kinda person she is and i dont want to hurt ha wat can i do.

2007-11-17 06:38:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I still wanna be friends with him, and he's really close to asking me out. I don't wanna ruin our friendship, but I think we should be friends only.

2007-11-17 06:37:48 · 7 answers · asked by Kiki 3 in Singles & Dating

there's this boy that i met at science camp...he's from a different school n has a girlfriend.i caught him staring at me n his girlfriend a few times.actually...a lot.he looked at me more.i miss him.his girlfriend is actually my friend.so yea.i really want to see him.do you have any suggestions?no,im not going to cheat...

2007-11-17 06:27:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-17 06:26:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'll start from the beginning... first off... he's a year younger (please, no rude comments... age is nothing but a number :)) I've fallen for him, and I'm pretty sure he likes me, too, but I still have a slight doubt. We're already good friends. He's in two of my classes. He's very understanding. I like him soo much that my stomach feels really weird and so does my throat... but the weird part is... I like that feeling... knowing I'll get to see him. But, I've been hurt by a few guys before. I would love to ask him out, but I'm a little shy. What do I do? I want to be done with this! I can't get him out of my head. Thank you to all who answer and have a Happy Thanksgiving :).

2007-11-17 06:23:01 · 5 answers · asked by Y Me? 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy & I who have been family friends for decades.We fell in love after being best friends.7 years best friends 5 years in love.We are committed couple in love just like any other couple.I called him at work to ask him if he had called mailed chatted with me or was it someone else earlier told him we have to meet up to talk about it.He asked me what my name was!After i told him who i am he said hes at work busy to call later.I havent called him wont call at work but im worried about his tone of voice when we spoke first time when i called him at work.He almost sounded like he was talking to stranger.Whats stranger dual split act?All he says is busy or say lets talk later working all the time as hes doctor hes too busy to mess around ive family friends who work with him.Im just shocked surprised he suddenly sounded that way

2007-11-17 06:20:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've only kissed one guy ever!Thats how pathetic I am!
I have a good personality and people tell me I'm pretty but I don't seem to get the guys!I do go out clubbing and have a great laugh.I have lots of brilliant guys friends at college but thats all they are just friends.They never seem interested in anything more.
I'm really feeling down about still being a virgin and I'm afraid that my inexperience will put guys off.I feel like the longer I leave it the more afraid of the pain the first time I get!

2007-11-17 06:20:32 · 9 answers · asked by Mossy 2 in Singles & Dating

My father-in-law and mother-in-law are divorced. They both remarried other people. My father-in-law got divorced again from his new wife about a month ago. When my FIL and MIL were married they had friends together. My FIL recently came in contact with one of their old friends who is also divorced. She also happened to be my MIL’s good friend when they were still married. They took a vacation in Key West together already. I hope you aren’t too confused yet. LOL!

Anyway, my husband and I had made plans to have our first Thanksgiving together this year. We’ve been married for a while but every year we go to another family member’s house for festivities. This was our year. My FIL was invited to come to our house for Thanksgiving this year.

Then the other day he invited us to come to his new girlfriend’s house [my MIL’s good friend] for Thanksgiving. My husband knows her and her family from when his parents were still together. I don’t want to go for many reasons. 1. I feel bad for my MIL and I think it’s wrong. 2. We already invited him here and he knew we were doing our own Thanksgiving. 3. We had planned to have this one at our house.

My husband doesn’t want to tell his dad we aren’t going and doesn’t understand why I don’t want to go. Furthermore, he hasn’t the slightest idea how to tell him that we don’t want to go. Any suggestions? Advice? Opinions? Anything would be useful!

Thanks!!

2007-11-17 06:20:03 · 7 answers · asked by .vato. 6 in Family

2007-11-17 06:19:13 · 16 answers · asked by bianca h 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-17 06:18:57 · 17 answers · asked by dwatsontaylor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how far should i be with my planning?

2007-11-17 06:18:21 · 13 answers · asked by momma-to-morgan 3 in Weddings

i've been married for a year and a half to my first love but i met this one guy about 3 and half years ago he just lived to far away and this guy recently got out of jail and i cant stop thinking about him now....i've told him that if my husband and i ever got divorced i'd want to be with him if he was available...i love my husband but think i'm falling in love with another man. what should i do?

2007-11-17 06:15:17 · 20 answers · asked by Melissa G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

there's this teacher who hates, one day we were doing this assignment & i didn't know the answer, so i said i didnt know. so one on my c/mate started laughing. i smiled and he saw me did this and then basically switched on me. saying that i should laugh bcuz im a waste of space and i should have been kicked out a long time cause i come to his lessons (which i dont, i have only been 3/15 times) dat i dont hand in any work ( MY USB was stolen & anytime try to do it again i get demotivated cuz i spend so much time doing it b4). i think that i should either go to the lesson keep quiet and dont speak even if i have a question or dont go 2 the lessons & ask for the notes Frm my C/mates do da work and give 1 of them it to hand in. i haven't been goin to lessons or doin C/work because ive been suffering frm depression (no one except my GP/doctor knows this). and i have a lot of sh*t to deal with @ home. can sum1 help me tell me what to do cuz rite now ive got nothing goin for me.

2007-11-17 06:13:39 · 2 answers · asked by jay K 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My twin sister and I are 22...we both live at home and sometimes I think our relationship is too close and intimate. We are inseparable and sometimes I feel like I can't breathe. Can anyone relate to this? We are also really competitive and compare ourselves all the time. It's really exhausting!

2007-11-17 06:12:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ive been in a relationship for 40 years.when we greet each other its more like ,hello maggot face ,and she replies hello slime ball, and we kiss and tingle all over. You probably wont under stand this, but i think we are in love ,(she is my wife of 40 years).

2007-11-17 06:11:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been arguing a lot lately due to him working all the time and never being home. He makes all kinds of excuses as to why he needs to work, and when I try to tell him he's neglecting our child (I don't even bother saying he's neglecting me anymore), all he tells me is I'm barking up the wrong tree.

We had a huge fight yesterday and I ended up staying the night at a relative's place with our child, simply to allow both myself and him to cool off. We spoke on the phone, we argued on the phone, and it ended with him getting a call on his work cell to go into work. He said he'd rather talk to me face to face, that instead of on the phone we should sit down together and talk everything through. I said fine, he could call when he's ready, he knows where we are. He told me he'd call when he got home, but he never did, although he says he didn't finish work until 4 in the morning.

2007-11-17 06:09:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-17 06:05:12 · 9 answers · asked by frankie v 1 in Singles & Dating