Family & Relationships - 17 November 2007

What im saying is that women have to go through alot of hassle! Periods, all the pain of birth and a bunch more! When all men have to go through is the pleasure of sex! I have always wondered this! Please answer thanks!

2007-11-17 10:58:36 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to come up with a colour scheme for my wedding and I was set on the idea of having a traditional off-white wedding dress, my bridesmaids in dark green dresses and all the flowers white with deep green foliage. The problem is that when I have said this to people, the response has been that it would be a bit colourless, particularly in the photos. I would still like my bridesmaids in dark green so my question is, what flowers would go well? Should I add another colour in there? I have tried looking for pictures of weddings with bridesmaids in dark green but have had no luck, I've come to the conclusion that it's not a popular colour!
I have spoken to a couple of florists but at the end of the day it is my decision so they haven't been able to help me.
I have asked a question here about my dress and have been given loads of good advice so thought I woud put this dilemma to everyone too!

2007-11-17 10:56:45 · 27 answers · asked by pinkgerbera 4 in Weddings

IM gonna get straight to the point my wife today saturday went to Six Flags theme park with an old friend of hers, she didnt have to pay and we only have or should I say had 100 dollars to our name, I told her before she left this morning with her friend to only buy food, nothing for a ride or anything else. Not only that but the gas on the car was nearly empty and we also have to buy groceries for the week. So Im checking up throughout the day to see what she has bought cause she has a problem of spending and not even looking or knowing how much money is in the bank. So anyway 4 hours later I get an email through my pda saying that our account is negative, reason being is I took 50 dollars out of checking and put it in savings just in case this would happen. She ended buying a ticket to get on these ride. 2 rides at 25 dollars each. So I call her frustrated and ask her what did she spend the money on she told me "ON FOOD!!!" I said theres no way in hell u spent that on food so then...

2007-11-17 10:56:28 · 28 answers · asked by Raqwen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently started liking this guy that I've known for a while and I've been falling harder and harder for him as the days go by. So simply, I tried to see if he wanted to hang out sometime. I facebooked him asking him to study because he gets a better grade than I do in the class and he was nice about it but said:
"lol i don't devote any time to studying. sorry. :["
so should I just give up? He doesn't seem to show any interest in me and I just got out of a fling about 6 months ago where this guy treated me really badly, and I don't want that to happen again. Am I reading too much into or does he really just not study?

2007-11-17 10:55:47 · 9 answers · asked by Blythe 4 in Singles & Dating

Is there any point that a narcissist can get better and live a healthy normal marriage life?

2007-11-17 10:54:13 · 6 answers · asked by homesick33 2 in Marriage & Divorce

on a french letter, does it make the male come quicker?

2007-11-17 10:52:54 · 4 answers · asked by L D 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

IF YOU ARE ONLY STILL MARRIED, PLEASE ANSWER THE FOLLOWING QUESTIONS:

1. How has your understanding of the wird LOVE changed since your wedding day?

2. What meaning of the word LOVE is the love most important in your marriage? Please explain.

3. Catholic theology says that true married love is based on each parner's free-will decision to work for the good of the other and for good of the marriage. What do you thinkk of that? Can you give an example?

4. On your wedding day you have an idea that if things did not work out you could split?

5. Catholic theology says that marriage is a voocation, a calling from G-d. What do you think of that? Please give an example.

6. Contemporary Catholic theology now emphasizes that marriage is less like a "legal contact" and more like "G-d's covenant with humanity" in which G-d promised permanent love. How does that fit with your marriage? Give an example.

2007-11-17 10:48:08 · 9 answers · asked by Stars 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have a pretty good relationship. We've been married three years. Sex, ladies, sex. My wife doesn't get turned on unless we've been arguing....and I'm really confused and don't get it. If things are going well and we aren't fighting, we always have a good day, but if I ask her, "Hey...you wanna.....you know?" She always says no.
On the other hand, if we have an argument and it gets to yelling and screaming and crying, something happens to her and she turns into a vampire! She tears my clothes off and when we do it she has CrAzY orgasms!!!?? W H Y ? ? ?
Why can't we just have a nice day - have some breakfast, go out shopping, catch a movie, go home, eat dinner, make love....? Now, I have to yell at her when I want to do it! I have to make it seem real too because she's a woman and can tell the difference!!
Ladies, what's up with my wife? Have you ever heard of this before?

2007-11-17 10:46:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

urrm ok. basically when i first started going out with my boyfriend, he introduced me to his family. i thought his older brother was really hot. anyway we ended up sleeping together while my boyfriend was on holiday. The next day i went round there to pick up my phone that i left behind, and i ended up having a three some with the brother i had already slept with and his dad. My boyfriends brother said that if i dont sleep with him when he wants he will tell. what should i do??

2007-11-17 10:41:15 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you think of a man in a three-piece suit? Like it? Dislike it? Why?

2007-11-17 10:40:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I were just married about 3 weeks ago. We just got home from our honeymoon. What advice do you have for us so that we can have a happy and successful marriage?

2007-11-17 10:39:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 17 years old...am i still a virgin? i hope so....i had sex 4 years ago and i wasnt ready and i didnt want to have sex with this guy that i didnt know and i felt like i was raped...and the second time i did it with my boy friend (several times) my cherry didint pop and when i have my periods i bleed very heavy and my vagina feel strecthed and i had oral sex with him and i didnt want to but i was young and stupid but also knew better too but i did it because i was depressed and i wanted to feel loved by this boy and i regret even having sex and im scared to ever tell my mom because this will hurt her forever and im a christian and i know i dont want to ever have sex again and wanted to wait til i got married and til this day i still think about it and im tired of feeling this way...what should i do?

2007-11-17 10:36:16 · 38 answers · asked by Tiana S 1 in Singles & Dating

She is many years younger than me, and Im not sure what to do. She is into digy stuff, like ipods and labtops, and Im on a budget of $150. She also loves the little things, like make up or clothes, or shoes, but this is her 13th birthday, and for my 13th birthday, none of the stuff she likes was even in style.

2007-11-17 10:35:56 · 6 answers · asked by gdjhfhj 1 in Friends

2007-11-17 10:31:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My whole life I have been told you are nothing if you don't drive a nice car, have alot of cash, have a beautiful girlfriend...... now I have all that and more... I married her, I have 3 nice cars and alot of cash... I have a ton of friends but they are all married with kids too, so time with then is limited. I play with my two kids all day long... I hang out with my wife all day long too... I have been to may places..

People tell me to give back, but I'm under 40 and have plenty of time to give back....

I'm not religious, cause I was religous till I was 18.

What am I missing?

2007-11-17 10:31:41 · 13 answers · asked by Latin G 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 25 and I can only recall a few. Is this normal?

2007-11-17 10:29:59 · 21 answers · asked by mellow yellow 3 in Friends

I love my husband with all of my heart, but i openly admit I fell for someone else.The chemistry was soooo strong, he pulled me aside one evening and told me his feelings for me (we have known each other for 5 yrs),he also took every oppertunity he could, to make me aware of how he feels and I was so confused, it turned my head around. This bloke lives and works locally, so i have done everything I possibly can to avoid him for last few months, as i cant act on any stupid feelings. And I would never risk losing my husband, but why the hell did it happen in first place? I love my hub so much, we have great life. Angry with myself that this bloke made me feel this way. Beat myself up about it each day, as i feel as though i betrayed my gorgeous, lovin darlin of a husband. I would never of acted on it, so why cant I forgive myself????

2007-11-17 10:28:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He says he loves me constantly, but it's so hard to believe. He comes over on tuesday nights and he's always tired because he starts work early. Sometimes he just falls asleep until he wakes up and leaves. On weekends I only see him at night, unless a group of us go to the beach - in which case I'm mostly ignored for his friends.
Whenever he stays over he leaves like half an hour after we wake up, even if he has nothing to do at his house.
I see him about 3 nights a week if I'm lucky. He says he loves me and gets upset when I mention him always being tired, or never being around.
I just think on his days off he could spend whole days with me, but he never does. I don't think I should have to b*tch at him to do it, if he "loved" me then he would do it by himself.
He only messages me once a day, and I'd talk to him most nights on msn.
I want someone who wants me... Is it time to break up?

2007-11-17 10:26:25 · 5 answers · asked by jeska102 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband worked with a female for about a year. This was in 2006.She no longer works with him. I am just finding out he loaned this women money. She called my house and there was some whispering. He said she called crying needing more money. He promised me nothing happened between them. After a week of pure hell I gave in and believed him. The problem now is I keep catching him in lies about the situation. I found out the last night she was there, they sat out in his truck and drank a beer at midnight. He swore up and down earlier this didn't happen. He said he couldn't remember the month he loaned her the money. How hard is that to remember? I know he's lying, I just don't want to think anything happened, but he's making it look so bad lying about the little details. She moved out of town. Thank God. I am waiting for the cell phone bill for 06. How else can I check this out without him knowing. He thinks I dropped it.

2007-11-17 10:25:54 · 18 answers · asked by bob 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-17 10:25:27 · 6 answers · asked by malekessya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband isn't ever happy for things that happen for me...we are young and he is a very successful athlete at a university. He is known in his sport and I have always been supportive of him! I am so happy for him when he does good and ask how practice is...I travel to a lot of his games as well... But when something cool happens for me he isn't excited, like he will just be like.."oh, cool..." and just change the subject. This is for everything...job, contest, projects, compliments people give me, promotions, anything good for me. Like, he makes me feel like he is sooo much better than me and my accomplishments are nothing. I mean why can't he let me be happy!? I have been so supportive for so long, I'm almost about to say, go get someone you think is good enough for you, because the way you treat me isn't right...What do you think?? It's like he wants me to think I'm worthless...which is tells me a lot!

2007-11-17 10:25:12 · 7 answers · asked by elle 3 in Marriage & Divorce

MY fiance's exwife hates me and talks badly about me to everyone infront of their 7 yr old son. She also tells me things like I can't watch thier son, can't be involved with his school work etc. Not only will my fiance not say anything to his exwife about this but acts like it really does not bother him . He knows it really bothers me but just plays it off as no big deal. Well the other day his ex called and got me as my fiance was not home. She told me my fiance needs to step-up as a dad and make his son #1. Well when i told my fiance this he asked if his son heard this and i said i think so.Well he fliped out and called his ex and threated/yelled at her that he will take their son away from her if she ever talks badly about him again. Why did he flip out on her when she just said that one thing about him but never cares about the hundred of things she says about me?

2007-11-17 10:25:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you girls rather be with a guy thats a virgin or not a virgin?

virgin -- Good person who is christian and is mature

not a virgin -- hoe

2007-11-17 10:19:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

both husband and wife are in agreement. husband and wife + another person. no seperate sessions.

2007-11-17 10:18:24 · 20 answers · asked by Marquita R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and he was talk to me over the phone and i was saying i love you i really love you but i cant ? and at the time im going out with someone i love but not as much as my love my x what dose this dream mean

2007-11-17 10:18:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My soon to be ex-husband has a terrible upbringing. His mother was very mean and abusive. His father would cheat and leave his mother for months at a time. He has 2 brothers in prison. One for rape and one for murder. One brother is a drug dealer who has not been caught yet. I married him knowing all this because I thought he would be different. He cheated on me multiple times after the marriage and later became emotionally and physically abusive towards me. Do you think it has to be with the was he was raised?

2007-11-17 10:17:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i stalked this dude who used to be a celbrity.i wanted him to be manger.im very determined person.when i was trying to contact him i harassed.thats how i get what i want from people.i do that home when i want something from my home.anyways i use to call his job alot.when i did meet him and claimed i was a stalker i was confused.my folks told me i approach him in the wrong way.they told me just because i did that i wont never be cool with him.after that i said to myself before this year is over he is going to be able to say i thought lala was crazy but she isnt.okay he forgave.sometimes when i see him he acts fony.there were times where i would talk with him then he will be like dont follow me.anytime he says he never turns arond.then i remember 1 time i got finished talking with him and he never mentioned anything about following him.then like a week later he goin be like dont follow me.i feel like hes just playing games.i dont want to his girl.i dont like him.im not my own lil world.

2007-11-17 10:16:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and how would you describe it for your partner

2007-11-17 10:16:18 · 6 answers · asked by Perfectionist 6 in Marriage & Divorce

also, what is The Rebel Yell: Sex and the University?

school newspaper?

2007-11-17 10:16:04 · 1 answers · asked by Greg D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she found out about something from ages ago and now says i have been lieing to her for years. i didnt lie i just didnt tell her but she didnt ask about it because she didnt know about it. now she is being a real *****

do you think that its lieing

2007-11-17 10:13:44 · 9 answers · asked by Kieran 2 in Singles & Dating