urrm ok. basically when i first started going out with my boyfriend, he introduced me to his family. i thought his older brother was really hot. anyway we ended up sleeping together while my boyfriend was on holiday. The next day i went round there to pick up my phone that i left behind, and i ended up having a three some with the brother i had already slept with and his dad. My boyfriends brother said that if i dont sleep with him when he wants he will tell. what should i do??
2007-11-17 10:41:15 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hahahaha, have fun explaining that to your (ex)boyfriend. You're not very faithful, eh?
2007-11-17 10:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Come clean and let your boyfriend go.
Once you let the poor boy go, AVOID the entire family!
EDIT:
Incidentally...despite what some obviously narrow mided people have blasted you with, there is nothing "sick" about a sexual encounter between two (or more) concenting adults.
The most that can be said about the situation is that you showed some SERIOUS impulse control and bad choice issues. Unfortunately, unless the (soon to be) ex-boyfriend's family is unusually open sexually, you may have just caused some serious harm. Mind, a father doing a son's girlfriend is a blatant slap in the face and a statement about how much the father feels (or doesn't) about the son.
You will likely need some councilling to help you avoid this type of situation in the future, but that family is going to need some psychiatric help SOON to avoid blowing up!
2007-11-17 10:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by jcurrieii 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm having a hard time believing that this is true. However, if it is.....you only have one choice and that is to start fresh, leave the family and get a new b/f. Don't tell this one what happened. There is no sense in him feeling like he has lost his dad, brother, and girlfriend. Next time get control of yourself, and have some respect for yourself too.
2007-11-17 10:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by replexgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, darling, i guess it's really good what u did - to ask people.
i just hope u can handle all the people who project their fears upon you.
if he's important to u - tell him.
if not- well, then try to get out of there. i guess there's nothing good in there.
i can try guessing how u feel - done something without really thinking about it...
then suddenly found yourself in a situation that u don't know how u got into...
he'll know anyway, because you're not a whore. u won't have sex with someone u don't want to have sex with.
i really hope u'll find a friend to talk to, face to face.
2007-11-17 11:06:20 · answer #4 · answered by gal g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you sure did pull off a doozie! Apparently, your relationship really didn't mean much in the first place, so maybe you should just end your relationship? Also, hope you all used protection....imagine what kind of a triangle a baby would bring into that situation! Whew!
2007-11-17 10:45:48 · answer #5 · answered by jessiekarma 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the 3sum was something that you wanted to do so you have put yourself in a messed up situation I suggest you run as far away from this family as you can The boyfriend is not going to want you after you've been with his father and brother then again who knows . but you sound so trifling.
2007-11-17 10:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by Tammy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? I guess you could try to NOT be such a s!ut, but I digress.
You obviously don't care anything about this guy, (ewww, the dad?) go ahead and break up with him. Unless you like being such a skank, then you could sleep with the whole family, including the mom which I'm sure you swing like that too.
2007-11-17 10:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by #1 Buckeye Fan!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a long way away from anyone who is part of a family where a dad and son would have a threesome together especially with the other sons slapper of a girlfriend.
2007-11-17 10:45:49 · answer #8 · answered by ronnie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waaaaaaaait a minute. You had a threesome with the older brother...and his DAD? The dad engaged in sexual relations with his own son?
Good God, that's a Jerry Springer episode waiting to happen (assuming it's real, which I highly doubt).
2007-11-17 10:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by McQueen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get away fromthem except your boyfriend. U should tell the father's wife if the brother threatens to tell ur BF. If he really loved u he would forgive u. DON"T DO IT AGAIN!!!
2007-11-17 10:45:35 · answer #10 · answered by sgt.peppercorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, why the hell would you do something like this? this is basically disrespecting yourself....sleeping with 3 people? WHORE! (no offence) but u shouldn't be black-mailed either...tell your boyfriend what u did before his brother does.....and if u don't, then u'll be his brother's *****, hoe, or, slut.....do yourself a favor and respect yourself for once!
2007-11-17 11:39:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋