im 17 years old...am i still a virgin? i hope so....i had sex 4 years ago and i wasnt ready and i didnt want to have sex with this guy that i didnt know and i felt like i was raped...and the second time i did it with my boy friend (several times) my cherry didint pop and when i have my periods i bleed very heavy and my vagina feel strecthed and i had oral sex with him and i didnt want to but i was young and stupid but also knew better too but i did it because i was depressed and i wanted to feel loved by this boy and i regret even having sex and im scared to ever tell my mom because this will hurt her forever and im a christian and i know i dont want to ever have sex again and wanted to wait til i got married and til this day i still think about it and im tired of feeling this way...what should i do?
2007-11-17 10:36:16 · 38 answers · asked by Tiana S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did you have sex? Then you ARE NOT A VIRGIN.
2007-11-17 10:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ terry g ♥ 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Some people's hymens never 'pop' or bleed, when they have sex for the first time. But, if there has been a penis in your vagina, you are not a virgin.
Stop feeling guilty. You can't change the past. You made the decision to have sex with the boyfriend, so you need to be accountable for your choices. Sex is a wonderful, healthy physical way to express emotions between people, so pick yourself up and move on.
2007-11-17 10:46:56 · answer #2 · answered by lucy garterbelt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are no longer a virgin and your periods have nothing to do with your sexual physical experience. Put the past in the past and make better choices for your future. Enjoy your life and remain in control of your life. The whole "cherry popping" reference is bogus anyway. It's called a hymen.....some stretch and some break and it can happen without sex, so it is not an indication of virginity at all. But you had intercourse, so you are no longer a "virgin".
2007-11-17 10:43:03 · answer #3 · answered by that judi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry sweetie but the mouse is right
ur not a virgin even if you were raped (which of must really hurt you)
but if you have had sex "several times" than your not a virgin anymore
(even if your cherry didnt pop)
im sorry if what i said made you upset but its true =[[
my suggestion would be to just to get over it and if u ever need anyone im here. ive been in the same position thatt your in right now so u can email me or im me or whatever anytime u wana talk...
~with love~
MiiMii
2007-11-17 10:45:10 · answer #4 · answered by sexy_miimii19 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All that you're feeling is answered in the Bible. My mom used to tell me not to get close to the stove when I was a little kid. I didn't listen to her because I didn't know what it meant to bet a really bad burn. But I got close to find out because a lot of people seemed to be having fun with the stove (they enjoyed cooking) and I wanted to have fun too. I pulled on a handle and burned myself really bad. I learned my lesson, but I still carry the scar. Now, if you're christian, know that the Bible will tell you things of what to do and more so of what not to do, even though we don't understand why. The Bible tells you to wait for marriage before you have sex. I hope you're beginning to understand why. These feelings that you are having could be discussed with your pastor and ultimately with your mother. Remember, the Christian faith advocates forgiveness. Christ told the fallen woman that he didn't condemn her, but he did tell her to go and sin no more. I wish peace on you.
2007-11-17 10:48:40 · answer #5 · answered by obsolete professor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know it didn't pop? and just because it didn't pop doesn't mean your a virgin. don't get all upset about something that happened a long time ago or because you had an emotional crisis. learn from what you perceive are mistakes and wait until you do get married before having sex if that's the way you feel!!!
2007-11-17 10:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by george 2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Penis+Vagina= Sex. Class Dismissed!
2007-11-17 10:41:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
You need to get involved in a sport of some kind to burn up this negative energy and focus more on the positive side of you. I would suggest shooting guns at a range but I don't think you're old enough. Maybe basketball? Play 'til you collapse, you're young that's what it's for.
2007-11-17 10:42:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're not a virgin, and you would probably never get your cherry popped.
your vagina feels stretched because you had sex, it's kinda obvious isn't it??!?
and by technical terms, the so called cherry is a hymen, your hymen is probably just wider or too thick for the guy's penis to break it.
2007-11-17 10:43:48 · answer #9 · answered by Near 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I know that a
positive x positive = positive
and that a
negative x negative = positive
and that a
positive x negative = negative
......Honey! You're not a virgin! You can't have sex's and then ask if you're still a virgin? OMG! This girl is trippin!
2007-11-17 20:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by Destiny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm ur not a virgin once u have had intercourse your not and when i had sex i didn't bleed either but i went to the doctors cause i was wondering too if i was still a virgin and she checked and i found out i wasn't and she said not all ppl bleed
2007-11-17 10:42:32 · answer #11 · answered by ﻬhiƃhﻬ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋