both husband and wife are in agreement. husband and wife + another person. no seperate sessions.
2007-11-17 10:18:24 · 20 answers · asked by Marquita R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are two consenting adults in agreement...what you do in your own marriage is NO ONEs business!!
2007-11-17 10:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by YUMMY1 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
there is nothing in ur wedding vows that says THREESOMES ARE NOT ALLOWED. so i dont know what u are complaining about. as long as its okay with both of u, u are fine!!!
it does say adultery is a sin but the question is "is it a violation of the VOWS" not COMMANDMENTS. (some people need to read)
do be careful because if done wrong, it will put pressure on ur marriage and might ruin it. talk about this with ur wife: talk about rules before this happens. like, if it makes someone uncomfortable and that someone says enough, the other has to respect that and stop. if u dont, then this is the beginning of the end of ur relationship. got it? good!
2007-11-17 18:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by switbaby9 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
You are not violating the terms of an agreement if both parties agree.
That having been said, you should not do this unless you are very comfortable with each other and with yourself. I have seen too many couples go down this road trying to fix problems between them. It won't work. If you have things well worked out between you and you're just looking for a little fun and adventure, then go for it.
And be safe! Be adventurous, not stupid.
Peace & Joy
Robin
2007-11-17 18:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by Duck in the woods 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I would just love to know what you think? Are you, or aren't you. I say it is wrong to ever step outside of your marrige ...Your wedding vows are were special and meant for the two of you...Did you not mean anything you said on the special day? If your conscience will let you and he do it, go for it but in the eyes of God ...it is wrong..
2007-11-17 18:24:26 · answer #4 · answered by lucylocket7258 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you promised specifically in your vows. Cheating would involve clandestinely having sex with someone outside of your marriage, but "cheating" doesn't apply here because not only are both parties aware of the situation, (negating the 'clandestine' portion of the equation), they're participants and in agreement. No violation there. On the other hand, if you promised that "only to each other would you cleave..." then, oops. That's a boo boo. It's not likely to matter, though, because who's the injured party likely to complain? No one, right? I've personally never experienced that, and probably never will...it's not a fantasy of mine. But this is my interpretation of the constraints of vows as described by your question.
2007-11-17 18:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Yes i do believe you violating you wedding vows. I don't believe in threesomes.
2007-11-17 18:26:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no what happens in the bed room stays in the bedroom.. but remember some people can not handle it.. that is when the promblems start to happen../// that is only for a certain type of person or people.. not everyone is up to it. if you and your guy think you are..go for it. it may spice things up for a bit.. you can not have any jealousy what so ever or you will flop big time
2007-11-17 18:23:26 · answer #7 · answered by vis 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, are you prepared to the fact that he may like and fall in love with the third party, leaving you for a more perfect love ?
2007-11-17 18:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by Loretta M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I doubt your vows mention another in the sack.
The vows were meant for you and your spouse, NO ONE ELSE.
2007-11-17 18:58:45 · answer #9 · answered by n9wff 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No separate sessions my ***. I guess if you didn't agree to remain faithful to your spouse when you said your vows, then have fun with all those diseases out there.
2007-11-17 19:38:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋