What im saying is that women have to go through alot of hassle! Periods, all the pain of birth and a bunch more! When all men have to go through is the pleasure of sex! I have always wondered this! Please answer thanks!
2007-11-17 10:58:36 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We also have to go through waking up every morning, putting on makeup, Spend a hour looking through our wardrobe to look our best, put heels on and practacly kill ourselfs! Curl our hair, Cramps, worry about getting fat! A whole bunch of shi*!
2007-11-17 11:17:15 · update #1
It isn't one sided dear.
2007-11-17 11:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Why do women COMPLAIN about this stuff? An inconvenience, once a month, for about 3 decades - with the payoff being able to experience the joy of pregnancy and childbirth? And there doesn't have to be any "pain" involved - it's all a matter of attitude!
Got cramps? Go out for a brisk walk - it will help a lot more than taking some pain meds and lying down feeling sorry for yourself! I mean, this is a NATURAL thing...
and childbirth? I've had 4 children, the last two when I was in 36 and 37 - I had them by natural childbirth. And I felt MUCH better afterwards than with the first two, had NO post-partum depression like with the first two. As a marathon runner, who trained a lot doing speed work on the track - I can tell you that childbirth is the hardest WORK you will ever do in your life, and you feel like "quitting" - but it is NOT pain - not a normal birth.
It's all about attitude! Enjoy this blessing that you've been given, something that men can never have the joy of experiencing - and live life to the fullest!
2007-11-17 11:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by miz.bhavin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one, you are forgetting that we men have to constantly adjust to your daily ritual, giving flowers or moving the furniture periodically.
As for the hassle, well that can go both ways because us men has to go thru allot of hassle from the constant nagging. As for the periods, well that’s a simplicity a defect I guess God overlooked however, woman became strong to handle this problem. As for the pain of birth, well, that two goes both ways such as if you weren’t so easily to spread your legs, then you would not have to go thru the pain of labor and there after the countless times of telling your child.. No, get down, stop that, put that down, don’t touch that, clean your room, and the list goes on.
Us as men, yes us men, we love sex just as much as you do, but to say that we enjoy it and not suffering with pain is an understatement. First, you have to keep in mind that we strive to do our work, to pleasure you. There are times that you gain some extra pounds which entice our ability to perform to the point that we are in a sweat, yes, while you just lay on your back. We are struggling, holding our breath to intensify our pleasure, however through all that work and sweating our lugs, we suffer the consequences at the end are two weeks later when we are told…. You’re pregnant! That’s when we suffer from the pain of constant nagging, the consequences of child support when we know you don’t really need it and the daily headache for the next 21 years. So you tell me, only woman suffers? The answer is no. We all suffer.
2007-11-17 11:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by yourwildfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as far as childbirth - Genesis (the first book of the Bilble) tells us that pain while birthing children would be a curse on all women based on Eve's direct disobedience in the Garden of Eden. But in general - There is a lot we go through and I feel like some of us create situations for ourselves by ignoring very obvious signs or by simply not paying attention or listening to advise. But the good part is that women are strong and most survive most of the misery. Also men have a lot of pressure to perform, to provide, to compete. It isn't easy - I think that is why they are so drawn to sex. Because that is - easy. Easy pleasure that us women give them some times too easily bringing more misery on ourselves.
2007-11-17 11:07:08 · answer #4 · answered by Lyric 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a question that stirs up LOTS of controversy.I blame it on society and our parents.But I also think that our bodys are built to handle different types of stress.Like more men than women fight wars and more women are nurses.It's just how we are all brought up .As for the physical crap like periods and birth I would love to see a man go thru what we do then try calling us a cry baby.
2007-11-17 11:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bible teaches that it is a result of original sin (disobeying God.) Woman has to have pain in childbirth, Man has to work for a living. Apart form that, I don't know except that it is the natural process of reproduction and women are specifically designed and constructed to bear children. Without this process, the human race would die out. Hope this helps.
2007-11-17 11:04:56 · answer #6 · answered by SKCave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it the other way. Men don't have the opportunity to give birth. At least we have a choice. Anyway, men have to put up with us emotional being and I know I, for one, can be damn exhausting! My poor darling has taken the baby out for a walk to get a break from me! Go and talk to your dad. See what sorts of dreams he gave up for the sake of his family. Don't if he's a miserable negative type who's going to blame you all for his choices (like my dad) but if he's a reasonable guy, it might give you a bit of insight. My hubby would love to stay at home and be Mr Mum.
2007-11-17 11:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by Rosie_0801 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men may seem to have it easy, but all the pain we go through (in time) only makes us stronger in the end. That is why we deserve the best, and a man who will go out of his way to please us. Girls are awesome (b/c we do and go through so much).
As w/ guys and sex. I think it all comes down to the basics of survival. To keep the human race going, babies need to be made (plenty). Men have the pleasure and non-monogamous tendencies so that the world can go on. I'm not defending them, but it is easier for guy to spread his seed (and make many babies) than it is for a girl to "receive" a seed. She only produces one baby in 9 months.
I really think it comes down to the basics of survival
2007-11-17 11:08:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really think a girl's life is hard? Seems fun when they show off their body. Getting the center attention is worth going through pain.
2007-11-17 11:06:23 · answer #9 · answered by iThrowCrayolas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not just that, we shave everything, we color our hair and put on make up and match outfits just perfectly, and kill ourselves in high heels...there is no end to what we do for love. All men do is show up.
2007-11-17 11:05:15 · answer #10 · answered by replexgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in the bible it said because when eve gave adam the apple. they talk about how God punished them and some where it said it would be harder on us. I don't have it right in front f me put you can find it in the first book.
I hate that we have to go through that What do guys have to go through NOTHING
2007-11-17 11:05:03 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋