MY fiance's exwife hates me and talks badly about me to everyone infront of their 7 yr old son. She also tells me things like I can't watch thier son, can't be involved with his school work etc. Not only will my fiance not say anything to his exwife about this but acts like it really does not bother him . He knows it really bothers me but just plays it off as no big deal. Well the other day his ex called and got me as my fiance was not home. She told me my fiance needs to step-up as a dad and make his son #1. Well when i told my fiance this he asked if his son heard this and i said i think so.Well he fliped out and called his ex and threated/yelled at her that he will take their son away from her if she ever talks badly about him again. Why did he flip out on her when she just said that one thing about him but never cares about the hundred of things she says about me?
2007-11-17 10:25:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I believe it does bothers him to as much as it bothers you only that he doesn't think the right way to respond to it. If perhaps you take time and watch this movies "why did I get married" may help you and your fiance to solve this conflicts. The best character in this movies is Marcus.
Your fiance ex wife is perhaps jealousy and insane. She doesn't accept that her ex had moved on and due to anger and frustrations, it all end up on you as though that you are the one who caused there marriage go sour. She feel that by her behaving the way she does towards you may result you packing up and leave so as she has the chance to win her ex back. The best thing is for you to stand up for your rights and tell her that she need to deal with your fiance and not you, for the best interest of the boy. You need to discuss this issues with your fiance and know where do you stand in your relationship. would he stand up to make a stop to it or to let it continue? If he doesn't, it's not that he loves you that much.To hammer nails on her head, just tell her if her ex wanted to have her, he would have had her but unfortunately he made a choice that you were not fit for him as a result of you continued harassing behavior. Never give her a chance to tell you what to do and if in case she come around you home, seek for court protective order for her to shut up.
2007-11-17 11:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me like your fiance is best conscious of his possess emotions. If he would possibly not guard you currently as his fiance it would possibly not difference when you marry him. It will best worsen. This will have to be the happiest time of your existence however naturally it's not. I could speak in your fiance and get him to peer the way it impacts you. If he cant realize this then you definately must recall your long run. Do you wish a wedding that's unsatisfied? Good success I wish matters figure out for you. Ps dont be too difficult on his spouse she is concerned approximately her son and his long run related to you in it.
2016-09-05 07:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by darland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY should your "fiance" say anything about it? You're NOT the child's mother. You're not even MARRIED to the child's father. You are of NO relation to the child so you have NO reason to watch HER son. You have NO right to be involved in HER son's schoolork. This is not YOUR child you have no right to any part of this child's life...as for his father...yeah he has to make his son number one...NOT you. The reason he flipped out is because he knows it's the truth...why would the fact that you have no right to his son bother him?
2007-11-17 13:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because hes as selfish as she is
He wouldn't be my fiance'
they haven't thought about the child at all. all they think about is what the child THINKS of them.
Even though i couldn't stand my ex , I never bad mouthed him in front of the kids. It Will come back to haunt him and her, as it did my ex.
They both sound selfish. RUN FAST because this will be a thorn in your side for a long time
2007-11-17 10:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by Hi its me again 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should step back from the son....he has parents.
You should not let the ex-wife push your buttons because she's really making you crazy....and you do know she's doing that on purpose.
If he doesn't show you respect now.....don't marry him....it's not going to suddenly get better.
2007-11-17 11:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most people dont untill its about them
2007-11-17 10:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound as if he respects you, or your feelings.
2007-11-17 10:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by Shorty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋