I've only kissed one guy ever!Thats how pathetic I am!
I have a good personality and people tell me I'm pretty but I don't seem to get the guys!I do go out clubbing and have a great laugh.I have lots of brilliant guys friends at college but thats all they are just friends.They never seem interested in anything more.
I'm really feeling down about still being a virgin and I'm afraid that my inexperience will put guys off.I feel like the longer I leave it the more afraid of the pain the first time I get!
2007-11-17 08:42:32 · 12 answers · asked by Mossy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you shouldnt be down about it losing your virginity isnt a big deal just shows how much u respect your body and shows you that you want to wait for the right guy before you have that special moment.. so just be calm and everything will work out for ya in the long run
2007-11-17 08:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by Sean S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are pathetic, in fact I am in the same boat as you and in my mid-30s. I suffer from social shyness and haven't had any intimate relationships with people either. I too like you only hope to find an understanding soul to my Virgin situation.
I seriously don't believe your lack of experience will put guys off. Hopefully in your early adult years, you will come upon guys who will be more understanding and less judgmental:)
2007-11-19 00:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sirius70 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! save yourself for someone special. It's not supposed to be a social thing anyhow. You're pure and that's really rare now-a-days! I'm sure the man of your dreams would rather hear "i've never been with anyone" rather than "I have LOADS of experience" don't try to be a social norm.
2007-11-17 16:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think your pathetic either!in fact guys would respect you more for not being a slag.you being a virgin will not put men off at all.just continue to go out and have a good time.as for your next problem;(please dont take offence)mayby you are putting yourself out there too much.guys can smell desperation a mile off(this is half of my problem!)
2007-11-17 17:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by anita p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with being a virgin.wait for the right man to come along.if a man only wants sex,then what type of man is he anyway. being pure is a major thing.as far it hurting.it would only hurt he the man your with don't care and rough house you.instead of making passionate love to you.
2007-11-17 16:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by ripp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That fact will not "put off" any guy of substance, nor is it obvious to anyone you don't tell. (As to the rest of your concerns, I'm sure other females will address that for you). Be well.
2007-11-17 16:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's actually a turn on to guys so I wouldn't worry too much about it if I were you. What you need to worry about is who to give it up to. I'll wait
2007-11-17 16:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jamie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a virgin is no big deal i mean u dont have to tell guys
2007-11-17 16:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by Alexis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself you dont have to try and inpress the guys if you think it will put them off then there not a proper bf
2007-11-17 16:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think your pathetic
i would go out with you by the info i have got and if i had ur email or something
2007-11-17 16:47:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋