(thats me) :(
2007-11-17 08:41:58 · 21 answers · asked by Talkingless 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My husband has passed away.
2007-11-17 10:38:41 · update #1
I feel that way without my husband. He has such confidence in me that when I am lacking it at work or with the kids I try to remind myself that Peter knows I can do this. When I remind myself of that, I can do anything. When he is away like last weekend, just for 18 hrs I was missing a part of myself. He is always with us, work or home with us. He was unusually not here and we felt it. He called us 3 times during that long day but we were still missing someone.
He came in after our little one was in bed and I felt when he pulled in the driveway. I just sighed and when he came in and kissed me I got shivers, just like the last 5 yrs and hope to still get when we are using walkers to get around.
I never felt that way about anyone before and know that if anything ever happened to him, I would never be with another man. Nothing compares to being with your split apart.
God/Goddess must have split our soul apart to make the two of us and see if we could put us back together here on earth.
We did, and you should see the baby we made!
2007-11-17 08:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by New England Babe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how old you are. If you think it's irrelecant, think again! Its either a) you're exaggerating and you don't even know it. People do it all the time. When we even just like someone or are merely infatuated with them, not necessarily love them, usually beign around them is a powerful energy and its stupidly relaxing and enjoyable and exciting and when we don't have that....suddenly there is a really downward spiral kind of feeling within us. It is unpleasant, but it shouldn't last long. Later you laugh about it when you look back at yourself.I always laugh at how pathetic I was in earlier relationships. But we all go off and do it again and subject ourselves and let ourselves feel love and for the price of pain.
b) Maybe it does really hurt. But you have to remember that you were a whole and surviving capable person before you met them. Be strong. Don't enslave yourself to love or pain. (You'll regret it later). YOu are not half a person. You are functioning completely. Love, many would argue, can be a state of mind. So become positive and focus not on what's lost, but on what you may further acquire...and dream of those sexy ones waiting for you in the future!
2007-11-17 16:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by Julissima 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hiya, wondered how you have been. If it is anything like me, bloody awful. Half a person, I don't feel like a person anymore and I don't feel like there is a place for me in this life anymore. I keep going for my kids, but it is sooo hard. It is over 5 months now since Mike died and it just does not get any easier. I find it so hard to keep the mask on for the outside world most days at the moment. Take care of yourself. xx
2007-11-18 08:36:03 · answer #3 · answered by Sunrise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel that way everyday my wife and i are away from eachother shes up with family and due to the fact my inlaws and i dint see eye to eye i stayed behind so she could spend time with her family but every moment that passes i feel hlf a person for she is the other half that makes me whole in mind body and soul
2007-11-17 16:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by wolfettes lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have a few times, (right now ,again in fact)you feel lost,alone and nobody cares,your hurting loads you feel you dont want to go on,but every cloud does have a silver lining,whats meant to be will be,and there is always someone who cares open up and speak to someone,i always talk to my dog or teddy (im 44) if too embarressed to tell my feelings to any one or i write poems to myself (weired) or a letter,it always drys my tears and makes me think nickers to him/her im the better person .untill the next time.then i start all over again,but believe me this hurt your feeling now will pass and make you a stronger person.good luck and keep smiling.xxx
2007-11-17 16:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I totally feel that way about my husband. Weve been together for about 15 years and i guess after being together that long you totally get used to them being invoved with everything you do. Once there gone it makes you feel lost
like yeah part of you is missing,especially when it comes down to making desicions.im used to him giving input on everything.... Its too lonely without him!!!!
2007-11-17 16:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by lamsontina2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, before i met my lover, i felt as if i was whole, but then i was with her, she showed me what it was truly like to become a whole, but one part of our relationship caused us to be in seperate and faraway places, i couldn't be with her, and that time i felt, more than half of my being was stripped away from me, but now im with her and im dont want that to ever change
2007-11-17 16:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by Confused Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definately.
It is amazing yet awful at the same time
and you can't ever spend enough time with them even if i t is every waking and sleeping second of the day.
sheesh.
2007-11-17 16:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by elemenopee. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not that I feel like half a person, but a piece of me is still missing
2007-11-17 16:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by T Leeves 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel.
i know this is going to sound retarted..but im over obsessed with Nick Jonas from the band the Jonas Brothers..im seriously inlove with him.
i cried after i met him!
seroiusly i feel different without him
i even auditioned to become famous so i can know him
but turns out the auditions were all a scam =[
2007-11-17 16:45:46 · answer #10 · answered by Push Play for Jonas 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋