Ok, so my fiance and I both attend the same university and we hang out with the same group of friends. Unfortunately it is a group were everyone knows everyone and who they have and havent slept with etc. Well there is this girl that he had a one-night stand with a year before meeting me. At first we only saw her every once in a while which was annoying enough because, every time she sees him she always gives him this weird look. But now she is dating one of our friends so she is always around, and its not so much that she is around but that she is ver slutty. Last night we were all in a party together and she put a dress on with no bra and her boobs literally were showing, as in she might as well have not even put the dress on. Their were guys taking pictures and everything and of course I was angry because I didnt want him to see, like obviously he has already seen but I didnt need him to have any physical reminders..so am I right to be angry?
2007-11-17 08:15:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can certainly understand your being upset, but you're so far ahead of the game you don't even realize it. Can you imagine what all must be wrong in her life to feel the need to put herself out there like that? (AND with an ex-lover and a current boyfriend in the room at the time?) Maybe instead of anger you should pity her....she's no treat to you, though she's trying really hard!
2007-11-17 08:29:13 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your fiance are not mature enough, if you cannot stop hanging out with that group of people, it would be better for you to leave him, let him be free to do that woman, or any other woman like that one in the group, and you should ask his one-night stand for the name of the shop where she buys dresses like the one she wore that night, and buy and wear a few of those dresses: if you cannot fight the enemy, join in. It seems you enjoy the little orgies, don't ya ?.
But if you have any self-respect left, stop behaving like a teenager. and demand that your fiance chooses the group, or you.
Your marriage is doomed, lady. Sorry.
2007-11-17 16:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by Idon'tlivehere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isnt doing anything to you. I think you should stop worrying about what she does and worry about your own stuff. This was before he met you. He isnt flirting with her and he cant control what she does and neither can you. The real problem here is why do you feel so threatened by her? Find something to keep you busy.
2007-11-17 16:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. He's with you. Why not have some fun and go braless yourself. Maybe you'd like the attention.
2007-11-18 00:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by so 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are clearly insecure about this whore of a woman, and I have no idead why. Please get over it, and get over yourself, bc you can only control your own actions, not the girls, and not your mans', so stop stressing over situations you cannot change.
2007-11-17 16:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by Im Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because who is he WITH??
Not her, so you need to get over your jealousy before it drives him away.
Guys RARELY marry the slutty girls.
2007-11-17 16:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very childish and immature. What's all the jealousy about?
You must not be as "hot" as she?
2007-11-17 16:23:07 · answer #7 · answered by dtown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yea
2007-11-17 16:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by nancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋