Former fiance broke it off 2 years ago and spent it with another women in town. Told her he loved her, wanted to marry her and went house shopping with her because she was going through a divorce etc.
She no longer wants him in her life and has moved on easily. Would you take him back?
I spent 6/7 years prior (4 years separted from a husband) and had no idea this man was lieing to me for the past 6 months of our relationship..
2007-11-17 08:48:21 · 13 answers · asked by Blue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
p.s. In the 2 years he was with another women, he spoke negatively about me and repeated my personnel stories etc.
2007-11-19 09:44:37 · update #1
You deserve better. My question to you is why don't you realize this fact?
2007-11-17 08:57:46 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, It’s great that both of you are trying to work it out. Or are you? Don’t let anybody stop you or us from reaching your love that comes once in your life if your lucky and that long road that both of you started out so long ago. That happened to me girl to this day I still think about him/us I was the fool that gave up. He’s giving the relationship one more chance don’t blow it girl. I’m sure you both gave up allot not just you. The door swings both ways I’m sure you also did some damage to this relationship in the 7 years that made him do what he did. Your question needs to be? How can we/us finish what we started so many years ago? Remember things in life that are hard are worth fighting for to the end.
2007-11-18 19:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with Chicken Lover take a chance before it’s to late. And yes the door swings both ways Blue. At one point or another we all speak about our past relationships good/bad to the other party. How do you feel about going forward and What's keeping you back?
2007-11-20 09:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would not take him back. He cheated on you and was going to marry another until she decided she did not want him. You are second choice and his fall back plan. Find someone that will not lie and cheat and will love you. You deserve better than this jerk. Never settle!
2007-11-17 17:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hummm.. Let's see? Would I take him back?
Only if I want to be unhappy, get used and abused, end up getting divorced, probably with a couple kids he won't take care of.
Hummm. Nope!!
2007-11-17 17:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by serene e 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2007-11-17 16:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a reason he broke it off. Let sleeping dogs lie. You really want to risk being dumped again for someone else?
2007-11-17 16:54:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you but he seems to like the idea of being with women that technically still belong to another man. He did it with you, he did it with her and more than likely did it in-between too.
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2007-11-17 16:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Past behavior is a good indication of future behavior. Once a liar always a liar.
2007-11-17 16:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by April First 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD DEFINITELY GIVE IT ANOTHER TRY...(BUT YOU HAVE TO PUT EVERYTHING YOU HAVE GOT IN YOUR SOUL INTO IT)CALL ME A DAYDREAMER BUT FAIRY TALES DO COME TRUE SOMETIMES ....IF YOU DON'T GIVE IT ONE MORE SHOT YOU WILL NEVER KNOW WHAT MIGHT OF BEEN....IF YOUR STILL FIGHTING THIS OVER, DEEP IN YOUR SOUL, HE MUST OF BEEN A PRETTY TERRIFIC GUY... THINK BACK TO THE GOOD TIMES ,THE LOVE ,THE LAUGHTER,THE WAY IT FELT TO BE IN HIS ARMS.SEARCH YOUR SOUL.......TAKE A CHANCE.......
2007-11-19 22:50:06 · answer #10 · answered by chicken lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋