Well see this girl Ialso know but not as much as my husband asked him to go with her and shop for me. But the thing that gets me is why couldnt WE go shopping . Im pretty sure he is using our money. and it just gets me. what do i do
2007-11-17 09:29:57 · 29 answers · asked by expe girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if he was buying u a gift, why couldn't he take ur sister or ur friends who would obviously know u better then any strange female?
GO GET UR MAN!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-17 09:55:21 · answer #1 · answered by SweetLady113 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should but you should also keep in mind where
the're going shopping. The important thing is you should know the girl, the way show is or what type of history she has had in the past(you know what I mean).... Another thing is you should tell your husband you would like to got too,maybe ask him a couple of times and if he says NO, then I would watch out for that girl.
2007-11-17 09:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by Diego 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this "friend" from work asked for your husband's help to pick something out, then it is probably okay. She may want to shop from a man's point of veiw, especially if she is shopping for a male.
You could suggest tagging along, if you wanted. Also, talk to your husband about how you would like him to go shopping with you as well as with his friends- you are just as important, if not more important, than his friends and need time with him too.
It is not okay to let your man go shopping if it is a special occassion for the two of you, of course, such as an anniversary. You should be suspicious if the woman is single, unless you are sure that your man is true to you. Make sure that your husband knows your feelings and clarify with him that you come first, and that he is not interested in the new woman.
Hope this helps... good luck!
2007-11-17 09:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
WELL!
These 2 spent to much time together, he needs to shop alone and than show it to her to get her approval or take it back. NO he can't go shop with his friend, and by the way when u married you don't need a friend of the opposite sex.
My now ex left me 7 weeks ago for his co-worker they had a lot in common, talk all the time they even were roommates for one year now they lovers moved to a new place together and i never saw it coming.
NO baby girl he needs to stop now they emotionally attached and before long they will get together, he will leave you for her.
man are weak and woman get borred . put your foot down good luck.
2007-11-17 10:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by maria s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This does not sound suspicious. If it was suspicious he wouldn't have told you he was going shopping. It is pretty close to Christmas. Have you considered that he wants a female opinion on your Christmas gift?
No, I wouldn't have a problem with my husband going shopping with a female friend.
2007-11-17 09:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't like my husband going "shopping" with another woman....especially one that I didn't know very well....why is she shopping for you?... Or did you mean that he wanted her help in shopping for you?
When you say "Im pretty sure he is using our money".....something doesnt sound right..... Apparently some people can't read...because your story isn't making much sense...sorry
2007-11-17 09:33:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is no way i would ever let my husband go shopping with a another girl i did not know all that well... But I can barley get him to go shopping with me!
2007-11-17 09:35:07 · answer #7 · answered by Ivey J 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Talk to your husband about it. Tell him it makes you uncomfortable, and you would like it if maybe he would go shopping with you?
2007-11-17 09:32:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mmmhm. 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Girl you better nip that in the bud before you look like a fool.
I mean, if you feel comfortable with him doing this then go ahead. But to be honest, I would go for it. Good Luck onthis one!
2007-11-17 09:51:32 · answer #9 · answered by sparkling_apple 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he just wants another womans opinion on what to get for you so that it is a surprise. All it means is that he wants to make you happy. If it was something fishy going on, he probably wouldnt have told you he was doing it.
2007-11-17 09:32:43 · answer #10 · answered by jd5051 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The most important thing in a relationship is trust. So let him think you trust him, watch it very close, and If you find out anything is going on......deal with it then.
2007-11-17 09:35:07 · answer #11 · answered by sillybreaze 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋