My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 years. Both of us love eachother and trust eachother. Recently, my?

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bf and I were joined by his cousin and his gf. Well, during dinner I started to notice that billy's (bf's cousin) gf was "extra friendly" with my bf and a little lovey dovey. and she always throws comments like your so cute, those xxxxxx are almost as cute as you, lookin' good eh? blah blah

My bf shows nothing back and i know he's loyal to me. But now, its her birthday party and we were invited but i decided not to go because i'm working during those hrs (hospital employee).

BUT my bf decided that he's going even tho i told him that i dont feel comfortable with him going to her party.

Well. he's gone now and i feel like my opinion meant nothing. Am i wrong?

I trust my bf but I dont trust her and dont like her.

Answer 1

ugh i hate that position.
jus like what the guy said above, if he does flirt and show the girl that he is starting to like her it only proves that he cannot be trusted!
if he doesnt flirt with her then that should only make you love him more :)

Answer 2

If you actually trusted him, then you would have nothing to worry about, would you? Maybe he just wants to spend some time with his cousin and doesn't want you telling him what to do. After all, if he is so trustworthy, and has not given you any reason not to trust him, doesn't he deserve to be allowed to go where he wants? As far as trusting this girl goes . . . you have met her only once. Why should you trust her or feel she has any obligation to you? Maybe she behaved inappropriately or maybe she was just trying to be nice and compliment your bf, but either way, it's your bf's choice if anything happens between them.

Answer 3

if you trust him then don't worry. try not to give more attention to her by asking him to not go because men like the impossible. especialy if he knew he already had you in his hand. if I were you, I would get out from work and try to joint him, Don't call him a lot and keep asking him questions.
I know it hurt when a friend is trying to steel your men but all you can do is pray and look good and not to mention her like she's important. if he started talking about her just say ok, good. and change the subject.
If your Bf is bad guy then all you have to do is let him go and find good guy.
Maybe he went to her birthday just as a freind.

Answer 4

make sure you sex im up b4 he goes to the party, im sure u have nothing to worry about, if you seem to concerned and make it a point that you dont want him to go to the party then he might feel you dont really trust him....... if you really trust him, then this wouldn't be a problem

Answer 5

Well I don't see nothing wrong with him going to the party, it he mess up and flirt with this girl, and you find out kick him to the side. He already knows how you feel toward this girl.

Answer 6

Yes, if you trust him there should be nothing to worry about. If it's her your worried about, it's up to your boyfriend (who you trust) to put her in her place.