that hurt her feelings. i feel like whenever i call her, i'm annoying her but i want to talk to her to try to make things better. i am very scared we will drift apart. what should i do?
the last time i talked to her, i told her i had written her a letter on facebook. she logged on, and i assume read my letter, but didn't write back. i want to know what's going on. should i call her again?
2007-11-17 10:04:09 · 16 answers · asked by the w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes we say things out of anger like you did, its life. But you must make a reall effort to apologize. Write with pen and paper or in a card that you are sorry and make it sencere. If you are not then don't bother.=[. Or meet her in person that would be the most personal way to go at it. Bring her favorite flower. If she won't forgive you after you try your best to apologize then maybe it wasn't ment to be. I know it sucks but hopefully it will work out. Also on top of this make sure you give her time and space wich maybe be part of her healing.
Best of luck,
Stary
2007-11-17 10:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by Stary_989 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see her in person and apologize to her. Be sincere and let her hear how much you really mean it. Maybe get her a rose to go with the apology. Then tell her how much she means to you and that you don't want to lose her. Don't call or write her a letter on Facebook, It isn't personal enough for an apology.
2007-11-17 18:08:50 · answer #2 · answered by randmthots 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww hun, it seems like you really love her and that you really didnt mean to say whatever it is that you said.. My advice is just to back off for a bit and give her some time and space. Still txt, write, call every now then but just give her some time.
I hope all works well for you. and if she really loves you she will see that you didnt mean to say what you did and forgive you..
Good luck
2007-11-17 18:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by Megzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first. TALK TO HER IN PERSON.
Using the computer and technology is a sign of being a coward!
You should apologize to her in person.
Do something nice for her.
Just spend a night in with eachother, make her feel loved.
And most importantly..
Make sure you apologize!!
2007-11-17 18:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by M3G4N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No more calls or letters........go see her in person. Bring flowers and a nice gift. Then beg for forgiveness! Good luck!
2007-11-17 18:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by honeybear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm give her a lil time. then call her! tell her exactly how u feel and how sorry u r. i am sure she is really upset so maybe after u apologize hang out with her make her laugh and do whatever she wants to do go wherever she wants to go. make sure its bout her.
2007-11-17 18:07:58 · answer #6 · answered by jenny m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, let her cool off. In the future, if your angry. . . walk away because when you say hurtful things you can never take them back and us females remember e v e r y t h i n g.
2007-11-17 18:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its her fault for making you angry. Tell her you will accept a sandwich or maybe housework as an apology.
2007-11-17 18:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by MrStamper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her ................she's probably waiting apologize say you didnt mean to hurt your feelings and when im mad i say things out of anger and also say i will try my best to not hurt your feelings ever
GOOD LUck
2007-11-17 18:09:13 · answer #9 · answered by Jenna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her out to eat at her favorite restaurant and buy her her favorite perfume. Give it to her at dinner, Apoligize again for being so stupid and don't let it happen again
2007-11-17 18:07:36 · answer #10 · answered by suga...honey honey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋