Women-What should I do?

Question

It seems like only gay men seem to approach me when I'm out, and I'm getting sick of it, and don't want to go anywhere anymore. I know I know...I have to approach them, but women make sure to look past me when I'm out. I never see anything definite enough to make me approach them, as far as hints go. A look or smile means nothing to me; well, actually I don't know what it means. She could be smiling cause she likes to be looked at for all I know, or cause I gave her attention. I don't want to find out. I have been trying to party to meet someone special, and this is just not working; I'm turning into an idiot. I mean, even the girl in school I thought was a good girl, is a partier; this is how I got to drinking again anyway. This isn't working. I rather stay home and watch lifetime network. I watch people not half as good looking as I am (not fluffing my feathers), get what they want all the time, but I'm always alone, he he... What do I do?

This is the day after being really smashed, so I usually get heavily depressed on the come down. I'm not responsible for what Dr. Jekyll did early this morning nor in the afternoon. I am Hyde now. Thanks for answering. Just felt a little low cause of that gay dude hitting no me last night. I should have broke his nose, when he told me he wanted to lick my whole body. Grrrrrroooooss!

Answer 1

well...first things first, when you met girls at a party you dint find relationships. I actually met one one guy ever at a paty, and it was fun, but it was because we both had alot of the same interests and friends, and just had not run into eachother yet outside of a party. gay guys might approach you because of the way that you dress or hold yourself, however, the guys i know with your problem are actually really nice ad sweet. you may not meet people at a party because its not you...be yourself...also...you may have to learn to approach girls; it may be hard, but its something that you just have to make yourself do. one grl and youll pretty much et the ball rolling. just one thing...keep in mind...be nice..done use people...you have seen how hard the dating world is...dont make it any harder. Be confident.

Answer 2

You say, even the good girl in school is a partier. You obviously don't want to be with a partier so you are going to the wrong parties. Try other groups or clubs. Even the grocery store, library. I am sure others would have a lot more ideas where to meet good girls.

Answer 3

yeah i deff agree w. the first answer fatter guys w, a personality and who arnt nervous are so much hotter i personally dont like guys w. a 6 pack and who are all dolled up in more expensive clothes than me thats kinda gay.. so i can see why ur getting the attention from other men ur avatar dosent help either.

Answer 4

you just suck at flirting and dont have social skills... girls would rather have a fat guy who is nonchalant than a nervous bust with a 6 pack who doesnt have any confidence.

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Answer 5

You need to have a positive outlook. You're sending out these negative vibes and that's not good. You'r handsome, believe in yourself.

Answer 6

a guy staying home on Saturday night to watch lifetime?? Are you sure that gay guys are not approaching you because you are acting gay?

Answer 7

You just have to be yourself.maybe get out more and meet new people.

Answer 8

i'ts not all bout looks you need to give them hints

Answer 9

let the women give the answer