We have never met and he lives in Texas, but we've been talking to each other for 4 months now and i'm strtng to really get emotionally attatched to him. I've broke up with him twice to see if he really likes me but every time he says (i dnt really care) and (it dsnt matter) but then he wnt tlk to me and he acts like he's mad that i broke up with him. I'm still trying to find out if he really loves me like he says or if he's just trying to get a quick girlfriend. Then i want to know if he really does care that i broke up with him but thinks it will make him seem like a wimp if he says he does. So my questian is should i get back with him and please explain why if so and why he's acting this way.
2007-11-17 12:01:03 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen to a song by Brad Paisley called "Online" its not just a song it's true. This is one of the most important songs for teenagers to listen to. We go on myspace and think everyones really truthful but They're not.
Just listen to it, you should really think twice about online relationships.
2007-11-18 09:41:18 · answer #1 · answered by Jason G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really shouldn't "break up with him to see if he really likes you." You should only break up with someone for a good reason. Did you tell him that was the reason? That's probably why he didn't care. I'm speaking from experience about this, guys will try their hardest to look all big and bad.
When I was 13, I got a boyfriend but I broke up with him because I was moving away, but I told him it was because he was younger than me. We're together again, and he told me that he acted like he didn't care, but he cried like a b**ch that night. From that, just know that guys will never admit to crying. It's just something that they think they shouldn't do because they're "men."
So, don't string this guy along like that if you really love him. If you end up staying together, it can really hurt the relationship.
Ask him how he really feels about that, and apologize for doing that, and see where things go. But, I suggest not getting too tightly attached, because you'll want to see him, and your parents may not approve of a long-distance relationship.
Another thing: Are you SURE that he's as old as he is? You have to be careful with online relationships these days, because it only takes a few clicks to turn a married with kids 60-something year old fat guy into a single 16-year-old athlete in a band. Just be cautious.
I hope this all helped you in one way or another.
2007-11-17 12:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, that's alot. If he's in Texas and you haven't met him yet, I'm going to assume that it's because you live in anothr state. So the thought of having a quick gf is probably not right. It's not like he can jump in his car and drive by at anytime, right? As for the rest, I think you should have a better reason for breaking up with him than just to see if he loves you. But, if that's your reason and his response is that it doesn't matter, then he probably has more than one online girl, and it really doesn't matter to him if he has you or not. The long distance/myspace relationship are hard, I have found they are full of DRAMA, so good luck and be careful (with your heart).
2007-11-17 12:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by ejsheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Argh this happens to people all the time and im sorry to say this but i think you feel a lot more about him than he does about you, and if you really want to know if he does care if you break up then you should ask him before you get hurt any more. He may have many other girls like you he talks to and if he does hes just a major prick and you shouldnt bother with him, it will be hard doing that though. This is why i think he is acting this way.
Good luck
Christian
2007-11-17 12:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by Chris :D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have never met him? You think you are in love with some guy you never met have you ever talked on the phone. If I was that guy I would not care an online so called relationship with a person you don't know does not mean anything. He could be faking it all. You really have no clue who he is in real life. You don't love him you love the Idea of him.
Get out and meet a real person.
2007-11-17 12:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by snowflake311 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, this may sound harsh, but you can't go out with someone you've never met. myspace is a great place to meet people, but until you meet that person face to face, you don't know who they are. I know. I met my girlfriend on myspace. Make sure this person is really who they are, and be careful. If you do meet and they seem like someone you would want to be in a relationship with, then you go from there.
2007-11-17 12:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is in entirely different state then it is not worth trying to make things work. You don't know if he is goin out and havin fun jsut to come home and have someone to talk to on the internet. I met my girlfriend online (know sounds sad) and we have been together now for 3 years. But we were in same zip code so could meet and hang out. It is very hard to have a long distence relationship. My opinion, be friends that talk on internet but don't be b/f g/f.
2007-11-17 12:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by JAY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 10:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with someone to see if they really love you? That's a whole new level of manipulative and I think you're my new hero.
Don't stress so much about online relationships. Find someone who you can see and touch and smell. That will fix most of the relationship problems right away.
2007-11-17 12:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by Been here before 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go find someone in real life that you've actually met and is around where you live...think about it - long distance relationship, you've never met him, etc...not a good idea. Who knows, he might be some 50 year old man behind that computer
2007-11-17 12:06:19 · answer #10 · answered by puffer fish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋