Im 15 1/2 and ive not yet kissed a guy.. is that a bad thing or not...all my friends have and most have gone further, they think im wierd for not...but im just shy and havent found the right guy..plus i need the guy to make the first move (cause im nervous)...
2007-11-17 11:34:17 · 70 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not bad at all. Stay young as long as you can.
2007-11-17 11:37:22 · answer #1 · answered by All Knowing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sweetie. Nothing is wrong with you. There are TONS of girls who haven't had their first kiss or a boyfriend yet. Take me for example. I'm 18 years old. I got my first kiss when I was in 7th grade...but I've never had a "real" boyfriend before.
Your time will come. Don't give into peer pressure.
My friends look at me different just because I've never had a boyfriend and cause I'm still a virgin. While they have had tons of boyfriends and cause they lost their virginity at the age of 15. They think that its really rare for an 18 year old to be a virgin, when its not. They make it seem like I'm this ignorant little girl. Well, honey, you make your own decisions. The only reason I haven't had a boyfriend is because I chose not too. I have had plenty of guys ask me out. But it was my decision not to date them. Its YOUR decision to kiss a guy or not. There's nothing wrong with you. Don't kiss any random guy just so you could get your first kiss. Share it with someone special. I regret my first kiss. I didn't like the guy THAT way.
Your time will come...I promise.
2007-11-17 19:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by Destiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a bad thing. Actually it's quite normal. I was about 15 when I got my first kiss. You have plenty of life to live. You have time to get that first kiss. Some women don't like to make the first move, which is fine. Just wait for the right guy to give you that special first kiss. There is no rush.
2007-11-17 11:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right time has not come so no, there is NOTHING wrong with it. There really is nothing to it so don't be nervous. It really is something that just comes natural. I admire you for waiting. That is awesome. Your friends just say that because they've already given that first kiss (and maybe more) to someone that it may not have really even meant anything. On the other hand, you have the opportunity to save yourself for someone very special. You will know when the time is right and whatever you do, don't give in and kiss someone just because your friends are doing it. That is called peer pressure and you are stronger than that. You go girl! :o)
2007-11-17 12:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a good thing because it means your still innocent to this kind of stuff which is rare these days. Just dont worry about it, im a 15 year old girl and i havent kissed a guy or even had a bf before. My friends all had a bf and have done way too many things that shouldnt have been done at such a young age. They think im weird and stuff , but who cares , i think its stupid to have a bf for no reason..what is he goona do for you anyway. Im a muslim , so im kind of against this stuff and its kind of a good thing because you dont really get hurt or rejected by dumb boys. They just want you for your body obviously. We all choose to believe that they dont , but its true, they dont like you for you , they like you for your physical appearance , but then they start liking you for you when your in the relationship. Im not saying that all guys are this way, but many are , so dont be fooled by any guys out there. stay clean and wait for the right time , when you feel right kissing someone, rmemeber dont do it because your friends do it.
2007-11-17 11:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is fine. The guy should make the first move. Furthermore the right guy has to make the first move. For the rest of your life it will be remembered as your first kiss. So don't let it suck by being something you let happen and didn't want. They (your friends) are probably jealous because they messed up their first kiss or wish it had been with someone more special. So don't settle for less, wait til it feels right. Don't worry to much about it when it feels right you will know and you won't be nervous.
2007-11-17 11:40:52 · answer #6 · answered by cindy_short2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is perfectly okay, don't let your friends or anyone else pressure you into any thing that you don't want to do or are not ready for yet. Wait untill you know it is the right time to do it (which isn't always the first time somebody tries to make a move on you). It'll happen when it happens, I wouldn't worry about it too much. Oh and also I have a friend who is got his first kiss at 19 and he was just fine (and still is).
2007-11-17 11:39:31 · answer #7 · answered by mtrettin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is a good thing...because ur not alone I am 17 and I am about to be 18 in march and i have just found that right person to kiss so i dont make a big deal out of it..... i think that this person is really special.....so when u tell ur special someone u have not had a kiss yet they will think of u as someone precious...as he does me dont flip out u will be fine.....if it came to u making the first move it will happen u will feel the urge to kiss him....so in due time....
2007-11-17 11:43:41 · answer #8 · answered by Biryd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
defiantly not i am also 15 yrs.old and haven't kissed or dated a guy yet either. But all my friends also pick on me about it but i don't care cause i know what type of boyfriend i want and i am also waiting for the right one . BUt it is certain girls have different standards from others i personaly like to take things slow with a guy i may be talking to and getting to know him and vice versa so don't be ashamed you will end up finding that guy and when you do kiss it will be a very special moment for the both of you.
2007-11-17 11:47:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah...your like my twin! ahaha im 15 1/2 too and i havent kissed a guy yet either and im shy too and rather have the guy make the first move. but im not in a rush you should save for someone special and all your freinds that have gone further are going to regret it later on in life. plus just act like you own the world in front of guys or the guy you like its fun..haha
2007-11-17 12:23:06 · answer #10 · answered by 123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! I Don't think that's a bad thing at all.
When you find the right guy who is worthy of a kiss you'll know
Just know that you have a reputation to protect....and guys do talk and stretch the truth...
And as for not wanting to make the first move that great...it shows that your not to forward...
Your first kiss should be special and memorable not something you rush into just to get it over with.
2007-11-17 11:41:20 · answer #11 · answered by C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋