Does my DENTIST want to DATE ME?????

Question

i go in the other day for a anual exam an he goes all sayin how he sees me in the grosery store an I thout it was kinda weird (&cute) but kinda impresive caus he's not too bad lookin. not all nerdy like alot of dentists where their going bold, rinkled, and smelly. THIS dentist is cashual cool, smells good (i would LOVE to know what he wears!!!) and then usually the doctors wear the face masts when they get all close to hte face but he didnt wear one!!!! WHY? I been havin all these fantisies sinse I saw him on Thursday. I DREAM about him, and I think about him all thu the days, I cant even stay focus'd and now im thinking that he feels the same way becaus all the signals are leadin up to that:

1. Said he saw me in the grosery store
2. didnt wear a face mask when he got on top of me
3. Told me "there there honey its going to be ok"
4. Devilish smiling

AND No. 5 is HE'S NOT MARRIED. This is a chance of a lifetime for me. no one person with alot of money has done this so Im really confused on how to take actsion. I AM OBSESSED. So im wondering if he is probabaly feeling the same way????????? He gets all kinda shy and squirmy lookin and i feel its mutual so I dont want the secretary or anyone in his office to know about this. I always lookin nicer now caus I know there may be a slight chance to see him, (or to meet another nice person, I am so lonely for a man if you know what i mean!! (2 weeks!!!!!!!!) So im hopin to scoop a new one up. Hopefully this time with money: so: how do I make proper advances???????? I want to seem like I have intilect and a decesent education, word wise. I know im not the greatest speller but when I talk you cant read the words. So how should I make proper advances towards my dentist???

Should I leave him a note???? or send him a letter?????

H--EEEEEEEE---LLLLL--P

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Answer 1

He doesn't want to date you he just wants to put his drill in your mouth

Answer 2

First, how old are you? You sound pretty young by the way you are talking about the situation. If you are young, you are most likely taking his actions wrong and he is just being friendly/nice.
Even if you are 18+, he is most likely just being friendly. Just because he saw you in the grocery store doesn't mean he is interested in having a relationship with you.
If you feel I am wrong and you are right, do not send him a note or letter- just mention hanging out sometime or if he is interested, he will ask you.

Also, you are talking about going after him especially because he has money. Plenty of wealthy men are as*holes so you shouldn't go after someone just because they have money. Does personality not count anymore?

Answer 3

Wow, you really look like you're having a hard time dealing with that.

First thing you have to do is calm down. Then, you should try to talk to him (whatever's the best way) and tell him that you might have a thing for him. Then, it's wait and see his reaction.

You seem like you're in need of a man, but don't be as much on a hurry as that. Take your time. And money doesn't make a man. Trust me, I'll have a relatively lucrative job in the future (I'm a chemical engineering student) and it doesn't make me any better.

Answer 4

first of all, whats the age difference here? that's a MAJOR factor and im surprised you didnt include...maybe you didnt because hes around your age but i dn. i do NOT think its a good idea at ALL if you're a minor that is bad bad bad. however if youre closer in age, i think it might be a good idea but you may want to find a new dentist if you're going to start dating. could be weird. esp. if you break up and still have to see him...awwwwkwwaaarrrdd

um, also 2 weeks is not a long time to not be with a guy. learn to masturbate, seriously.

Answer 5

1. How old is he?
2. How old are you?
3. Do you have another appointment with him?
4. For how long have you been his patient?

Maybe he is just flirty,it is kind of hard to see what his intentions are, but be carefull, I dated a doctor when I was his patient, and believe me, it was the worst mistake I ever made. Be carefull especially if you are much younger than him.
Anyway, good luck :)

Answer 6

Good thing he's not your Gyne!!!
My dentist, gyne, ENT & one obscenely HOT Dr. were like that with me. I took it as customer service & friendliness. Grocery Store says community. He remembered your face. They are supposed to have great smiles or why would you want them for your dentist?
They are supposed to tell you it will be ok.
If you are interested, just leave a note asking if he would care to get coffee or a bite to eat (excuse the pun).
He might say yes & give you a smile!

Answer 7

Forgive me, but you sound a little goofy to me.

And I think you're reading a lot into a little. Dentist nowadays, if I''m not mistaken, are required by law to wear a mask. I would look for another dentist if I were you.

Wotan

Answer 8

You sound like you're a middle teen. Your dentist had gone to college and dental school. He has to be at least ten years older than you are and an adult. OK to have a crush but don't act on it. You will both be embarrassed.

Answer 9

hmm..this is a hard one..
but um..I think he doesn't really like you in that way..I think he's just being nice and friendly..you know
if you think he might like you...then the best thing to do in my opinion..is to just talk to him..and ask him if he feels the same way about you..
on the other hand, if you leave a letter or a note..he might think your too of a coward to actually go and talk to him in person..
well I don't know if you think this is a good solution..but I'm just trying to help...
good luck!!
:)

Answer 10

It is pretty much wrong for a dentist to ask out one of his patients. So I assume thats probably why you will never be asked out by him. So...ask him out! Leave a note with your number, or just ask him out casually like maybe we should go get some soda sometime?

Answer 11

NO0O0O0! DO NOT MAKE THE FIRST MOVE! you might embarress yourself if he isnt realle into you. he should make the first move, it is much safer that way. and no offense, but if you leave a note or letter, its gonna be like a little girl in love givin it to her crush. (thats cheesy) yeah,yeah im kinda mean, but hey, i just dont want you to end uup crying?