does this mean im not in-love with him any more? im very attracted to other men. is our relationship doomed?
2007-11-17 14:15:43 · 12 answers · asked by amber 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have heard that there is this trend going on, i can not post it here if u like just e-mail me and i will tell you what i have heard then it will be up to you and your husband.
2007-11-17 14:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by not fair 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you leave your husband now and go be with another man. You'll find yourself in the same situation again in 6 years. Then what do you do? Divorce and start over again? Do you keep this cycle until the end of your days? Instead of being attracted to other men, try focus that energy back on your husband. You'll find another way to love him. You are not just lovers now. You are a family. Your bond is much deeper then just physical attraction between a man and a woman. I can tell you, right now, no men is willing to do the things for you as he will. You should ove him for that.
2007-11-17 14:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is more than attraction. Love changes with time. It doesn't mean you are not in-love with him anymore. If he loves you and shows you how much he cares, you can fall in-love again. If his feelings or behaviors towards you have changed, then that might be why you are starting to be attracted to other men. It has to do with his feelings too. Love is always a two way street (Infatuation is the one way street).
2007-11-17 14:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by hachikoheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with this a lot. We ALL go through this stage. You're married and you've reached the comfort zone. All of a sudden it doesn't feel like high school infatuation anymore. But guess what, this kinda of thing that you're going through is expected at some point. But I promise you, it will change again. Best thing about this--- your love for your husband will only get stronger. So hang in there. We all go through this!
2007-11-17 14:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are wanting other MEN! then the relationship is pretty much doomed. Why would want to risk unfamiliar territory, lies, bad sex ect... to be out there without someone to love you.
2007-11-17 14:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have commitment and responsibilities to your husband and family. Not because you don't feel attractive to him is enough reason to leave him for new one. That's only a signs of weaknesses you are and you need to overcome this feeling to prolong or survive your married.
You must be honest to your husband and any problem you have must be discussed with him to trust you with respect.
2007-11-17 14:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no excitement is more like it. Oh, the lust in you is coming out. You two should get out and do some wild things, have some fun, or travel around ... Until then you can say whether you're still attracted to him or not.
2007-11-17 14:22:34 · answer #7 · answered by KarenaT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can still be in love with him, but what is YOUR definition of love? If you're not happy, you have to do something. Get him to a gym, or new clothes, but at least talk to him about it. Guys don't understand hints, you need to say it. Good luck.
2007-11-17 14:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't attracted to him anymore why are you staying? If you have kids stay for their sake but if you don't move the F on.
2007-11-17 15:17:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a feeling if you got married its there you just have to look for it and i would sit down with him and try to fix the problem
2007-11-17 14:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋