It's been like 3 weeks at my new job and it's been hard for me to open up and be myself. It's not that I don't talk or I'm shy but I find myself talking in a tone completely out of my style. I don't know if it's just me or if it's my co-workers' faults for being so damn quiet and showing no sense of humor. Any ideas on how to get people laughing and having fun at work?
2007-11-17 19:09:28 · 11 answers · asked by ReelTru 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all, it's OK to be you! Secondly, you should not be trying to get people to laugh and have fun at work! You should be more serious and you should not be looking for ways to make people have fun at work! Work is a place of seriousness and your not wasting your time on frivalties! You should be doing your work and beind all you can be with your employer and not wasting time trying to get people to laugh and clown around at work!
Much Love
Peace & Happiness
2007-11-17 19:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what u r saying, i have worked with people who seem like they could never laugh in their life. I would just encourage you to be your normal self, be who you were before you worked this new job. You would be amazed how much ones personality can leak onto others and make a difference. Just keep at it and they should come around, if not just be upfront with them, especially if you are going to be working pretty close with them.
Also, someone above had said that you should be serious at work and not try to make people laugh, i totally DISAGREE with that. Why the heck should life be all serious. There is nothing wrong with having fun, also a lot of times have a positive happy attitude in the office can improve ones work. I do believe that there is a time and place to be serious but not all of the time, and also one can focus and work while also having fun. So dont turn into a tightwad and just continue to be yourself.
2007-11-18 03:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by tmail86 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that there is a time and place for everything, However; not knowing what kind of job your working at makes it difficult to answer with any great answer.
In my life I have found it easier to just be myself and not fake it through life. I am not an Attorney so it is easier for me than them. imagine cracking jokes with the judge in a court case, not a good idea ey? If you work at McDonald's you can joke with co-workers more maybe, still be careful dealing with the customers.
They don't call it work for nothing lol your getting paid to represent someone or something and have to have a CERTAIN AMOUNT of professionalism. If this is your first job then you should let us know what you do and then you may get better more descriptive answers. Good Luck XXOO
2007-11-18 03:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by Gods lil Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me I've noticed that laughing and
fun time is not for all, or to be done on
all jobs.
The joking around.
So you learn who you can, and can't with.
A Co-worker told me I have a
" No non-sense type attitude ".
He was right.
I have a very serious job.
So I might laugh, joke, then it's over
for awhile.
Not to drag out to go on, and on,
and get silly with it.
You may need to get together with
friends after work to have some fun.
2007-11-18 03:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people want to get on with their work quietly without some bumptious annoying twit making unfunny jokes all the time (no offence!).
If you say something really funny, people will really laugh. Otherwise I suggest keep quiet because at 3 weeks you are VERY new in the workplace!
2007-11-18 03:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew L 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i was the same way when i worked at a motel and it was the other workers they made me feel uncomfortable, they put me down, they were always asking why i was wearing the clothes i was wearing and they were mean but kinda in a nice way and i stayed stressed! so maybe its something like my situation or maybe you dont realize but your nervous or afraid of what they would say or think of you. i dont know because i have the same exact problem!! but what helps me is : i prayed b-4 work and it helped. but it also helped if i got up a little earlier and got more fixed up so to where i knew i looked good and when you have more confidence it really helps soooo much because it kinda blocks it out if they do say something or put you down cu hey at least ya look good lol j/k but i would pray if u need help on how or what to ask of GOD. then contact me and i can give u a website that really helps or if u just have questions about it itll work though! just keep your faith
2007-11-18 03:17:43 · answer #6 · answered by big girls dont cry 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I understand.Its a new job.They're relatively new to you.You've only known these people a little while,you have'nt forged any friendships yet.Imagine how you act with your best friend etc... you are probably comfortable and relaxed around them.You know what humor they have and their personality.The best idea is to invite them out somewhere,get to know them better or just try talking to them more.They'll be flattered you want to know about them and hopefully you will form some strong bonds :)
2007-11-18 03:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From experience...you are out of their loop. but it's only been 3 weeks. Just listen to their tone and try. All you can do is try!
2007-11-18 03:13:34 · answer #8 · answered by ugh192 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It often take the people in any work environment to start talking to the new guy. Be patient.
2007-11-18 03:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by Chaz Vegas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try blowing some reaver head off, that'll get their attention.
2007-11-18 03:13:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋