This is what I wrote and read before she passes.
Dear Mother,
I just want to thank you, for some of the things I inherited and learned from you.
Because I was born to you…
I am artistic!
I am out-going and gregarious
I am warm and compassionate.
I am creative!
I am also “hooked” on jewelry!
I’ve learned to appreciate the finer things in life.
I have learned about my Hungarian roots and what a czardas is.
I know how to be organized.
I have a sense of style and design. (Of course!)
I know that the secret to a successful marriage depends on mutual respect, trust, and being considerate of the other’s feelings.
These are the things you taught me that helped me grow.
These are the things I’ve taught your grandchildren, S---- & M---.
For these things, I thank you. I love you. N--.
Did you write your goodbyes? Did you read them aloud to your dyining relative?
I'm glad I did. I can accept her death because I had a chance to tell her how I feel.
Did you?
2007-11-17 19:14:03 · 6 answers · asked by ThisIsIt! 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is a wonderful way to help you deal with it. I didnt get a chance to tell my mother those things, but I did write somethings down after she had passed and it helped me.
I think whatever way helps you deal with a sitituation like this is a plus.
2007-11-17 19:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by firefly06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom ... great God ... she's still alive .... I am really really greatful of what she did for me.... taking good care of my kids ... while I'm far.. far... working abroad.
I don't know what will gonna happen without her. I always pray that God give her more years to live.
I am far from her and its more than 5 years now I never seen her. My heart aches everytime I remember of her. How I wished I could hug and kiss her and say .... I love you and thank you for everything.
Sometimes we used to talk ....as a joke to hang on.... and wait for me .....
How I wish .....
2007-11-18 03:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by always confuse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mum is still alive but I wont have any regrets when she does pass as I feel I have always done (or tried to do ) whats right for her, by her and to her.
Many people will feel regret as they have not stood by their mothers or done the right things for their mothers and hence will never be able to forget or forgive themselves......
2007-11-18 03:22:00 · answer #3 · answered by aunt_webby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never knew how much my mom held our family together until she passed and everything fell apart. i wish your family the best of luck.
2007-11-18 03:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by Nikel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always tell my mom and dad how i feel but thank you and good luck its not easy losing a best friend and that's what they are
2007-11-18 03:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-11-18 03:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by jls10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋