What if you really care about someone, and feel really attracted to them, but they're just all over you 24/7??? I'm talking about someone who never seems to take their eyes off you, wants to kiss and hold you constantly, and is always touching and stroking you in a sexual way? Sure, it sounds like there are a lot of worse problems to have, but too much of even a good thing can wreck it. And how do you talk to someone like this, who is extremely sensitive to criticism, about the problem without crushing them or making them feel inhibited?
2007-11-17 17:26:09 · 14 answers · asked by joe friday's grrl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And when I say won't take their eyes off you, I don't mean in a jealous or insecure way, but just always looking admiringly at you, and seeming to want to catch your eye to exchange smiles and mouth "I love you" every few minutes.
2007-11-17 17:47:55 · update #1
They wouldn't be all over you 24/7 if you weren't with them 24/7.
2007-11-17 17:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by Linni 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be unhappy just to make him happy?
Communicate, let him know exactly how you feel.
If he can't meet you at least half way on this, then you have a major decision to make.
And i would say leave him.
I'm not big into smothering public affection.
And if the person I'm with can't respect that, then I'm not the right guy.
If you're meant to be, you'll be able to find an answer that satisfies both of you.
2007-11-17 17:38:43 · answer #2 · answered by Rik S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very difficult situation. When you accepted the affectionale behaviour that bothered you and allowed it to continue, the other person assumed you enjoyed it. Unfortunately when you tell them later that you don't like what they are doing, they will feel rejected, and rightly so. They will feel you no longer care as much for them. You will have to very gently discuss it with them, and frame it as if it is you who has the problem, rather than being critical of their behaviour. Good luck.
2007-11-17 17:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just don't realize what you have. I am a very emotional and physical person my self. I have a very wonderful man but i am still longing for all the kisses,hugs, and cresting that i long for.!!!! So i guess my answer is that be grateful for it now cause in the long run it will be few and far between later in the relationship. if the relationship is long term you will be wanting it later so don't look a gift horse in the mouth take it and soak it in because if this is the one person for you, you will be looking for it later!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-17 17:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that person needs to respect you. It seems that at the present the man or women your talking about does not have respect for you at all. There are other ways of showing effection, and it seems this person hasn't learned them. You need to say what you feel. It shouldn't matter if you hurt thier feeling or not. It's your body, and you deserve respect.
2007-11-17 17:30:27 · answer #5 · answered by chicata25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
approximately my ex: a million. i replaced into in no way in love with him; I purely cared for. (Nor have I enjoyed all people) 2. His acquaintances have been finished jacka@@3S. 3. I advised his brother that he wanted to finger me in the sea. 4. i'd in no way have concept to lose my virginity to him. 5. His brother "enjoyed" me. 6. His mom hated my guts so i needed to throw a wrench at her. 7. i replaced into/AM too reliable for him. 8. I hate how he has no ambition nor course in life. 9. I knew all approximately the different females. 10. I couldnt have faith him a million/3 of the time yet he made me have faith that i replaced into specific so I stayed. SO SO such countless greater.
2016-09-30 23:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had one of those - turns out he had a lot bigger problems (heeeuuuuuuge!!!). Those are called "red flags" and they should be telling you this person is horribly insecure and can't communicate appropriately (especially since he/she's overly sensitive to criticism, too). Is this person overly "nice" to people's faces, too, but complains about being taken advantage of behind their backs? If so, I guarantee this person's going to make you miserable eventually.
2007-11-17 17:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've just gotta talk to them about it, and just be honest. if you wait any longer, you're going to just wanna leave them due to resentment. you need to just explain to him/her that you need breathing room. that you love them, but that you gotta have your space too. and just be honest and let them know that they are pushing you away. if you seem concerned about making the relationship work rather than concentrating on them being overbearing, it will go over more smoothly. if they don't understand, then it would be hard to deal with them in the future when other issues come up, so maybe you don't need them in your life.. hope this helps!
2007-11-17 17:34:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you guys like a new couple?? Believe me..all that will change once you two get to know each other better...You must be pretty HOT....
2007-11-17 17:30:13 · answer #9 · answered by Miss H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its called groping and stop it before it gets out of hand. say to him, look your constant attention even tho i love it you need to let me breath and talk about personal space. my used to grope and it drove me crazy until he stopped. he sounds a little obsessive, if he starts telling you you cant see your friends run baby run
2007-11-17 17:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by sheilasays 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋