When i'm using my laptop he comes up from behind and kisses my cheek softly. i havent ever asked him if he's gay because i've seen him with women, but i have never had a guy be so sweet and tender with me. its adorable but i dont want to assume he has boyish feelings for me. what should i say to him?!?
2007-11-17 21:23:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Possible. Suddenly kissing you on your cheeks in "that" way is definitely something. Try not to sound offensive when you tell him. You just have to tell him directly. For example, you say you have a girlfriend and lately she's been quite jealous and mad because of what "he" did so if he don't mind, would he stop doing that. Unless you actually enjoy doing so.
That's just an example for a way to say it so it won't hurt his feelings. Good luck!
2007-11-17 22:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he foreign? I know that in some countries it's appropriate or expected for males who are best friends to kiss each other.
On the other hand, er, I've never seen any of my male friends do that. Ever. I don't want to sound like a jerk, but it's not normal behavior... even between girls who are best friends, and girls are usually more touch-y... it really does sound like he has a crush on you.
Don't bring it up in a way that's accusatory or anything, just sit down with him and ask him why he does things like kiss you on the cheek, etc.
As a side note: You seeing him with women means nothing. I have had gay friends who dated women before they 'came out', and it's possible that he could also be bisexual.
2007-11-18 05:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by Hanasays 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Merely ask him what that kiss was for the next time he does this and also why he always does so whenever you are on your laptop. Tell him you appreciate his affection but that it is distracting. If he is as sweet and tender as you say he is, then you should be able to confide in him and discover his intentions. Good luck!
2007-11-18 05:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by Levi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are also curious. Next time he is on the laptop, do the same to him and see what happens.
2007-11-18 05:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by Linda P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he offer to dry your back? if a man kisses you and he aint related by blood.
he wants you so he is gay or bi - curious.
tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable since he isnt a brother or sister mother father or uncle and he kisses you like that?
2007-11-18 05:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by crazzijimsmith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck any man that kisses another man is definately curious.
2007-11-18 05:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by Rebjam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's pretty safe for you to assume that he likes you..in "that" way. You don't really have to say anything..just return the affection, if you like it.
2007-11-18 05:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm thats just a bit too odd for a strait guy to do u betetr watch it
2007-11-18 06:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by Christa_420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO you like it? If you do then smile and kiss back. If you don't like it, say something like ummm what r u doing ? be jestful but firm
2007-11-18 08:26:12 · answer #9 · answered by punxsyparty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must ask him about that woman.
and if he say that, she is only a friend, then just talk face to face, and directly say "i love u"
do u really like him?
good luck.
2007-11-18 05:29:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋