2007-11-17 20:02:58 · 11 answers · asked by mpiskjh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes i do.
It sucked for some, and was a damn good change for others.
For the friends in school it wasn'r a good change at all. It ripped up there stable life and caused tons of stress and guilt. It also affected their relationships with everyone else.
Avoid it if at all possible. UNLESS you have a really good reason or you're just miserable.
2007-11-17 20:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by kf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 44 and divorced. My kids are sleeping in my house tonight. The mother does not know I am filing full custody for them by the end of this month, but she has turned contempt of court issues into an art form. It has been a war.
I got divorced at the end of my military career. I let my then wife get her bachelor's first. Three years later, all I have is the Associate's degree I earned right before I left service. She's making forty bucks an hour as a registered nurse and trying to snowball me with bills, sending a lot to the Philippines where she was born.
The pain is tremendous but I will never quit showing that charity begins at home. Home in America, that is.
2007-11-18 04:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! And I told her the past was just a learning experience. Makes them cautious. But she found the real thing with me. She has 3 boys and that neither a problem. I look at that as my head start on having sons. No diaper changing, right into the good parts like fishing camping, football, baseball, teaching them all the knowledge of what I learned. Divorced women may be the better choice. They know what they really want in life,
2007-11-18 04:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by genghis1947 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women with children, standard of living goes way down, and since he's the one with money and power, all the friends still include him and exclude the wife. i know of a couple of husbands who had wives who made more and the husbands were the ones who took care of the kids. same thing. the one with the most money and power wins the friends. these people found themselves living in places they never would have imagined. this also is a time of growth. most of these same people went back to school and eventually, slowly climbed out of the hole they were in. they also realized who there real friends are. that's priceless.
with small children, dating isn't even an option. most had to wait until the kids were alot older. if possible try not to get involved with men who claim that their daughters are "daddy's girls" and vice versa. or sons who are "mama's boy"....... it's a nice way of saying..."spoiled brat will not change and will make your life miserable." knowing what i know now, i would have RUN. after you get married, it will get worse.
it's not the end of the world. alot of people realize that they should have tried harder in the marriage because history will just repeat itself in the next relationship. being single is a nice place to be. no one telling you anything. i know if my husband passes before i do, i will never marry again.
2007-11-18 04:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by (!)listen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do .. My parents .. and honestly it sucks .. Its taken a huge toll on everyone in my family .. this divorce isnt so good ..
But one of best freinds- her parents split too .. and they still talk and have coffee .. ect .. just like freinds and it didnt really change too much for her .. just her parents were ment more for freindship then relationship ...
It depends on the ppl and the situation .. :D
2007-11-18 04:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was divorsed. my life changed from miserable to very exciting. i was dating a lot and travelling a lot. the best year of my life. then i met a perfect man and got married. now i have no complains about my life. so definitely getting divorced was totally worth it
2007-11-18 04:09:50 · answer #6 · answered by yeahright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though it does not change the Divorcee life, It does change there children. My parents separated and they both hate each other but are pretty well happy with there separate lives. I have changed dramatically though
2007-11-18 04:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by special_ned 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes my parents. We are curretnly going through a custody battle im in the middle. And we are so much happier.
2007-11-18 04:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by Aero 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have been divorced, and my life was changed. I was alot happy person.
2007-11-18 04:14:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'm divorced. My life is MUCH better.
2007-11-18 05:41:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋